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Date: 06.02.2013
From: Lynn

Subject: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies I've not been on as often and thought I would start a new thread as the others are very long I don't have time to read back since I was last in but I'm hoping you are all getting on good, I have a chest infection now so started antibiotics today and have to go back to see GP on frid morning to see if its improving! There is always something!
Anyway I'm going to try and sleep although this cough I have is a nightmare so I probably won't sleep anyway lol

Take care ladies x
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Date: 06.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well done Lynn! Sorry to hear you have a chest infection. My current ailment is a bad throat, thought it was thrush but not so sure now. As you say, always something.

take care xx
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Date: 07.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, oh your poor friend. I have every faith in the hspt she is in and I am sure she will make a good recovery. I am sure once you see her you will feel a bit better about it all.
My grandmother was 95 and smoked woodbines and weights I can still remember the untipped cigs hanging from her mouth as she did all her housework LOL. My mum is 87 and gave up smoking in her late sixties I hope I have the genes. I always tell my mum if I reach your age and I am as well as you I am having a party every year!!!
I got up this morning with A sore throat mum has a dry throat as well maybe it is some winter bug. H ubby had a sore throat last week.
The heating is all done lovely new white rads and the house is so cosy again. It was nice to get up and walk about in PJs rather than a great big cardigan.

Hope you feel better Lynn take care sweetie.

Speak soon Bsk and lets hope these sore throats dont hang around too long big hugs xxx
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Date: 07.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good to hear about your faith in the RF!
Weren't that generation something else? My dad is only a year younger than your mother and he's doing pretty well. Hoping I've got his genes!

Sore throat - aaargh! Still go mine. not sure whether thrush or infection. Will see how it goes tomorrow.
take care and thanks for hugs, same to you. xx
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Date: 07.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, mum had me in fits of laughing I was saying how nice and warm the house was. That set her off well these young ones to-day would think it was some sort of crisis if they had no heating. I remember when we used to burn all the old shoes on the fire and it stunk the house out but at least my Dad come home from work to a warm kitchen. These young ones think it is a punishment to get on a bus we had to walk. On and on but she gave me a real laugh at some of her mums antics. I know all the things my mum did to make ends meet. It taught me to balance the books when I got married.
Sorry your throat is still sore mine is getting worse as the day goes on.
Take Care xxxx
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Date: 07.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Your Mum sounds great! I bet she's got some fantastic stories to tell. Good thing she doesn't have to manage without central heating at her age.

My throat's improved tonight, thrush gone so that must have been it. How are you?

When is Rhona back. I miss her.
xx
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Date: 08.02.2013
From: Lynn

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning ladies we all seem to be having a rough time of it was back at dr this morning she sounded my chest it sounded clearer so I've to finish the antibiotics and see how it goes!

Hope you boh have a lovely weekend and these throats all clear up!
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Date: 08.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Lynn, glad you are getting better. I am slowly too. What a bore all this is!

Hope you have a lovely weekend too. It's going to be a cold one so stay warm.
xx
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Date: 09.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, well good job we are getting a new kitchen, the cooker left behind gave up yesterday right in the middle of the dinner cooking grrrr.
Well all in the bin and fish and chips had to be purchased. The chippie here is good!
Well it will be Sunday roast at the pub tomorrow (on no) LOL.
We have to wait a month for the new kitchen so Microwave slow cooker and George Foreman will be busy.Where there is a will theres a way.
Will have to work out meals and go and do a shop.
What fun.
Met my next door neighbours properly this morning they seem a lovely couple. Just a bit older than we are. The also have a German Shepherd.
Well have a lovely week-end I am glad you are both feeling a bit better. xxxxxx
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Date: 09.02.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

First the heating and now the cooker, poor Marlene! You can get those electric ring burners for about £30. Very good if you just want to boil an egg. Never managed to do one in the microwave - think they explode!

Pleased you've got good neighbours. How is your throat? Just realised mine is better!

Vile day here, cold and wet. Didn't go out.
Have a good weekend. xxx
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Date: 10.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, well I joked with my other half well we've been through a war and my mum fell about laughing ( I haven't) but it feels like it sometimes LOL. The hob is still working so I can cope for a few weeks.
My throat is good now and glad to hear yours is better also. Maybe one of those winter bugs?
It is raining here and has been all night so hopeful no snow.
I am staying in to-day, hubby doing a few jobs, putting blinds up and new light fitting.I am pottering around like a spare penny. haha.
Take care all xxx
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Date: 10.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Can I borrow your hubby please? Need someone to put up a curtain rail lol! I used to do all that stuff myself and it is so frustrating not to be able to. Will get a friend round later in the week if I can.

I've just looked at the forecast for London it says heavy snow this evening - shock, horror! Sincerely hope not. I'm fed up with winter.

Got my appt at Moorfields on Thursday and am really hoping they will give the go ahead to take the cataract out. Not being able to drive is having a major impact on my joints, though it is saving me petrol money I suppoose.

Watching the rugby later, looking forward to that!
take care Marlene. xxx
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Date: 10.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I would lend him out but he has a list as long as his arm lol.
Hope all goes well at Moorfields, my husbands family seem to suffer with cataracts and after surgery they said how fantastic it was. All done at the wonderful Moorfields.
Have you treated yourself to something nice out of the petrol money you have saved??
Oh lovely I thought maybe with all the rain the snow would give everyone a miss. I hope it does!!!

My daughter watches rugby i'm not that keen. Enjoy!!!!
Take Care and if it does snow stay home if you can. Wouldn't it be awful if Rhona had to stay in Spain because of the snow. ( I bet she would love it haha).I do hope she is having a fantastic time. Can't wait for the news!!
xxxxxx
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

morning, well the snow has arrived not too bad at the moment. It looks very pretty. Hope you are not snowed in bsk.
Take care and keep warm and try to stay home xxxx
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning Marlene, It is pretty, we've got snow here too. I got caught in it last night. Sore throat returned so not going out today. Just feel like staying in bed lol! Enjoy the country scenes but keep warm and be careful! xxx
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Girls,

Well that's the holiday over and back to the cold weather. We had a lovely time and the weather was perfect, we wakened to sunshine every morning. We were meant to come home after 6 days but decided to stay on as the weather was so good. I couldn't believe how good i felt the pain in my hand eased a couple of days after being there and i walked more that i thought would be possible. I would recommend a break in the sun for everyone with arthritis.

As the saying goes, it's now back to old clothes and porrige. I don't know where to start today, i have a mountain of washing to get done and it's so cold here. I went to bed early last night with a hot water bottle and i can feel the stiffness already.

I am sorry to hear that you have a sore throat bsk, some homemade chicken soup would help and keep warm. I hope all goes well on thursday for you. My daughter was meant to go on the 18th but she wanted to get away first and the consultant has agreed to do it at the beginning of March as she has to get some tests done before the op. I am a nervous wreck thinking about it.

Your house will look so pretty Marlene with all the snow. It is cold here but no snow yet. I think there was some last week.

I better make a move now

Take care xx
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Just read over my message, i should have read it before posting lol. Meant to be porridge not porrige. I
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I am so glad you enjoyed your holiday. Now I think you understand why I was willing you to go to Spain. When I go in Nov/Dec to fuerteventura I feel so much better. It is a shock when you get back the weather is so awful here and the cold knocks you sideways. Oh yes and the washing !!!!
Try not to worry too much about your daughter she will be fine and once the op is done she will be so much better (easy for me to say).
Take care and do n't overdo it !!! xxxxxx By the way we missed your posts while you were away.
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Welcome back Rhona. I thought you'd emigrated for a while there! Good idea to stay on, it's been so miserable here and you haven't missed much. So glad you felt better.My mother always used to feel better in Spain too.

Snow all day here but not in town apparently. Had to go and buy a new hat as lost mine a couple of weeks ago. You wouldn't believe how hard it is to buy a winter hat in February in the snow!! It's all bikinis and thin tops in the shops.

Will write again soon as feeling tired and sore. Rhona, so nice to have you back.
xx
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Date: 11.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes you were right Marlene, so glad i went. I'll admit i was worried about the travelling etc but i managed fine. I had put down for assistance and when we arrived we were taken to the front of the queue and checked in before everyone else. I felt embarrased but they were so helpful and i told the young chap i would be fine to walk and that i had just put it down in case of a bad day.

You do need a hat in this weather bsk and to think I bought a floppy sun hat on the first day we got there. Hopefully after a good nights sleep you will feel better.

