Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: pic( u might want to skip this)
ok those of u who put up with my moans will know got app. at doc in morning to see about going rhumy. have copied pic of skeleton and used arrows to show where stiff where pain and level of pain so will not get tongue tied lol bit of pain and very stiff today but feel good in my self. coming off tabs ment spent good part of yesterday giong to toilet lol think lost a stone silver lining every where
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
goood luck Val for tomoz....guess whot...my son refused to go to skool today!!!!!got a lady comning from skool at 12 to talk about this, shes like a type of welfare offficer, but nicer lol.... im sick with worry..... hes still complaining of being in pain in tum(gp found lump few weeks bk) taking him there at 2.20.... c wot happens i guess
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
hi they try to find a way to get children back even if just part time. she will have a lot of experience in this kind of thing and he could be in pain so get him sorted with doc tell her what going on with him. she is there to help u tell her u want him in school and what can she do to help u get him there also tell her about your problems they could be playing on his mind as well good luck fingers r crossed it will all get sorted my pal honest just some of us get it harder than others lol .
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
I Know thanks Val......told my fellla if he cant hack all this rubbish happeneing in this household, that Im ok if he wants to leave...I couldnt bear to be in his position...my babies r not his, so must be so hard for him....all he has ever known is my son being very hard work...rude, gobby, and a bully etc..... he beat my youngest up last nite to the point where he hurt his hand Hitting my son...I was in garden when this happened..... all this stresss is making me ill, and i know im going to have anotehr flare up sooner rather than later.... soz guys, i know this is offf topic, but I need to speak to Val... cos shes my m8...thanks for listening ¦valipops xxxx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
hi girl it is time u sat those kids down and explained in a way they will understand how they r affecting u they r all old enough to have some under standing now. u will be very ill if things not under control soon. as for your other half if he does decide not to hang around he needs his head seeing to, u r a great person and he knew u had family u have never hidden any thing from him so with luck he will pull his socks up and be there for u i could come and kick him up the b*m for u.u r there for all of us even though u r far worse than us thanks pal would not have head on straight if not for u
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Val yu r goona make me cryyyy....my fellla is fab val...he does support me, I felt shite and wanted to give him the choice.... if I was in his position, dont think i cld cope...hes been wif me 6 years now.... hes a goood man....but i feel sorrry for him...its like a mda house when Fraser is around!!! when hes at his ddads, house is calm, and the other kids r so happy!...makes me sad, love all my kids the same....but the older ones dislike him, becos hes ahandful, a bully, and rude! thats y docs think hes also possible that hes on the Autisitc spectrum...he has No empathy for anyone...tht isnt normal fora 12 years old to Not have by now.... anyway... will get diagnosos sorted asap... thanks for being my m8 Val.... lufffs ya lots.... and U keep my head in order too!! xx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
hi girl good luck sounds lovely guy u got there lock doors do not let him out unless to get u chocs lol got to get ready for work lol hope quiet bit stiff lol no tabs might take some thing before i go or will end up sat down all after noon good luck will check back later :-)
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Hi Jill sorry your having such a bad time of it at the moment.
First of all
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BIGEST EVER HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))) I wanted to offer my support too but i feel so helpless at this side of the computer. you do sound like you have a resl nice chappie there. Ive done a little research for you I hope may help you. The National Autistic society run an Autism helpline tel no: 0845 070 4004 open mon-fri 10am-10pm The helpline will take your details and query (getting help and support) and arrange for their community care case worker to contact you. They help with getting resourses from social services, local authorities etc. they may be able to get you some support for your boy and a little restpite for you. They know more about that kinda thing than me Hope all is calm there today, and hope you are feeling better. Take care hun we are always here to listen. xxxxxxxxx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Hi Val.. thats bril news that your going to ask to see Rheumy.. get back to us and let us know how you get on. XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
lynne great u found that no for jill she needs a little help at moment. lets hope doc app. went ok.
will be on tomorrow to let u know what happening feel scared well sort of asking her silly but do not do docs lol.
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Thats what I though Val as we know with arthritis if you don't ask you don't get plus nobody tells you any info on where to get help.
Hope the Docs went well Jill xxxx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Bump for jilley xxxx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Awwwwwwww just read this...I luffs u two!!! than ks Lynne for that info.... i just mite ring them.... see wot help can be offered... thing is Lynee...my other two boys have Aspergers(mild autism) but to think another son has, is unbeleivable for me...he doenst come across as being on the Autisitc spectrum... but then it is a complex condtion.... did u kn ow that Dyslexia is an autistic tenedancy? I beleive so is Dispraxia dn Add/.... amazing huh......its beeen sooooo goood to talk to u My m8s, honest, its been goood just typing it all out..... I will get my act together soon and be back to the Jilleypoppsypoos u both know lol.....(god im so silly, my name get worse everyday) lol..... anyway thanks gals and thanks Lynne for that Number....I wont lie, I do have it, but never used it.....but its lovely of u for caring xx
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
thought as much now we can nag u till u do lol
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Pmsl Val..... goood luck 4 tomox, will be thinking bout ya sweeetie x
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Naging you now jill in a good way like we did val you need the help girlxx val time for you to nag too xx we care jill
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
jill nag nag nag in the nicest posible way lol
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
i will call them tomoz, promise, wont let ua down... cos ya dont need the dtresss( lol I cant bear to be Naggged more like!!!)
