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Date: 25.06.2009
From: Jill

Subject: Friendships help disease

Hi guys,

jsut a thought b4 I go out with my dear m8s...

After everything in here yesterday(sorry again) its really important that you keep in touch with your goood friends, in the past ive let it slip, especially when ive gone into reclusive Mode, I dont do that anymore, I need my m8s around me, my girly chats etc, its important to have their love and care as I also give love to my m8s easily.... its harder when u fight this alone...Friends are Important!

Alway knew this of course, but been reflecting recently, and althou me and wayne were nasty to each other, I didnt really want to be, Im not usually a dipstick lol... but hey, cant be perfick everyday can i lol... Ivve made ammends with a complete stranger, so remember keep in touch with your real world m8s also

Stay well u lot x
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Date: 25.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

we will allow u the odd off day but not many as we rely on u 4 help and to keep us smileing would not be the same with out u look at another forum but not as friendly as this one so dont change we love u warts and all :-)
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Date: 25.06.2009
From: J

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

LOL.... well im glad to say val, I dont have warts! lol...thankyou for being kind...Hows ya Bod?!
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Date: 25.06.2009
From: Della

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

hehe warts ay no only joking jill. it's very important what you have wrote and i totally agree although i have only had this for a short while i have wanted to just shut myself away as i didn't want to go out hobbling along and with a gammy hand lol well i went out yesterday evening with hubby and 2 of my daughters we went for a roast and although my hubby had to chop up my food as though i was a baby i really enjoyed it and thought sod it . What i do think is if we had broke our arm or had something in plaster ppl would be able to see why u were hobbling or whatever but because arthur can't be seen they proberly wonder why he had to chop my dinner, felt like shouting out hey ive got arthritis and can't move my hands thats why he's doing it do u get wot i mean. But hey i expect its something u get used to anyway Jill dont go changing u make me laugh so much u have a wicked sence of humour and Val u r so supportive of us as well shame we all live so far apart would be great to meet up girls love to all xxx
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

u r great as well we might manage it one day which area u from ? having one of those nights just could not get to sleep tut tut so am on here poor micheal jackson? only 50?
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: wayno

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

michael jackson was never going to last long im afraid.
plastic hair, plastic lips,plastic body parts and above all huge stress.
rip michael jackson
yes we remember the music but lets not forget the darker aspects of his life that we all need to learn from.
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Blogger

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

Celebrate the good thing Wayno thats what you said in one of your other postings.

Being different puts the colour into life after all it is short if you live to 100

RIP Michael THIS IS IT

Sounds like you are in a rut complaining or do you not evalute your own postings? Ask shrink what they think

I am going out now not sulking if you reply just enjoying my life will look later tonight Have a nice day as they say in Never Land hahaha
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: wayno

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

yeh celebrate the good and forget about the dubious fascination with young boys?
sorry if i offended you by pointing this out about your idol?
live and let live eh!? or should that be turn the other cheek?lol
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Blogger

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

Not my idol i prefer the 3 Degrees when will I see you again Wayno I am definitely leaving my house now back later TTFN
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: wayno

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

nice one blog . talk later and have a great day.
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

there is good and bad in every one to different. i dont agree with all that has happened in his life but his music was good even if not totaly to my tast but 50 is no age and i agree stress has a lot to answer 4. have good day blogger :-)
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Della

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

who are we to judge we never knew him personally i was one who didn't believe all that crap about the boys yes he was strange he was a boy himself like they say but if we had had his upbringing then maybe we would crave what he did. God i still like to act like a child and sometimes do and i'm 47 so why couldn't he surround himself with things that made him happy.The press slatted him he couldn't live a normal life but he was an amazing person none the less god bless him x
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Lynne A

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

Friendship and forums like this are a boon to help deal with illness I have found. People who are close to you can often get bored with you talking about how you feel when your feeling particular poorly. So I find I tend not to say anything unless I am asked. A forum like this allows you to express your pain to those that understand it and can sympathies or even empathies. Sometimes that is all that is needed to get us back on track.. a little moan every now and then lets the stress and pain out and I feel better for it.. PS I do all the healthy things too.. just making a point that for me a forum like this is another tool to help me deal with the RA
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: wayno

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

good for you lynne, these forums are a good release valve from the pressure and stress that we build up in our lives.
its hugely damaging to put yourself under this sort of stress so yeah its a great way of adressing physical and emotional illness.
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Blogger

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

I'm back its great!

Dont stop til yoofe had enuf!

Hang onto the trees old lad

Looks like Michael let go :-)
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

hi lynne a. u r so right. with out this place to turn to more of us would keep most of the pain inside, as how can u understand untill u have been through good to hear from people wether its 4 moan or to pass on good news this place is great. thanks every one
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Blogger

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

You could say:-

You are what I have been looking for

A friend to call my own

Just call my name and I'll be there
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

bless u blogger where have i heard that before???
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Lynne A

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

Nice to see a little humour in here.. keep up the good cheer guys .. it lift's the spirits
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Jill

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

LOL Blogger u r soooo funny lol x I loved his Music... and wayne ya right he was odd... but hey, not goona slate a dead guy... I lved the Three degresss, amd david essex, and david cassidy YUMMMMMMMMMMMM, ooops gave my age away LOLOLOL....im still a kid at heart too Della.... I also look a picture of health and still a frigging goood looking chick!! well I do have to blow my own trumpet, no one else will LOL...Ok ok so my gorjus fella does. im sooooooo lucky
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Della

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

hehe i loved all those stars u did Jill lol mind u jill i'm a friggin ugly chick now lol but hey me hubby loves me lol xxx
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Blogger

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

everbody feels nice in the dark dont worry Della
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: val h

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

not going to ask how u know that blogger
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Date: 26.06.2009
From: Della

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

HaHa i love your sence of humour blogs have a great weekend xxx
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Date: 27.06.2009
From: Lynne A

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

Humour prevails once again..... Thank god
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Date: 28.06.2009
From: Jill

Subject: Re: Friendships help disease

LOL @ u lot x
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