Nite nite
sleep well xx
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Date: 12.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, I am so glad you had a lovely time. So glad they were helpful at the Airport that must of made you feel more relaxed.
I always manage to walk further when I go to the islands it can only be the good weather. I bet your daughter was made up to see you. I am smiling writing this to you. Rhona it is scary thinking the flight may be hard I work myself up every time what if I hold everyone up what if this what if that. I find the sitting on the plane a bit hard with my back but I just make sure I have pain meds in my pocket.Do you know what it is so what!! most people understand and I just go at my pace. I do pay for speedy boarding to avoid the stampede LOL.

Bsk hope you found a warm hat!! Hope you are ok to-day.
How are you Lynn?
xxxxx
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Date: 12.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good idea Marlene, i had thought about booking extra leg room but as they are positioned over the exits and you have to be fit in case of an emergency.

Are you ok bsk? I hope you are a bit better today.

Hope you are well Lynn.

I have an appointment at the doctors tomorrow morning as i have a mark on my ankle that is worrying me a bit. It started as a red mark that has got bigger and is now crusty and so itchy so thought it best to get it ckecked out as it's been there a few months now.

I have had a lazy day today, i've not been across the door, roll on the summer.

Take care xx
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Date: 12.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi there!

Hope things go ok tomorrow , Rhona, and it is nothing.
I'm ok, just very tired. suppose tht is the arthritis as well as the low grade fever. I forget how bad the fatigue can get. Forgive me if I make this a short email this time.

I did get a hat, a lovely warm cashmere one, going to put my name and address in this one lol!

Are you all ok?
xxx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Wakened up to the place white this morning, it is still snowing but i heard that rain is forecast this afternoon.

I hope you are feeling better today bsk. I went to the doctors this morning she was going to give me a steroid cream but i asked to be referred to a dermatologist instead.

Good luck tomorrow bsk, i'm sure it will all be fine.

Take care xx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

No snow here waiting on the rain!
Glad you got your leg sorted sounds sore.Hope you appt soon for dermatologist.

Ahh bsk you sound a little down, hope you pick up soon. How is Heather by the way?
Hope all goes well at hospital.
I have a stinking cold and feel under the weather to-day.
Take care all xxxxx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi everyone,

Went to see my friend in ICU today though I stood outside her room and looked in the window as am croaky today. Hard to tell whether it's thrush, or asthma (very cold today), arthritis or what. She is very poorly and still in intensive care and back on the ventilation and full of infection. (another reason I didn't go in as I don't need an one myself.) I just don't know what is going to happen. So yes, Marlene, I am a little down. Also tired of feeling unwell myself. It's a struggle to do anything at the moment.

Apologies for the moan. Will chat again tomorrow. Take care
Xxx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear that bsk, i hope your friend improves. I think this time of year can be quite depressing, especially when it is so cold and when you are not at yourself it doesn't help. Perhaps after your hospital visit tomorrow you will feel a bit better as it is always a thought going to the hospital but i am sure it will go well for you.

It is really cold here tonight and the snow has now turned to slush.

My leg isn't sore Marlene, it gets itchy but i thought it best to get it checked, i have decided not to take the methetrexate just in case that is the cause and i don't really think it helps anyway so thought i would have a wee break from it. Perhaps it is a bad idea but time will tell.

Take care xx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes, maybe Rhona. Just hope they agree to surgery to my eye so I can get back to normal.

Aren't you leaving yourself open to a flare if you stop the mtx? Just asking lol!

speak tomorrow.
xxx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope not bsk. I have been cutting it down for a wee while now as i don't think it does much for me and i am covered in lots of bruises and wondering if it is causing some of the problems i have and my blood count is very low. I might take it next week but think i will try a wee while without it.
sleep well xx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm sure you know what you are doing Rhona. I miss a dose or two of enbrel if I'm not feeling too good.

On a more positive note, just got a text from my friend's partner saying she is stable and improving tonight. So I can sleep easier tonight.
Sleep well. xxx
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Date: 13.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That's good news bsk. Sleep well and good luck for tomorrow xx
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Date: 14.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Bsk that is such good news about Heather. Lets hope she continues the fight and you are well enough to go in and give her a big hug.
I am not at all surprised you were feeling fed up. My asthma has been bad and I have a cold and am not feeling that great.
Roll on the spring time.
Rhona I have ecezma and know how the itching can drive you nuts. Hope you are ok leaving your meds off.
Take Care all the sunshine keeps popping its head out LOL XXXXXXX
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Date: 14.02.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene. Interesting you say your asthma is bad as a couple of other friends have said the same thing. wondered if it was the very cold weather yesterday but still not good today. Though loving the sunshine!
xx
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Date: 14.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Update - cataract op next Tuesday! How's that for a result?
xx
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Date: 14.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh that's fantastic bsk. You will see such a difference. How did you manage to get it so quickly? Do you go in and out in the same day?

I got an appointment for the dermatologist for Tuesday as well and the mark doesn't look so bad now, i will feel silly if it's nothing.

The snow has been all washed away now.

Take care xx
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Date: 14.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It's the way the clinic works I guess. Same day op. Hope it does the trick.

Good luck yourself with dermatologist. Don't worry about it being nothing, they are used to it :) and it's better that way.
xx
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Date: 15.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, maybe it is the cold weather seems a bit better to-day still using inhalers a bit too much but maybe tomorrow it will be settled again.
Glad to hear your op is so soon. You will be able to drive again in no time and life will become easier for you.I bet that made your day and its about time it is coming good for you. It was a lovely day here as well the sun shine was lovely. It makes everyone feel so much better.

Rhona hope all goes well at your appointment. If it clears up don't worry!! Glad all your snow has gone.
xx
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Date: 15.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene! Feel somewhat nervous.
I've still got thrush in my throat so on some systemic anti fungal. Throat is sooo sore.

Rhona, how are you doing?
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Date: 15.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh bsk sorry you still have thrush what a nuisance as well as sore.
I bet you are nervous but you will be so glad when it is all over. At least they haven't left you worrying for months Tuesday will soon be here.
XXXXX
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Date: 15.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm ok bsk. That's a shame that your throat is still sore. I was speaking to my daughter in Spain tonight and she was saying that her throat was sore as well and she was gargling with salt and water she seems to get lots of sore throats too. Try and have a restful weekend so that you will be well for Tuesday, it be over before you know it and it will be well worth it. Everyone that i have heard of getting it done has been delighted with the result. My daughter is still waiting to hear about hers but its meant to be the beginning of March.

It was nicer here today too Marlene, i managed a short walk with the dog and it felt like a spring day (probably because i had a big jacket on) I noticed the daffodils starting to come through in my garden they are usually out for Easter and that is only 6 weeks away.

Sleep well,
xx
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Date: 15.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, the daffodils in my garden are through also. Easter only six weeks it will be Christmas again before we know it lol. The days just fly.
My youngest son popped round tonight with his family. The little girl didn't want to go home bless her. The baby boy is growing fast he is chuckling and gurgling away.My daughter-in-law is such a good mum.
My joints are all so painful to-day. I have had a few days of feeling under the weather so roll on summer.
I hope your daughter gets her eyes sorted soon.It must be a worry for you all.
When is your next visit to Spain?? I don't think we will be going this year as we need all our money to do the house. I don't mind but it will be a shame my Hubby wont get a break as he works such long hours. He said he doesn't mind as the house is worth it.
He is working nights for the next three so my evenings seem long.I miss him when he does night as we only see each other for a couple of hours each day. Well at least he has work so I am grateful for that. Well my ankle is driving me mad so I am going to put a hot water bottle on it as I am never going to sleep.
Take care speak tomorrow xx
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Date: 16.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, My goodness it seems no time since the baby was born and now he is chuckling away you must love them to bits and now that you are closer to the family you will see them more often. That's a shame that your joints are so sore. Do you think that you have been doing too much lately? although sometimes it happens for no reason other that the horrible arthritis letting us know it's still there.

I'm not sure when i will next be in Spain Marlene, my daughter is coming home for Easter so looking forward to that. I guess being in your new home feels a bit like a holiday and if you don't get away this year then you will have new places around to explore and if its a good summer then that will be a bonus too.

How are you bsk? I hope your throat is getting better and not heard from you Lynn in a while, hope you are well.

Take care xx
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Date: 16.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm a lot better tonight thanks Rhona.

Sorry to hear you are in pain Marlene. Bet you've been doing too much again :) Try and rest tomorrow.

take care xx
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Date: 16.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I guess I have been overdoing it. I have had a quiet day to-day. I have had a cold and have now developed a cough to go along with it. My joints are all still painful but I thi nk they are all saying we are still here lol.

Rhona that will be lovely to see your daughter again at Easter time. I will enjoy looking around the villages if the summer allows it (weather). We had a drive around the other day and we have found a few little places we want to visit. It will be worth forfeiting a holiday this year I am sure.