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
we will u know we will.
got to go some stupid person made doc app. for 8.30 can u belive it booked taxi for 8.15 not walking lol
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
blimey.... thast early, but hey Valipops, if any help...I will be up at 6.50 preparing myself for waking up fraser.....will get him to skool if it Killls me tomoz, we have to leave by 8....gr tooo early...his skool decided they had to be in class by 8.40!!
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Date: 07.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Ring tomorrow sweetie nag in the nicest possible way xxx
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
hi good luck jill will be thinking of u up and showered lol thought better make effort calf killing me think it coming from hip or back lol falling to bits. try bribary works wonders
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
ok been burst into tears lol. told her how bad things getting told me to take napeoxin all the time lol asked if wanted to go rhumy so said yes if that ok told her about exaustion and she said there is something that mimics arther and causes exaustion so yet another blood test called in hospital on way home to get it done like a good girl. app with rhumy 6th oct so all sorted just have to wait we spend lot of time doing that lol
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Pleased your getting sorted val XXXXXXX
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
thanks how jill been ????
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
Hi Girls, just clocking on... Val so proud of u, things will get easier for u now, now that u r in the loop of things, docs and specialists and the like....dont mworry too much about your bloods, im sure u do have artha....but ya never know it cld be like Lynne had R.A....at end of the day, we all get same tretment when we r soooooo bad...so dont worry ok.....lol us three can now compare meds and our blood tests etc! welll done my m8s xx Lynnepoos, thanks for your support and love....x today has been another stessful day, but today i was more in control...new he wld not go in....tomoz at ten, I have a lady from the skool, mentioned her in another post(she helps all children that struggl with returning to skool, also sick children that havnt been in hops etc for years and now have to go to skool, ) so as u can see she is very experienced in all this, plus anotehr chap(senco) special needs etc...Im goon a be honest, cant see that he will return....not now, becos now h will be thinking " wot will teachers say, the kids will ask Y i havnt been in, and also im too thick etc!" theses r the things he saying to me....yest he admitted he lied to me, wasnt sickness, was Nerves...I told him that is Normal to feel nervous, that they were all in the same boat, together! yet he didnt go in, hye has set his self up to now find skool life harder...he isn t thick hes intelligent...... But today I punished him, told him" if u cant be bothered to go to skool, then u can stay in yur room(tool Xbox and TV away)...he d sit in front room watching TV!!!! he called me a retard, prat, idiot and told me to shutup!!...thats thetype of kid he is...hes rude and hes already bullied his brother within 5 mins of youngest gettting home!....this is goona be a uphil struggle... sorry to go on, had enuff alredy, becos he has been offf since January 2009! nearly a year! I cant take any more.... anyeay, im ok...mic supporting me, and will c wot happens tomoz when they arrive....xxx
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
ok Val and Lynne im goona call it a day, shattered, and eyes hurt bad...... will pop in tomoz, lol give u all an update!.....Love ya both xx btw val n Lynne.... wannna give u my moby number.... to be honest, I dont care if i give it out to u on here, any un wanted calllers will get my Wrath!!! lol...that way we can always keep in touch... cldnt bear to lose touch with U 2.....ya never know, this forum cld shut down..... so tomoz....will give u my moby, mb u can txt me bk, tht way i have ya numbers also....Im on 02 hope u 2 r lolol!! its just good to know that we r reachable having moby numbers.... if ya dont eant mime lol, will understand xx
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Date: 08.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
hi u need time out from him any one would we love our kids but still need time away from them if he home all the time. he should be using the time for something usefull if not in school not enjoying it not sure how u would manage this with him but if he is enjoying being at home there will be no insentive to go back and he needs to stretch him self or the future will be sad for him. wish could help u sure things will get sorted stick with it
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: j
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
VAl i dont understand the topic u say pic(u might want to skip this) been mean ing to ask u.....where is the pic??? wannna seeeeeeeeeee x u must be at work Valipops.....will try get on later to see how u r.....¦Lynnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyy where r yaaaaaaaaaaaaa x
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Date: 09.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
photo copied a pic of skeleton and labled it every where that hurt lost of places just in case she wanted to know knew would not remember if asked. but did not need it
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Date: 11.09.2009
From: Kirsty
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Subject: Re: pic( u might want to skip this)
That is such a good idea!!
But skeletons freak me out...
xxx
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