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Date: 19.04.2010
From: Jill

Subject: members that know me

OK guys.....be honest, do I go about this site as IF I own it??? run it???? someone has taken out a Grievance on me(LOL) whinged to Trina!! The boss that owens thisd site....

so id appreciate pls from the Members that I do talk to and that support me and help me also, lets have a vote.....SHOULD I LEAVE OR SHOULD I GO??.....

thanks for taking part in this stooooppid post, but it might just show someone that I do my bit in here, and She doesnt!!
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: KayJay

Subject: Re: members that know me

No you should NOT go Jill. We really miss you when you are not posting and we know that's only because you are having an op or something. Keep on keeping on xxxx
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: MOONFAIRY

Subject: Re: members that know me

Moonfairy here, i have just read what this so called person has written we are not at infants anymore, some people on here need go grow up and be bigger than the shoe size that they wear. We don't pull rank on this forum, i have only been on here for a few months and everyone has been great, everyone on here is in pain and we have bad days, when i come on here i know that the sun will shine, Jill you know how much i love you and you support so many on this forum, you have got me through some tough days as have other people on here, i have come to know you as friends. What a load of B**S, The person in question should stop throwing toys out of the pram, and yes i am here if you want to speak to me. Jill thankyou for all the support you have given me on here, in answer to your question NO YOU SHOULD NEVER LEAVE THIS FORUM, so many of us will miss you, this person has nothing better to do than to attack people in pain, a little tact and diplomacy would not go a miss
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: Sally

Subject: Re: members that know me

I know what post you referring to Jill and I thought you were speaking figuratively on behalf of us all who had posted in response to Tracey's post. It was a nice & friendly gesture on your part and could not have been misconstrued otherwise i.e.you thinking you owned site. I found the response to your post aggressive actually and am not surprised you hit back. You have never intimidated me, esp when a newbie when you were welcoming and friendly and that is how I imagine nearly all of us here feel (whoops - might be falling into trap of thinking I own site lol!)

Seriously though, YOU SHOULD NOT GO Jill. Life would be dull without you.
xx
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: Jill

Subject: Re: members that know me

Thanks my friends, your response to this post r important to me, but for Trina to also see that Im part of this Forum, just like u lovely ppl.... wasnt looking for sympathy, that I dont Need, the other person needs that right enough, But I guess im making a point that Im not petty and rotten to ppl that I dont know(unless im under attack personally) I look after ppl, just like others do in here, we all do out bit, But I do resent being attacked and insulted......so as my m8s want me to stay and assuming Trina allows me to, then I will stay and do what I do best.....Listen, give tips, take tips, learn, understand, but most of all, give the time and emotion that some of us suffering members have to endure all day/weeks/months.....just to be here, for who ever needfs a reply and whoever can support me also, when I need it......thanks gang xx
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: valh

Subject: Re: members that know me

stay would not be any posting with out you. take care and do not let this get to you ,you do not need the stress
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: jill

Subject: Re: members that know me

thanks Val.... means a lot.....ive only ever tried to help others, like u do...how u been btw? since having this GB out, feel good considering was only 5 days ago x
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: shaz

Subject: Re: members that know me

hi all not been on for a while so a little confused as to whats going on why would anybody want to get rid of jill she is the nicest person anybody could want for a friend she does her best to help when we are feeling down tries to give moral support through the dark days when struggling with the pain or the terrible side effects of the drugs that we have to take as well as having to deal with a family of her own plus all the health issues she as of her own if she was made to leave this forum it would be a sad loss to us all i for one would miss her she a true friend so now i will try to figure out who got a problem with honest opionions jillypops hope u ok babes lol
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Date: 19.04.2010
From: Amelia

Subject: Re: members that know me

STAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :D
i love coming on here and reading through all your advice, i don't put many posts on here but you always make me feel welcome and make me smile this forum wouldn't be the same if you weren't on here. Tc xx
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Date: 20.04.2010
From: Abbie

Subject: Re: members that know me

Jill, you MUST STAY! (((Jill))) XXX
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Date: 20.04.2010
From: Jill