Hi bsk glad to hear you are feeling better. How is your friend doing? I am sitting on the sofa with dog curled up beside me mum in bed hubby at work and it is so quiet i am just enjoying the rest. It has been a nice day here again the little bit of sunshine makes me feel more cheerful regardless of the pain.
Well I will say sleep tight to both of you xxx
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Date: 16.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry you're not so good Marlene just take things easy til you feel a bit better. Sounds cosy with the dog curled up beside you. My dog has taken a new lease of life after having to call the vet in about a month ago she is quite active again and getting very naughty she opened up the cupboard the other day and ate a weeks supply of joint sticks and yesterday she went into the shopping back and stole a piece of pizza i had bought and ran into the garden with it.

Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better bsk.

Nite nite xx
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Date: 17.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, had a little walk down to the Lake in the sunshine to-day it was very nice. Have had an easy day again to-day.I could get very used to this LOL. Your dog sounds a real character. My dog went missing and the electrician brought her back she was going off with him as he was getting in his van. Thats gratitude for you LMAO.She does love to get in the car so I suppose she was testing!!!
I am going to have a shower and watch my skating on tv then I must get my ironing done. I haven't that much but I am unable to iron for very long so I do little but often.Hope you have had a good week-end.
I hope you are still feeling better bsk.
Lynn how are you??
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Date: 17.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That is funny Marlene, perhaps your dog thought he was going to your old house and would go with him. A walk at the lake sounds lovely, it was a beautiful day here too, i even managed to get my washing out and all dried. I do like to see a washing blowing about outside.

Be careful with your hand Marlene, i only iron for a short time now. They have an ironing shop near my house where you can take your clothes to be ironed and pressed or they pick them up for you, i have used it for curtains in the past. I keep saying i am going to get them to do it for me.

I like the skating too but haven't really been following it this time, i think tonight is the final. We are going out for dinner tonight. I sound really lazy don't I, not cooking or ironing lol.

Hope you are getting back to normal bsk.

Take care xx
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Date: 17.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi there! I'm feeling so much better thanks.

Both your dogs sound like real characters. My cat gets quite cheeky when she gets bored and knocks things to the floor to get my attention!

I went to visit my friend today and she is breathing for herself and was awake, which is good. Still quite a way to go but am more optimistic today.

Not looking forward to Tues :(
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Date: 18.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good news about your friend bsk!!!
Your cat sounds like great company I always had cats I love them they are so characters. I haven't had a cat for years now. My last cat was 17 yrs then she had diabetes she went blind but she still managed very well for another year. I think I fretted more than she did.At the time we had a german shepherd and when the cat passed he was depressed to say the least, why I don't know they hated one and other (well we thought they did). Hence we finsished up with a new german shepherd so once again my first one had a new playmate and a new lease of life he was 15 when he passed.
Oh Bsk i guess you are nervous but you will be so glad when its all over and your eyesight is all renewed. I will be thinking of you and a big hug i on its way. Best foot forward as they say. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Date: 18.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk,

Try not to worry too much about tomorrow, remember that you are getting it done because it is going to make things a lot better for you. The staff will understand that you feel a bit apprehensive and they will reassure you and it will be over before you know it. I sometimes try deep breathing to relax. I remember years ago when i smoked i thought it helped relax me inhaling the smoke but then i read a good book on how to stop smoking and it explained how it didn't relax you it was only because it was one of the times that your breathed properly.

Hope you are better today Marlene, it is a beautiful day here today, lovely to see the sun shining.

Take care xx
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Date: 18.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona and Marlene, wise words from both of you. A bit croaky and snivelly today but hoping it is just enbrel stuffiness. I'm going regardless!!

HOpe you are both well and enjoying the winter . Xxxx
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Date: 19.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope everything has went well for your today bsk. If you are able to leave a message and let us know how you got on. I suppose you will have to take things easy for a wee while.

I went to see the dermatologist today and he had a look at my ankle but didn't think it was anything to be concerned about so has given me a letter for the doctor to prescribe some cream but i was very surprised when he noticed a small spot at the bottom of my neck and said he was more concerned with it. He said it is a rodent ulcer also known as basal cell cancer so i have to go next tuesday and have it cut out. He said they don't spread anywhere else so that is reassuring. It is only a wee spot too. I really thought it would be my ankle if anything.

Hope you are well Marlene, beautiful day here again. xx
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Date: 19.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, Well, am back. Got seen almost first so home by 11.30. My eye is sore & bloodshot but my sight is beginning to return and should be better by tomorrow. . It was more painful than I thought but colours look brighter already so pleased I had it done. A friend came to pick me up, just as well really as couldn't see a thing!

Well! As to your basal cell cancer, good on the doctor for spotting it and good on you for insisting on an appointment. Good thing you went & good luck with having it removed next week. Between us we must be using up the entire NHS budget in our areas lol!

I;m going to rest my eye now. Be back online later I expect.
take care and thanks for your support (that includes everyone!) xxx
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Date: 19.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh that's great that its done bsk you will be relieved, make sure you do everything that you've been told to do AND rest.

On this occasion i went private bsk, i thought i would give the nhs a rest lol. No,my husband has private insurance through his work and as it wont cover r/a then thought i would make use of it this time. xx
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Date: 19.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

good for you!
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Date: 20.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

How are you this morning bsk? i hope your eye is improving and the pain is settling down.

I am very tired this morning and my shoulders are so tight and sore. Much duller today after a few days of sunshine, as long as it stays dry.

Are you alright Marlene and how are you Lynn?

Take care xx
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Date: 20.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, Sorry to hear you are sore today, any special reason for your shoulders to hurt - did you carry shopping or anything yesterday?

I am doing ok. The vision is good but still a bit blurry and am still sensitive to light. Think it might take a while for my eyes to adjust. Got a headache too so am going to chill out today, for a change lol!

Lynn, Marlene, haven't heard from you in a while, how are you both?
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Date: 20.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad to hear you are doing ok bsk. Just be patient and rest and you will soon be back to normal. I'm not too bad, perhaps just the way i was sleeping. I was due another infusion but will have to wait now for that.
xx
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Date: 20.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona, vision is very good now but still have pain. A friend turned up this afternoon with treats so have been really spoilt. Nice for a change lol!

Why have you got to wait for the infusion?
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Date: 20.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, I called to chase it up and i mentioned my ankle and was told if i needed any treatment it would have to heal first so will now have to wait until wound heals. I still find it a bit strange as the spot at bottom of my neck is tiny and it is not as big as it was a couple of months ago. I have an appointment with the rheumy mid march so will hopefully find out then. I just hope i don't get too bad before then.

That is great that your vision has improved already. I was telling my daughter as she has to get her cateract removed when the surgery is being done on her, really hope it helps her.

Good to hear that you are being spoilt. Enjoy it!

XX
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning Rhona, hope it heals quickly in that case. I don't know what to say about the spot, maybe ask the dermatologist when you go to have it removed next week? Perhaps things can change.....

My vision is very good. I'm sure her surgery will help her. I would say that you need more time to recover than they suggest - the advice was that I could have returned to work the next day but definitely think you need two or three days to recover. Got a headache for a start and my eye is painful. Also, my vision took a while to stabilize. I hope it does work for her.
xx
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning bsk, My goodness, i wouldn't have thought you could return to work the next day after surgery. I suppose a headache is quite normal when they have been working on your eye. I think you have to listen to your body and you will know when you are fully recovered, best to be patient.

My hand is really hurting this morning, i have my splint on but don't think i could drive today.

I hope Marlene is ok, unusual for her not to be on.

Have a restful day.
xx
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, maybe she's moved again lol! Seriously, I hope she is ok.

You need that infusion soon from the sound of it. My increase of steroids has helped a lot and so has lazing around at home.
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I was thinking that too bsk, lol. Yes, i hope everything is ok.

Resting will do you good, so pleased your sight has improved just take things easy for a wee while yet. x
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, sorry you have missed me. I have had so much pain these last few days.
I am so glad you have had your surgery bsk and all is going well for you. I bet you are so glad. Sorry to have worried you but I just couldn't make myself do anything. Thank goodness I am still in a lot of pain but feel like doing things again.
Hi Rhona, sorry you have problems I hope this all gets sorted soon. I know exactly how it feels to be in pain (dont we all).

