Date: 09.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: jill
hi girl thinking of u hope things get sorted and school under stands u doing your best to get your lad to school. sure he misses his mates when they r there he will loose touch with them. so fingers r crossed that something gets sorted and u get less stress and feel better. GOOD LUCK AND BIG HUGS take care
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
Hi My sweet.....another day he had refused to go!!! im calmer now....now realisee hes never goning back under my parental rules, so something has got to give...either he givens in and does go....or I will have to tell social services to do the best for my son, if it means having to give up my rights as a parent and pass him back over to his dad, then i will have no choice...prob there is, his dad leaves for work at 6 in morn...and works 60 miles away from home!...he also lives 30 miles away from us...and that wld mean a diff skool...also my sone ignors wot his dad says too, plus my kid hits his dad!! so that wont work in reality...the only other option(which I dont want) but son is giving me no choice, so that he gets his education and doenst become another deliquent and drug taking alcholoc layabout, I have no choice, if the choice arisies to put him into social care (for a few weeks) they get him back into skool, and then mb, just mb he will realise wot ma fab family we r!! last nite he came bk down into the front room wanting to watch TV...I then got callled nasty names!! oh well hes making these stooopid choices for hius self....thing is he told me yesterday " Y do I have to go to skool anyway" ?? wot the foook! how crazy a question is that? mb there is summat lurking in his brain that keeping him from being rational! oh well got the peeps coming at ten...will c wot they can do! I think she suggested that she cld get him to skool in mornings, cant remember, but then shes doenst know my child...he will undermine her too!.... there is also a thing callled FLESS, its a home tutoring programmme for kids that cant, wont, or refuse to go to skool....son was offered that and guess wot? he refused to do it!!! so that wont work either.... oh well...ive decided to keep calm....if i can get 4 kids out of 5 to be goood decent human beings that r educated and respect peeps, then i can be proud, and I am so far proud of my kids that have done well, and r decent respecting kids....cant do any more than that...I refuse to get stressed over this little Nitwit, that abuses me!!
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: jill
that might work might give him a wake up call as know he loves u but as u say it not u your other kids r ok it is him for what ever reason he will not go so long as he knows it will lead to his being taken in care it is his choice and u can not drag him there he would not stay. so good on u do not let him affect the relation ship u have with the others not fair on them he needs help but if will not except it nothing any one can do except force him hope fully it will not get that far but not u him so keep sane and no stess(know this impossible )
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
thx Val..... doing all I can....up to him now....I cld still be proscecuted!! I use to read in papers about parents getting fiend, I know there r some that dont care wot their kids do.... but in my case, its ME that rang the social services, me that rang the education welfare to get support, me that got him support........so if I have to go to court lol I will have my say!...... its on record that I have done everything in my power to get all agencies involved to get child to skool..... I am no longer afraid of the system Val...im no longer worried about court(am if i get fined cos im skint!! lol) but im no longer scared of education welfare officers(EWO 4 short) leartn a lot.... funny that isnt it...... its like this shite diseae we have.....we r scared about apppts, docs etc....and when we fianlly see them, its all ok..... nowt to be scared of anymore, as it ceases to be the Unknown!...its like this Forum, we were nervous to mb come in and speak how we felt...... now we do it without thinking....thinks its becos Im a Taurean, im afraid of not a lot in life.....apart from Illness(sometimes) and my son!!!! lol
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: DELLA
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Subject: Re: jill
Hi Jill can you send me your email through facebook would like to chat with u about this going over the messages at moment ill explain when i email u privately xx
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Date: 11.09.2009
From: Kirsty
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Subject: Re: jill
Jill, sorry I've been away for so long. I really do hope you're okay and I send loads and loads or love and hugs to you. Hope you come back on and have a little giggle soon.
Take care xxxxxx
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Date: 11.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
thank you sweeetie,,,,,will be back soon for our little giggles lololol.... our norty giggles pmsl..... look after Val for me x kirsty u can have my moby too...its in another post ok xxxx
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Date: 11.09.2009
From: Kirsty
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Subject: Re: jill
Thank you, I'll have to find it :)
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