Subject: members that know me/TRINA

Thanks again Guys, I decided to put this topic up becos an unknown person to me,named 'SKY' has grovellled to Trina, moaning that ive insulted her(Idid of course) but she caused it first!! simple as that....she insulted me, and I Insulted her back, that was the finish of it, but no, she complains to Trina(Leader of the Forum, and I complained boput her to) so its getting silly, BUT however, seeing all your fab comments about me, means that I do help and support ppl, like U lot do to, You help me so much, we all help and I do as much as any of u good ppl......so this has been a worthwhile exercise, thanks so Much, and I Hope Trina will see that I need this forum, and I need 'The Gang'(i call u that) LOL........and that I dont usually get so angry as I did with 'SKY'!!!
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Date: 20.04.2010
From: Verity

Subject: Re: members that know me

Youre not goin anywhere Jill : ) like Val said the forum wouldn't function without ya. There are a significantly less amount of posts whenever youre in hosp! lol
Hope youre OK and not stressed xx
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Date: 20.04.2010
From: Lynn B

Subject: Re: members that know me

I would say hardly any posts...
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Date: 21.04.2010
From: maz

Subject: Re: members that know me

Hi Jill, im new to the forum today and don't know what has gone on before so maybe i should butt out, but you welcomed me today and were very nice, so please stay!

xx
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Date: 22.04.2010
From: Jill

Subject: Re: members that know me

hi Maz thankyou for your kind words, its all done and dusted now, o we r now back to a happy , informative forum.....Maz I havnt as yet read any other posts about u, what type of Artha r u suffering from, and meds etc......and also if u ned any help, tips, from any of us, we support each other to the hilt....tc Jill x
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Date: 22.04.2010
From: maz

Subject: Re: members that know me

Good morning Jill! I have rheumatoid arthritis and scoliosis of the spine, i have just started on humira and also take arthrotec, plus nexium and folic acid, also co-codamol when needed.

I must admit to not attending my rheumy appointments regularly in the past....hence the bakers cyst happening, my rheumy consultant has told me no walking anywhere outside, which can be more of a pain than the RA, lol. i am soooo dying to get out, we dont have a car so are pretty limited for trips anywhere, a shame really as i live in the gorgeous lake district.
There is only so much daytime tv i can tolerate but even jeremy kyle is looking interesting now!
but hey, there are lots of people so much worse off, so i do count myself as lucky, i love a chat and a giggle, like to think i can laugh at myself too!
A little tip from me, wear silky pj's in bed......no it has nothing to do with passion,lol, but it makes it so easy to turn over in bed when your joints are sore, you just kind of slide around. it works!
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Date: 22.04.2010
From: Jill

Subject: Re: members that know me

Maz, glad we have u on board, thanks for those pj tips lolol, I use to hate wearing them simply becos i did slide all over the place, but Now u mentioned it as a good idea, Im deffo goona give that a go....its blidddy fantastic that u told us that, would never have thought of that lolol....wow the Lake District!! Love that place, use to be there in my early 20s, use to get in my car early sat morn 3ish, drive all the way to the lakes, with fiance at the time, wow what a place, I live In East Sussex, gorjus here too,....regards a bakers cyst, is that on ya foot? can it Not be removed? also my daughter has scoliosis too, but to date she hasnt had anything done, it goes off to the right towards the lumber region!...how bad is yours? Humira is meant to have great results, as Enbrel does, Im on Enbrel, revently had Gall Bladder removed, so cant go back on that until week after nxt......speak laters, think ya fun...tc Jill xx
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Date: 22.04.2010
From: maz

Subject: Re: members that know me

Hi Jill, the cyst is at the back of the knee, does have its good side as i cant get on my knees to do the floors so hubby has to,lol, hey sussex is lovely, i have good friends there, yeah the lakes are lovely but expensive for a holiday cheapest way is to camp out, i can remember doing that in my younger days.......but we cant go into the details on here co's i'd get banned,lol.
anyhow i best go get dressed.......not that im sitting here naked....perish the thought,lol, catch ya later Jill been great getting to know you.
big hugs.
maz. xx
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Date: 22.04.2010
From: jill

Subject: Re: members that know me

aww thanks Maz, lolol know about ya getting dressed, im still wearing pjs, and comfy dressing gown, so warm....plus my tum is swollen fter my op....thats my excuse anyway lol.... love camping lololol...doing that end my, but not for thne reasons u did in ya younger days lolololol....your a nice girlie, and glad ya on board xx
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