Move again not so likely that is what has me in all this pain. I ripped my shoulder and it is so painfull. Hot water bottle soothing. My daughter has been doing runing around bless her!
Had to go food shopping to-day with hubby couldn't wait to get home. It is cold here again.
I am missing the sunshine we had.
Well take care ladies I will be back tomorrow LOL. xxxxxxx By the way rest up both of you!!!!
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

evening, well sounds like you all been in the wars. hope all feeling better soon xxx
well I did full time last week at work - been suffering all this week because of it - was maybe too much to take on but hubby was ill so had to cover him.
ooh this cold weather is horrible, roll on spring and warmer times
you all rest easy
xx
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

hi Marlene & Willis, Marlene, sorry to make a joke at your expense and to hear you've have been feeling so bad. shoulder pain is the worst in my opinion. Have you been to see the doc?

Willis, take it easy won't you. Warm weather will definitely help us all. It's bitter out tonight.
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear that you are having such a bad time just now Marlene, it is hard work moving house and it's maybe all just caught up with you. Try and take things easy and stay warm.

Good to hear from you Willis. That's what happens when we do too much, we really pay for it. Try and rest too.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh bsk I can laugh at myself don't be sorry I laughed when I saw your post to Rhona. At the end of the day I did spring my move on you all lol. No I haven't been to Dr I suffer with musculskelatal Disorder (spelling) so I know what it is and apart from pain killers and keeping mobile nothing else can be done. This goes along with OA so this is my lot and I have to learn to cope. Just now and again it gets to me and I do have this habit of withdrawing a bit but I soon get over it.

Willis is right we all are going through the mill. Willis I hope your hubby is ok now. Try to take a rest.
I am trying to take things a bit slower at least the house is liveable now so I feel better about that. I am sofa surfing to-night doing a lot of that lately, I am enjoying it.
Take care everyone and sleep well xxxxxx
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Date: 21.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad you are chilling out Marlene. I've been doing a bit of sofa surfing myself. Not a bad thing to do in this very cold weather. I know what you mean about withdrawing, sometimes you have to just curl up and deal with the pain.

My eye is healing quite well though it is hurting a fair bit. I went out today and it was good to do so. Met up with a friend for lunch and hung out for a while. Trying to get used to changed vision, you feel quite vulnerable and I was wearing dark glasses to both protect my eye from the light and hide it because it is a bit swollen and bloodshot. People were giving me strange looks as it was such a dull day. Maybe they thought I was famous lol! Tomorrow I'm getting a new battery for the car, my mechanic is bringing it round, so I can get back driving as soon as possible. I can't wait!

Great news about my friend, she had an op to remove her pancreas and she is breathing for herself and conscious. She is clearly doing better. Such good news. All in all, a better week.

Speak to you all soon. Have a good night everyone and take care. I love you all here! xxx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

bsk wow driving again you wont know yourself, what a bonus. Maybe if you can do some driving it will ease your pain a bit.You should tell them you spa with mike tyson LOL. I can remember when i had a swollen eye caused through a mozzie bite and one neighbour asked me outright "did your husband do that?". I just smiled and walked on. It didn't deserve an answer. She never spoke to me again. I was so upset NOT.All joking aside. I bet it is strange adjusting to your sight again but strange for the better. I am so pleased it has been a good outcome for you.

Oh well done Heather you keep fighting girl!! That is great news bless her! I had every faith in the hsptl they sent her to. Hugs for her.

I still have a lot of pain but some joints have eased off. My neck shoulders and hands are the worst to-day. If the sun shines it would help!!! Taking it easy again to-day otherwise this will go on for ever.
I know what you mean about loving everyone here its like friends you have known forever, do you have pictures in your mind of what you think people would look like? I would miss this forum if it ever went. There are new people popping in all the time lots more than when I first joined. I am glad I plucked up the courage to come and chat. I didn't see anyone with OA and I did think I was gate crashing a bit. I don't think that now. I see lots popping in with OA and it is so nice we all can understand each other. Well thats enough of my waffling.
Have a lovely day everyone xxxxxx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Girls,

Good to hear you both sounding more positive again. I didn't expect you to be moving about so much already bsk but that is great. You wear your sun glasses and don't worry what anyone thinks. My daughter is the same after having all the lasering to her eyes, she wears sun glasses often.

Good to hear you sounding better Marlene, you are right, we probably do have a picture in our mind as to what we all look like but i bet it would be wrong lol. I am really a man (only joking) I do like to be silly.

Chat later xx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, you do make me laugh, I know your not a man you cope to well LMAO. I bet we would be wrong. I am tall slim no wrinkles and a bundle of energy. Well I know you would think I am telling stories and you would be right.
It is good to have a laugh life is all too serious at times. I am sofa surfing again watching some game show tipping point mum likes it. As you may also guess I am not keen but I try to take time to sit with her each day and watch a bit of tv.
It will be time to make dinner soon its been hard without an oven. I have cook a chicken in my slow cooker and the house smells lovely.
I am going to have to find something to go with it.
Roll on 4th March when they start fitting new kitchen I am having a new cooker fitted, so it wasn't worth buying a cheap one for three weeks . Apart from what a waste of money.
Take care Rhona xxx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good evening girls!

Eye still sore, guess it will take a while to heal. Got the car sorted out today yippee! Going to take it for a little run tomorrow.

Hope you are both feeling ok. This very cold weather doesn't help the joints much.How is your hand Rhona? You too Marlene?
Hope you are keeping warm.
xx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, The important thing is that you are a lovely person inside and i'm sure outside as well. The slow cookers are great, just put the food in and forget about it til it's cooked. I can almost smell your chicken lol. It will be well worth waiting on your new kitchen although when we got ours i hated not being able to get into the kitchen. Pity you couldn't go away for a few days and come back to it all done. Although in took a full week as it was someone my husband knew and he did it on his own. I wanted to get a company in as it would have been much quicker.

My hand (well wrist) is still quite sore but not so bad now thanks although i have a strange muscle pain in my back, i had it on holiday and it went away but came back today. Do you have drops for your eye bsk? it probably take a few weeks until its back to normal.

Very cold here tonight.
xx
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Date: 22.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, bsk your eye may be sore for a week or so I remember mum-in-laws eye was sore for a while. If you think it is too sore phone the hospital. I bet you are so glad that you have your car all ready to go again. Happy motoring!!
You know Rhona I have a motto if you don't like what you are seeing don't look. I believe everyone has their own special qualities.
Sorry you also have a bad hand mine is awful. I feel for you if you are having back pain, try your hot water bottle. Just try to be careful how you lift and turn.
It is freezing here and we had bits of snow I closed the blinds and hoped it wasn't going to come to anything it hasn't yet.
Sleep well xxxxx
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Date: 23.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It's snowing here this morning. Even the cat doesn't want to go out lol!

Sorry to hear you are both suffering. Hottie very good for backs and hands too; Hot bath/shower any help? Arthritis so unrelenting sometimes, I feel for you both. Increased steroids have helped mine but also not doing very much has made me realise how quite small things put such stress on my joints. I've got to find a way of looking after them better in the future.

Eye still sore and vision all over the place as none of my glasses are the right prescription. Only can see ok with a contact lens in one eye! Went to the opticians yesterday to get the glass taken out of one side of glasses and he asked when I was going to return them (they refunded me if you remember). 'when my eyesight is sorted out' was my reply. Anyway I'd already told area manager they couldn't have them back yet as I was still wearing them. Honestly! They messed up so badly. I was fuming and had a right go at him. If the optician there wasn't so good I wouldn't hesitate to change stores.

Enough of my ranting. Got snow falling to watch.
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Date: 23.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Think we must all be getting the snow this morning, it has just stared falling here. It reminds me of xmas.

I didn't sleep well at all last night, i think i wakened every half hour with my back annoying me. It feels like the muscle is contracting every 30 seconds. You are right in saying how the smallest things can set our pain off bsk. When we were away my daughter took up so a show to hear one of her friends sing, she does all the Adele songs and when the show was finished she came over to speak to us and i had to turn round to speak to her and that's when i felt this pain.

I hope you eye settles soon bsk. Will you need new glasses when it settles? or will you manage without them?

I hope you are a bit better this morning Marlene.

Take care.
xx
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Date: 23.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi there snow has been falling since about 6 this morning it is quiet pretty dancing around but it is not settling I am glad to say.
Bsk I remember the trouble over your glasses what a cheek. Ignore them!! You probably will need different glasses mum-in-law did. (more money) but it will be worth it.The soreness will go soon.

Rhona it sounds like you pulled a muscle and now it will be weak and will be easy for you to pull it again.It is a pain in the backside as your back takes so much daily strain. Hope it calms down soon try to keep your back extra warm.

I am maxed out on painkillers no good trying to be a hero and suffering. My shoulders are the worst to-day and everytime I move it is agony. Such is life!!! It makes us tough!!!

