Date: 02.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: jill
hi not seen u on here for few days u ill ??. hope u ok and just getting kids ready for school. if not (((big hug)))
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Date: 02.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
She posted yesterday but have not heard from here today. Me hope she well tooo jillleypooos xxxxxxxxxx
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Date: 02.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
hi been unwell yest...still feel hot and sweaty, dizzy etc..... thought id pop in and see how my girlies r...hope ya all ok, and thx for thinking of me....xx
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Date: 02.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
Also my Sons birthday Anniversary...he wld be 20 today! seems like a long time to those that havnt lost a child/baby, time is irrelvant, time does Not exist when u have lost a baby, donesnt matter how long ago, it will always feel like Yesterday! but it never gets any easier...peeps that say time heals, obviously dont know!....anyway. James was born on 2nd died on the 3rd, dont want any sympathy,or Il cry, so no need to comment its ok..., jsut say a prayer for my baby, that will mean so much to me. just i think its stress that made me unwell...been building up and up over last week....im fine Lynne and Val, honest...xx
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Date: 02.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: jill
hi girl thought u were bit down. bet he was lovely did u get a photo, its good to remember u will never forget he was part of your life my friend and know u will always love him as much as your other children take care have a wine and get some one to give u a cuddle (((hug)))
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Date: 02.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
thanks for those beautiful words Val...your words r very true xx
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Date: 03.09.2009
From: Brenda
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Subject: Re: jill
I hope you feel better soon.. hugs :-)
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
ty xx
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
Mying 11yer old wont get dressed for secondary skool...its onlyu 4 2 hours..... no wonder I get stressed and get ill..... he hasnt been to skool for 9 bliddy months becos of a twat teacher tht swore at him..... has nothing but hell since that happened.... and now he wont go....he went to induction and now wont get dressed.......will end upm in bliddy prison at this rate.....STRESS causes physical probs, and i dont need this.... Help Lynne and Val...... how embarrassing this is, and then on Monday he wot go either, cos he hasnt gone today!...hes the errrrrrrrr aggressive one too.....poo chit grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr speak soon....goona go strangle the twit!!!!!(joking)
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
Oh Jill thats the last thing you need on top of everything else wish I could come there and help feel a little useless sat here at my computer, Sending you lots of good karma and millions of... HUGS..... Whats the social services doing for you .. anything.. probably nowt as usual.. i seem to remember you saying he was going to be assessed anything come of that or are you still waiting. Thinking of you Girlie.. Take care XXXXXXXXXXXX
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy he went!! tears in his eyes mind, felt rotten....but he loooked gorjus, hes a handsome boy anyway, jsut so damm mooody, he met his m8(only 3 boys from his viallage skool going) so bit daunting i guess... but he was happy, and hes going to Tea with his m8 he met....so Yipppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.... heres hoping Monday will be better....goood thing about this skool, is its infact a Sports college and he loves sport, so that will wear his brains out too....lol.....also they started the yr 7 lot today, to help them feel comfy for Mon......hes still having to be aasssesd...Cahms came here, and they also think he Just might be on the Autistic Spectrum..... im not so sure...he was born aggressive lol..... wannn hear summat funny...... earlier he kept saying hes got bad tum(hes being refered to bowel surgeon, as a few wks ago, gp found lump, and hes alsl losing blood down there) anyway, he went to the loo, thousand times..... he came out of there saying, er its blocked!.....well I thought OH NO!!!!! im still feeling sick etc.... went in there, no poo ets(soz gang) it was filled up with topilet paper and guesss wot else????? the Bliddddy toilet Roll too!!!!!! im sure he did that on perpose.........anyway, me thinking oh well, I will try and flush it!!! LOLOLOLOLOLO u guessed it....it actually flowed over the bowl and onto my floooor!!!!! and jsut b4 that....i knockked over a whole steaming hot cupppa coffeeeeee!!! grrrrrrrrrrrr wot a day lol
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
So hes off to school that will give you a little break.. but the nipper left you with a bit of cleaning to do little raskel .. Dont rain but it pours huh.. get your self another cuppa and put your feet up for a bit Hunny XXXXXXXXX
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
im goona go offfff to bed for a little while, gota get my other sons at 3.15..... still feel sick and dizzzzzyish...hated the driving just then...ok I think Val must be at work......will nag her later hehahehahehhe wont we Lynnneypoos xx ps if she stays away cos we r naggging her....i will go find her on Faceboook!!! pmsl
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
PMSL at that one Jilley she cant escape you can she lol.. me have to go too my m8s will be back soon.. have a lovely rest xxxx
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
Just a passing thought Jilley have you claimed DLA for your boys.. you prob have.. I know a neighbour of mine has claimed for her boy and got it cos he had ADHD and dispraxia???
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: jill
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Subject: Re: jill
yes Lynne thanks for asking....my first son, i claimed for him at age 11...he was diagnoissed at 4, didnt know u cld claim at the time...NO one tellls u....so my youngest son who also has Aspergers, ive claimed for him....x
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: Lynne
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Subject: Re: jill
I know what you mean thats why I though I should mention it. Thought you wpuld have claimed. One my mates gone to sleep, the other walking my doggy for me so I though id have 5 mins on here. for a break. Hope your feeling better. XX
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Date: 04.09.2009
From: val h :-)
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Subject: Re: jill
hi think might hide lol . sorry had to work can not win lottery lol. well hope he enjoyed it at school but he will still enjoy making u get all upset on mon so stay calm be ready for him tell him he has to go. mond u if they lock u up u will get away from the stress for bit soon let u out as your oh would be knocking on doors as would not cope without u. he will settle down if he gets some teachers he likes and in some of the teams football running ect mine would not miss school in case they could not play sport mad the pair lol
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