Take care have a good week-end XXXXXX
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Date: 24.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well the snow didn't come to much yesterday although still cold. Hope you are all feeling a bit better today. My back is still very annoying although i did sleep a little better last night.

Have a good day xx
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Date: 24.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, the snow is still trying to fall here. It snowed most of the day yesterday but it didn't settle. I must say it is so cold I am staying home. My shoulders are so bad it is making me a bit miserable.
I am glad you slept better, just take care not to pull your back again no lifting!!!
Have a good day also xxxxx
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Date: 24.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry you are both suffering so much. Maybe the weather is making things worse? I'm ok. A bit tired today. Will chat tomorrow. In the meantime, hope you both have a good nights sleep. xxx
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Date: 25.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good morning girls,

The sun is shining here this morning, it looks like a summers day from inside but probably be freezing.

I hope you are feeling better this morning Marlene and i hope your eye is getting better bsk. My back is still giving me bother but perhaps slightly better.

My daughter is over in Amsterdam and i got a message from her saying someone had stolen her purse and phone from her bag she is due home tonight but what a dampner on her weekend and the worst part she hasn't got her phone insured.

Take care xx
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Date: 25.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I know what that feels like my daughter had her bag stolen in spain. Did your daughter take holiday insurance. If she gets a police report she can claim it all back. It is such a shame when the holiday is spoiled by some random thief. I hope she still managed to enjoy herself!!
I am glad you have sunshine it makes you feel better even if it is cold. I hope your back continues to improve.

Hi bsk glad you are improving all the time, I guess all the pre stress to your op didn't help and has probably caught up with you and your body is now trying to rest up. I think he weather is not helping and I have another cold. I am begining to feel fed up again. I am going out with my daughter tomorrow so maybe that might help. I am going to find a hairdressers whilst I am out and book myself an appoinment. I think I need some me time. LOL.
Seriosuly I am going to be 62 in a couple of days maybe thats whats upsetting me hahah.
They say you are as old as you feel and I feel a lot older these last few day so I am going to do stuff to put a spring back in my step as they say.
I had a pheasant in the back garden yesterday and now I know just how rural we are. I love it and our squirrels are black a new one on me.
It is amazing what a move just up the motorway can make. I wish I had done it years ago Hindsight is a good thing.
Well thats my boring news! You all have a lovely day and take care xxxxxxxx
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Date: 25.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear about your daughter's stuff Rhona. I presume she didn't have travel insurance. What a pain!

I'm only 6 years off 62 Marlene and still feel like a teenager! I hope you are celebrating in style (with your new haircut!) You are probably alright about pre stress to op. Think I'm going to ask for the other one to be done straight away as I want to get this over and done with. I'm a bit croaky myself today and wonder if I am coming down with something too.

xx
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Date: 25.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk so glad you still feel like a teenager, half the time I behave like one. There is nothing better than someone saying grow up I always say why should I its boring being grown up.
I am going out for dinner and I am going to see Sally Morgan it will be a first, tickets courtesy of my daughter. It will be a new experience.
Going with hubby not sure what he really thinks about it but he will give it a go.Something different. going on the 28th let you know what it was like.
I didn't realise you needed the other one done I would push for it to be done quick as well.I hope they do it soon for you.
I hope you are not getting this cold I said I had another cold it didn't go away properly and to-day it just seemed to flare again.
I have an appoinment with my new GP on the 7th so I will see if she has any new ideas for me. Well I can only hope.
xxx
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Date: 25.02.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I didn't know until I went to my second Moorfields appt. It's still small but don't want to have to go through this again later this year, rather get it over with.

Sally Morgan eh? Should be an interesting night! Hope you have a fab time. Hope your new gp will be helpful.
xx
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Date: 26.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls,

Hope you are feeling better this morning. Sounds like you will have a good birthday night Marlene, enjoy the show, you must tell us all about it. I am in betweeen your ages lol.

You presumed right bsk she didn't have insurance but the main thing is she is ok and she had a lovely time for by that happening. They visited Anne Frank's house and even had a look at the red light district lol.

I am going tonight to get the spot cut out, can't say i'm looking forward to it and hope i don't have too many stitches.

Take care xx
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Date: 26.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I will let you know what the show is like.

Glad to hear your daughters break wasn't ruined. Red light district I bet that gave them a laugh.
Hope all goes well and its not to sore after cutting the spot away.

Bsk I would get it over and done with as well.
Well its nice to know we are all about that certain age LOL xx
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Date: 26.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hope it went well Rhona. I've had things removed and not too painful.

Is it your birthday tomorrow Marlene? If so, many happy returns and have lovely day!
xx
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Date: 26.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well that's me back and i can honestly say i didn't feel a thing and just have a few stitches. It is more painful getting fluid out my knee. Such a difference going private, i just wish it would cover the r/a perhaps if i win the lottery i will go private for all my treatment.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 26.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad it went ok. You can have your infusion soon with a bit of luck!
take care xx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thankyou Bsk. I have a house full later to-day.
Booked my hair appoinment for tomorrow ready for the show in the evening. Looking forward to it.
My daughter bought me a lovely blouse and trousers to wear so that was a nice surprise.

Glad its all over and done with Rhona.
xxxxx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Have a lovely birthday Marlene and enjoy the show tomorrow. You will be looking glam with your new hairdo and outfit.

Quite foggy here today i hope the sun gets through later as the past few days have been lovely and bright.

Are you ok bsk?
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: b13

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Happy birthday Marlene! Hope you are having a fab day.
xx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Haha that's me Marlene! So much for eye ops lol!
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, sorry didn't see your post earlier. yes I'm fine thanks. Eye doing very well and no longer hurting. Looking forward to getting the other one done now lol!

How are you doing? How's the back
xx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That's really good about your eye bsk, you will be a new woman when you get the other one done. I am so pleased it has been a success.

My back is not too bad thanks, i still feel it now and again and just hope it doesn't flare up again as it's not nice.

I am just going to make myself a cuppa tea now as i bought a big chocolate sponge cake with cream today and going to have a slice. I really shouldn't but they do say a little of what you fancy does you good.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That sounds good - have a slice for me!

good to hear your back isn't too bad. Aren't you due for an infusion soon?

Tell your daughter not to worry about her eye op. Although it was painful other people have said their's didn't hurt and the improvement is fantastic.
xx
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Date: 27.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It's the vitrecomy that concerns her bsk and she will have a general anaesthetic they will do her cataract at the same time, i just hope it's successful.

I have an appointment on the 11th march so hopefully will find out then.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 28.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It's human nature to worry before an op but I really hope it is successful for her and it restores her vision fully.

Good to hear your appt is coming up. Not long to wait now.

Marlene, have a fab time tonight. Looking forward to hearing about it.

xx
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Date: 28.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, How are you tonight? I am ok although my wrist has been quite sore but considering the way i was this time last year i can't complain.

My shoulder and neck area is burning though. When i was having the BC removed they put a cover over my neck and chest and they peeled it off when they were finished, it was like an enormous sticking plaster and my neck is out in a rash and so hot and itchy, i do have such a sensitive skin though.

I hope you have had a lovely birthday Marlene and enjoyed the show.

Take care xx
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Date: 28.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I'm quite allergic to lots of stuff too. I do wonder if it is something to do with the RA as I never was as bad before. I can't even use that mircopore tape they use in hospitals anymore.

I'm doing ok though walked too far today and my knees are letting me know about it. My eye has healed well.

The bad news is my friend is still very ill in ICU, now has peritonitis on top of everything else. I'm really shocked at how ill she is. Very upsetting.

xx
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Date: 28.02.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh bsk i thought she was improving. It must be upsetting for you. The only consolation is that she will be getting well looked after but it's important that you don't make yourself ill worrying. Life can be so cruel at times. Wasn't the accident in Luxor so tragic yesterday.

Try and relax and sleep well tonight and i will say a little prayer for your friend and for us all.

XX
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Date: 28.02.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rona. I thought so too but, apparently, recovery in severe pancreatitis is rarely straightforward. I think she must be very strong to have got through so far.
xx
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Date: 01.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well Sally Morgan, very impressed and at times is was very sad. I am sure the tears stopped when they got home and had some kind of comfort from the messages given from the loved ones past over.
I am convinced something is there!! Could someone guess and be so right??
There was a box for photos of loved one and as she picked one up straight away she said Stephen and she was right and she said he didn't like Pat and said was this a girlfriend and the lady said I hope not I am his wife. Well they whole place fell about laughing.Pat was a nurse in the Hospice who injected him everyday.(well!!!)
The whole night was different and I enjoyed it and my other half was also taken by it all.

Bsk I am so sorry to hear Heather has another obstacle but you are right she must be a very strong Lady. I am sending her a great big gentle hug xx
I am glad your eye has healed well.

Hi Rhona glad you are feeling a bit better.I am allergic to the pads they use for heart reading which is not good when I have a pacemaker.LOL.

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Date: 01.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

So glad you enjoyed the show, i have always been quite interested in that type of thing although i can't say i'm a believer. Years ago my mother went to a spiritulist meeting with a friend that had just lost her little girl in a road accident and the spiritulist came over to her saying she had messages from her little girl and she knew all about the accident she later discovered the woman lived not far from her and had probably heard about it from the neighbours.

I hope you get some good news about your friend bsk.

Lovely day here and they usually say March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb but it was like a beautiful spring day.

Have a good weekend xx

XX
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Date: 01.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sounds very entertaining Marlene but I'm not a believer, even though I did go to a spiritualist church just the once and something very pertinent was said to me! Glad you had a good evening out.

Think I'm coming down with a bug again, though could be the RA lol! I never know these days but do feel a bit under par.
Going out for dinner tonight so need to pick myself up a bit!

Hope you all had a good day.
xx
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Date: 01.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh bsk I hope you are not coming down with another bug. Poor You one thing after another. Enjoy your night out it will give you a lift. Hope your meal is good.
Rhona, how sad for the friend of your Mum you hear all these stories and it is just cruel.
It has been a nice day here as well, hope it stays like it.
My eldest son came tonight didn't see him on my birthday as he had a stomach bug. He came with a bouquet of flowers they are just lovely. So I have had an extended birthday this year.
My eldest two grandchildren are growing fast. I know I am biased but they have grown into lovely kids.

Well take care and have a good week-end xxx
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Date: 02.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Did have a lovely meal thanks Marlene. It was with my sister and her husband and they were both on good form. Nice to get flowers and even nicer to have an extended birthday. You deserve to be spoilt!

Rhona, we must have posted at the same time as I swear there wasn't a message from you when I replied to Marlene!

My friend has made a slight improvement today. Fingers crossed and thanks for asking about her both of you.
Hope you both sleep well.
night xx
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Date: 02.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Girls,

Hope you are both well this morning. It is a beautiful sunny day here again.

It is always nice to get flowers Marlene and glad you had a lovely birthday.

That's good that you enjoyed your meal out bsk and pleased to hear that your friend has improved a bit.

We are going away tomorrow just for one night, it was a xmas gift from my daughers to a nice castle hotel.

How are you Lynn? and Willis?

Take care and have a nice day xx
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Date: 02.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk glad to hear your friend has improved tough cookie!! Nice to go out eat with family catching up chewing the mop as we call it. Don't even ask never knew where it came from it was a family saying and still is lol.

Wow Rhona what a great xmas present enjoy!!!!!
Its not sunny here but not so cold I am glad to say.
xxxxx

Lynn and Willis come and have a chat lets us know you are both OK.
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Date: 03.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi there, beautiful day today and actually sat in the sun for an hour, it was bliss and made up for the fact my knee is playing up and causing me pain. On the other hand, my vision is good. Swings and roundabouts hey!

Rhona, hope you are swanning about in style in your castle!

Marlene, hope you are having a good day too!
love S
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Date: 04.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Monday morning, kitchen fitters arrived on time amazing, as everything around here is on a go slow LOL.
Rhona I hope you enjoyed being a Princess for the day.
Bsk another lovely day here. Glad your vision is good. As you say it is swings and roundabouts my shoulders are much better now I am limping as my knee is hurting so much.
I am going to walk down to the Lake later on to-day, well thats the plan if the knee will let me. I am hopefull it will help. I am going to take the dog.
Have a lovely day xx
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Date: 04.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Had a lovely time and the place was beautiful the bedroom was so pretty with little lights around the bath and molton brown toiletries.

I hope the kitchen fitters do a great job for you Marlene. It will be lovely having it all new.

That's great about your vision bsk. My daughter is getting really nervous and worried as she will be going in soon for her operation she got a call on friday to see if she could go in today as they had a cancellation but it wouldn't have been with the man she knows so she declined and will speak to him this week as he has been on holiday. Her sight is not good at all and the worry is if it's not successful, it doesn't bear thinking about.

Hope you got that walk at the lake Marlene.
xx
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Date: 04.03.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

hi guys
well it's been a busy time for all :) hope you're all in fine fettle with the sun being out. Ok so it's still a tad cold but spring is trying to get to us i suppose ;)
i was in london friday night, went to see Let It Be at the Savoy Theatre - highly recommend it to you all. The musicians weren't just great they had The Beatles body language etc down to a tee. Suffering for it now by trying to dance along lol but it was worth it. still working full time but have weeks holiday this month to malta so i just hope the weather is a little warmer there.
Rhona, I hope your daughter is ok and it goes well when it happens
Marlene I hope your walk was good and you enjoyed it
bsk glad you had a good birthday
xxxx
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Date: 04.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona and willis yes I walked to the Lake and no it didn't help my knee but it was good for
the soul. The sun has been shining all day so it has been lovely.
The are getting on well with the kitchen. My poor hubby is on nights and he has hardly slept at all with the noise and he has just left for work again to-night. He is going to sleep in his break. The trouble with it all if we didn't take this date we would be waiting months and hubby has no holiday left. This is just another thing for me to stress over.
Rhona I feel for your daughter hanging around waiting for surgery especially on her eyes, it give her too much time to worry. Lets hope it is done for her soon. Your hotel sounds just fantastic. I hope you made use of all those lovely products. It is so nice to have little breaks as I said before what a lovely xmas prezzie.
Willis, Malta I have only flown there and ferried over to Gozo but the people there are just so genuine and the embrace the British still.We stayed for two weeks in a farm house well to me it was a mansion with pool lol.I hope you enjoy!
The Let It Be show sounds great loved the Beatles when I was very much younger and still do.I would of had a little dance as well.

I am full of pain killer again but I am going to see my new Gp on the 7th and I am going to ask if they have a better solution. Heres wishing but if you don't ask!!!!!
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Date: 04.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, I do hope your daughter's op is successful. I expect you are all very worried at the moment but I'm sure she will be in good hands.

Sorry to hear you are in pain still Marlene, I hope you get on well with your new GP and they have some fresh ideas to help you. I've got a bit more pain today in my wrist and knee and I've only dropped the steroid down by 1mg! I've also got a lump appearing on one of my knuckles. I do hope it isn't a rheumatoid nodule. Bloody hell, it's one thing after another round here!

Good to hear from you Willis and that you managed to get to a show.

speak soon. xx
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Date: 05.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Girls,

Glad you enjoyed the show Willis, i went to the bootleg beatles show a few years ago at the Glasgow concert hall and they were very good. Lucky you off to Malta. It is lovely to get a break at this time of year. My brother often goes to Malta and my daughters have been. Enjoy the well earned break.

How is the kitchen going Marlene? how long will it take to complete? It will be well worth it and as you say you have to get it done while you can. Hubby will make up for it at the weekend when hopefully he get get a lie-in. Try and rest a bit though as you are probably doing too much at the moment. I hope the new doctor is good sometimes a change is good and perhaps get some new meds. or treatments.

My hand and wrist is sore too bsk, if yours continues then you might be better going back up the 1mg. I might start the mtx this week as ive had a few weeks off but i still don't think it makes much difference but i'm sure this infusion must be about to wear off and don't want to take too many chances at the moment.

Hope you all have a good day and it's sunny where you are, it's a beautiful day here again, it's fantastic for March.

Take care xx
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Date: 05.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well I am sofa surfing again. Hubby doing his last night shift he slept during his break at work. He managed a good few hours this morning thank goodness.
The kitchen is coming on well and it looks good already, he should be gone by Thursday lunch time so not too bad. He is a really good fitter I am glad to say. He involves us with everything which way round we want the doors to open so that is good.

It was nice to have sunshine all day I managed another walk to the Lake to-day with the dog and mum.
My hands are a nightmare they are so painfull. I have been dreading this happening. I was warned by he rhumy Dr this would probably happen. I just hope that at some stage it might calm down a bit.
Bsk and Rhona I am sorry you are both having trouble with your hands it is such a nuisance not like we can rest them much lol.
Have a lovely evening xxx
That includes you Willis hope you are resting up.
XXXXXXX
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Date: 05.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I think we all need to go to the second hand shop Marlene lol. It was hard driving today i had to get my daughter to change gears a few times for me. I can sympathise with you.

That's great that the kitchen is coming along so well and just over a day til it's finished. That will be a boost for you.

I'm going in the morning to get my stitches out and my B12 injection.

Hope you all sleep well.
xx
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Date: 05.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear you are all suffering. Me too - my knee not good today and full of painkillers tonight. I put my steroids up the 1mg today but not sure it will be enough. Wasn't it a glorious day though?

Good luck tomorrow Rhona.
night all.
xx
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Date: 07.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, the rain is back and don't I just know it. Hope you are not suffering.
Well I saw my new GP she is very nice, bloods to be done Asthma check. Then a review about my OA well I will wait and see if there are any new suggestions.
Hope all went well Rhona.
Hope you are good bsk.
xxxxx
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Date: 07.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, glad you like your new GP. Does make such a difference to have one you can get on with. I hope she can come up with a plan for you.

Miserable here too and my knee and wrist very painful today. I don't know why I am complaining, its all pretty normal I suppose lol! It is always a surprise to me when something else flares up and try to figure out what has caused it. You would think I was used to it by now!

Spent half the day negotiating new contracts for phone, bband etc. trying to get my bills down a bit. Was pretty successful with mobile and a goodwill payment from broadband supplier. Need to have ago at energy suppliers next!

Rhona, hope things went ok for you today.

Willis & Lynn, hope you are both well.
take care
xx
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Date: 07.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is very damp here as well Marlene and it has turned really cold again. Good that you are getting all the checks and perhaps she will have something new to help you. Is the kitchen finished now Marlene?

I am very silly at times. I got my stitches out yesterday and when i came home i looked in my mirror to see how big the scar was and it looked bigger than i though it would be so i was telling my daughter and i said it looks as big as the one you had when you had 13 stitches and she said "really" and you only have small covering over it so i took the cover off to show her and she said thats not big at all so i then went to my hall mirror and it did look quite small i then realised i had been looking in my magnifying mirror.

My daughter got a surprise today, the cards that were in the purse she had stolen in Amsterdam were all returned to her but there was no note to say who had sent them. The bank cards had all been cancelled anyway but some of the other cards she was glad to get back.

How is your knee bsk? i hope it is better today. I hate when my knees are bad.

Take care xx
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Date: 07.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk, that is funny as we must have been messaging at the same time again. Sorry that your knees are still sore, make sure you rest them.

Funny, i had a call tonight from scottish power trying to coax me to go with them xx
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Date: 07.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That really made me laugh Rhona!

Nice for your daughter to get her cards back. Doesn't happen often. I found a bag once with cards in it and tried to hand it into the police but they wanted a massive statement and to interview me etc.Spent half a day dealing with it. It was very annoying and I can see why people don't bother.

I am resting as much as I can thanks. xx
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, Sorry to hear those knees of yours are giving you jip Bsk. Glad you got a good deal with your BB ect. There are plenty we can do to get our bills down. My hubby had the AA breakdown for years never (touch wood) needed to use it. When we got the new quote I called them and said we are cancelling they called my hubby and he said in this current climate it is too expensive I never use it anyway. They renewed at half the price amazing that!! My three kids all did the same and the all got their renewal at a third of the price. So if you have AA !!!!
Rhona that is nice for the cards to be returned albeit a bit late. But how lovely that someone is caring enough to do this.
You do make me laugh Rhona so the scar is good !!! You sound a bit like me I told everyone I only had a little scar on my back not that I had seen it. My son reeled back and said my god Mum it is about 6-7 inches long. So when I did look it made me cringe. It gives us all a laugh when we are well doesn't it.
I hope you are all well to-day, the weather doesn't do much for us again to-day. I hope those few sunny days is not our summer!!!!!
TAKE CARE XXXXX

The kitchen is all done now (except for the tiling) It looks great and I have put everything back and yes I am pleased with it all.
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: New Thread for bsk, Marlene & Lynn

Hope you are feeling a bit better today bsk. It is dull and damp here again so that doesn't help the joints or the mood.

My daughter has the hospital this afternoon so will probably find out the date for her operation. I have my appointment on monday at the hospital.

That's great that the kitchen is finished now Marlene. I am hoping the same as you in that the few sunny days wasn't our summer.

Take care xx
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

hi guys
well been a busy week work and social and so glad it's friday phew :)
learnt something else this morning after last night - bowling is now 100% off list of things I can do - 4 out of ten on first game fine then it went downhill fast after that lol suffice to say i came last - twice
oh boy did i pay for it this morning.
so this weekend is going to be hot baths, reclining chair and reading and that's about it - I can't wait ;)
have a good weekend xxxx
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, how did your daughter get on?

Willis you sound like you have had a busy week. Bowling wow, shame you wont be able to play anymore. I haven't played since I was 18yrs many moons ago.
Hot baths and sofa surfing sounds good to me.

BSK hope you are resting those knees!! This rain has me in more pain. I feel real miserable to-night pain all day. I have have just taken painkillers to the max I just can't cope any more to-day. I shall be resting up to-night and having an early night.
take care xxxx
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi everyone, well, what a miserable day AND it's going to get colder and snow forecast for Monday in London! My hands are really bad and my gp noticed they were swollen - really quite painful today. Knees not great either but as building work started on the house next door today I went out as I couldn't stand the noise. That's 3 months disruption coming up!

Sorry to hear you are suffering too Marlene but pleased to hear your kitchen is more or less finished. You can relax and enjoy it now.

Willis, can't believe you thought bowling was a good idea lol! Rest up. That goes for us all.
take care xx
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Date: 08.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

She has to get some tests done during the week and then the operation will be next monday Marlene. Feel quite stressed thinking about it.

It is absolutely freezing here tonight. Hot bath and reclining chair sounds quite appealing Willis. I live next door to the bowling green but i don't play. I used to enjoy the 10 pin bowling. My wrists wouldn't allow it now.

You should maybe get yourself some ear plugs bsk. 3 months is a long time to listen to that.

Hope you all have a good restful weekend xx
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Date: 10.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Is your daughter's op tomorrow Rhona or next Monday? I hope it goes well. I had to go back to Moorfield's today as got floaters in my eye from vitreous gel detaching. It's nothing to worry about unless it gets worse but gave me a scare.

I've heard you got a blizzard in Glasgow, according to my sister. Her daughter was wanting to go out and play in it. She says it is freezing up there. It is here too and we had a few flakes of snow today but nothing much.

My wrist seems to have settled down. Very odd how it comes and goes.

Hope you are all well .
take care. xx
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Date: 10.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, It's next monday she goes in but she is very nervous about it. I hope your eye is ok, you are always best getting anything to do with the eye checked right away.

Yes, it is freezing here, i can't remember it being this cold and i have to get up early tomorrow for my appointment at the hospital.

I'm glad to hear that your wrist has settled, you just never know where the pain is going to pop up next with this disease.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 11.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, hope your appointment went well. Let us know later what happened.

The floaters are very disconcerting. I noticed them much more last night when I was reading. Apparently they float away eventually or you get used to them.

Marlene, how are you doing? Hope you are not in too much pain in this weather.

xx
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Date: 11.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, It is freezing again to-day pond iced over and the snow keeps appearing for short bursts. It isn't helping my pain but what can I do. I can't stay home forever!
I hope your eyes sort them selves out soon it sounds horrible. Glad your wrists are ok.

Rhona how did you get on to-day? Won't be long now for your daughters op.
Take care xx
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Date: 11.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls, Hope you are managing to stay warm in this freezing weather. The sun is shining here but it is bitter cold.

I went to the hospital this morning and they have said i have to get another course of rituximab next month and they will either send the appointment throught the post or call me soon. I am having a bit bother with my stomach with terrible indigestion and waves of nausea and tummy a bit painful at times, it all started after we had been away last weekend.

I hope you eye has settled down bsk at least you know it's nothing serious.

Take care xx
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Date: 11.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is good to hear your appoinment went well. Rhona you sound like you may have a bug althogh I hope not. Have you tried some Gavascon for the indigestion? Try to stay on a simple diet for a few days then if no joy, you may need to see GP.Oh Rhona its just one thing after another for all of us. Good job we are all tough cookies.
It has been sleeting with high winds for two days and it is freezing. We did have a bit of blue sky for about half an hour and then it became dark. They say it will be cold for a couple more days and then the rain will come. Well all I can say is Thankyou for that LMAO.
Just want a bit of sunshine to warm the old bones up hahaha.
Keep warm and do plenty of sofa surfing ladies.(I am).
XXXX
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Are you pleased about the rituximab Rhona? Not sure if that is what you wanted. I would go and see your gp if your stomach doesn't settle, though I had something similar last year which I was told was norovirus! Hope you haven't got that!

Don't we all want a bit of sunshine Marlene lol! My sister went to Mexico yesterday - how jealous am I.....? Back to Moorfield's for check up today and maybe decision on other eye. Not entirely sure I want to have it done straight away but will wait to see what they say.

It was snowing here at 2am but just very windy and cold today. Daffs all wilting as the ground is frozen. Might have to water some of the plants in pots today otherwise they dry out. Grim or what!
Stay warm everyone.
xx
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls,

I hope your check-up went well today bsk. Lucky sister going to Mexico, is that the sister that lives in Glasgow? It is still very cold here but not quite as bad as yesterday.

My stomach is a bit better today, i got some rennies yesterday so hope it has settled a bit and i have been eating very light foods.
I'm not sure what to think about the rituximab bsk. I suppose i am pleased as it did seem to help eventually but i am worried about the side effects as i hated the burning that i had in my eyes and hands the last time i got it. If i thought i could manage without it i would but i would hate to go back to how bad i was 6 months ago.

I hope your hands are a bit better Marlene the cold weather doesn't help, i have been taking my hot water bottle to bed at night and i have been doing a lot of sofa surfing too lol.

Tae care xx
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, it's a tricky balance to find with these drugs. I feel the same about mine, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Perhaps you won't have the same reaction to them this time.

Appt went well and they are going to do the other one in two weeks -hurrah! Not allowed to wear contact lenses in my good eye so am as blind as a bat at the moment. Oh well, as long as I don't trip over anything lol!

I kept my heating on last night. Woke at 2am to see snow coming down but it was gone by the morning.

Marlene, hope you are ok. Willis and lynn too.
xx
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, well the snow is still doing its best. It hasn't settled but it is freezing had to go for Asthma check this morning all ok, it was so cold we all went in a little cafe and had breakfast and coffee. Fasting for twelve hours (mum) in this cold is no joke. I had bacon and eggs with toast it was naughty but nice!!
Not too long to wait for other eye op Bsk it will be better to get it done sooner rather than later. How is Heather doing??

Rhona I hope the meds are not much bother to you this time. Fingers crossed for you. As you say you can do without going backwards.
They have a little Health centre by our GP surgery for mums hearing aid batteries and maintenance also she can get her feet done there.Another problem sorted so no more stressing over mum. I have to leave RF for myself I am a little apprehensive as you know bsk I have so much trust in that hospital. I will have to put my faith in the new hospital. They have told me the Drs that work in the RF also work in the hospital that makes me feel a little better. I am sure it will all be fine.

Keep that central heating on albeit it big bills will be on the way. No use worrying we all have to keep warm.
Big hugs for you both xx
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That's good that it's getting done soon bsk, you are as well getting it over and done with before the better weather and hopefully this time it will be a bit easier for you.

A tasty breakfast on a cold morning sounds good Marlene you would have been ready for it. Glad to hear the asthma test went well.
I'm sure you will get on well at the new hospital, you can keep them right anyway lol.

Now that my stomach has eased a bit my shoulder has started, i can feel the pain penetrating through into my chest from it. Oh well, an early night and some paracetamols i think.

sleep well and keep that heating on xx
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Date: 12.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, oh dear I know that shoulder pain. I get a pulsating in my chest from it. I find it hard to sleep with it so I hope you sleep well. Early night is just what I am going to do I have a back ache that is making me feel sick. So hot water bottle painkillers and bed.
Freezing so another night with heating on!!
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Date: 13.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

How are you all tonight? I'm still suffering with my hands in this cold weather. How is your shoulder Rhona and your back Marlene?
Haven't got much news expect getting my hair done tomorrow.
Hope you all have a good night.
xxx
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Date: 13.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene & bsk,

Sorry to hear that you are both suffering just now. My shoulder is a bit better but now my hand and wrist is hurting again. It is strange how this disease moves around.

My daughter is going for her pre-op at the hospital tomorrow she is getting really nervous about the operation, it is a major operation to her eye and not knowing what the outcome is going to be is very scary.

Hope you sleep well tonight.
xx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona,

I've just been googling your daughter's op. It must be very frightening not knowing the outcome but I really hope it goes well for her and is successful. You must be worried too. Try to keep calm so as not to aggravate your RA.

I've been on the rampage already this morning. Council vehicles always park outside my bedroom window while they get their coffee from the cafe and mostly leave their engines on. A very loud one this morning at 7am saw me getting dressed and going out and ticking the driver off! I've had signs put up by the council but they just ignore them. Grrrr! Still icy outside this morning but beautiful sunny day.
Hope you all have a good day.
xx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies. The weather here to-day was lovely sunshine and definately warmer.

Rhona I am sending love to you and your daughter you both must be so worried but when it is over you will wonder why you stressed so much. I am sure all will be well. As bsk said try not to worry it's not good for you XXX

Bsk how annoying I don't blame you being cross. When you need to let off steam save it for them LOL. Seriously some people have no consideration for anyone else. The trouble is unless something is done like a nice little nuisance fine no one will take any notice. What happened to respect for others?
I have been not too bad the last couple of days. I am going to have a girlie day out tomorrow with my daughter so that will be good.
Take Care xxx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene and you to bsk. I am pleased to hear you are feeling a bit better Marlene, it's about time you got a break from it, i hope you have a lovely day with your daughter tomorrow.

I have a similar problem bsk, I have a sandwich shop round the corner from my house and we get all the lorrys and vans parking here having their breakfast and lunch and they park on a grass verge outside my window and what a mess they have made of it, i have said to them not to park on the grass as they make it all muddy.

I had my dog at the vet again today as she has started coughing and gagging again and she wants to lie in the garden all the time on the wet grass. I got up to the toilet at 5am this morning and she went to the front door wanting out so i let her out and she wouldn't come back i again and it was freezing, i had to end up putting her bed out in the porch for her as i was frozen but when i got up again she was still there. I had to coax her in this morning. The vet has given me more antibiotics but he said he has a feeling there is more serous problem so if the antibiotics don't clear it she has to get blood tests. I could do without this, especially just now.

Take care xx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Rhona, you really do have a lot to deal with at the moment. Fingers crossed the antibiotics work. I always find it very distressing when my cat is ill, animals are so vulnerable and unable to communicate. Just try and take things day by day - you'll feel a lot better once your daughter has had her op.

As to the parking, could you ask the council to put up a sign? They did outside my place but it is so tiny I don't think anyone can read it lol!

Marlene, hope you have a good day out tomorrow and you stay well. I hope you are having a bit of retail therapy!

My friend is still in intensive care. The awful thing is that I've got used to it. I suppose the good thing is that she hasn't got any worse.

take care xxx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona sorry about your dog I do hope the anti biotics work. How old is your dog? Try not to stress to much easy to say I know. I will be thinking of you your daughter and your dog. Bless you!!

Bsk sorry to hear Heather is still in Intensive Care. Big hugs on the way to her. Bsk it is better for you to accept it than stress about it all the time. Have you been to visit?
Sleep tight everyone xxxx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Aw thanks Bsk & Marlene. My dog will be 13 in September. We got her in September from the cat & dog home and they thought she was about a year old at the time. It is distressing to see animals suffer and the gagging is horrible.

I hope your friend improves bsk, that is a long time in intensive care she must have a strong will.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 14.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks for good wishes for my friend. Yes, I did go and see her before my cataract op but have stayed away since then as there was a risk of infection. I have to be careful myself because of the drugs so am being a bit careful. Yes, she is strong Rhona, thank goodness.

sleep well all. xx
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Date: 15.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk you are right you must take care of yourself first and I am sure your friend would understand.Hospitals are a germy place to be. She must be a true fighter lets hope she will be home for the better weather.
Hows the dog Rhona? I guess we treat our animals as babies. I know I do I call my dog my baby
girl.They are helpless like young children when they are sick. I hope she is better to-day.

The sun is out have a good day everyone. xx
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Date: 15.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene. Good news today that my friend's infections seems to be abating a bit. She is still in ICU and will be in hospital for many, many months but it is a positive change.

How are you all this evening? Rhona, I hope your dog is better. I know you are nervous about Monday but it will soon be over.

xx
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Date: 15.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope you had a lovely day with your daughter Marlene. Did you treat yourself to anything nice? a new easter bonnet perhaps lol. To think it's only two weeks til easter and we had hailstones here today.

My poor dog is still very poorly she is retching so hard and hasn't eaten all day. I can't get her to take her antibiotics and to be honest i don't think they will help her anyway so not sure what i should do next she now has a bloodshot eye with all her retching.

I hope you are feeling ok bsk, i wakened this morning with a terrible headache think it's with all that's going on just now.

Hope you have a good weekend
Take care xx
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Date: 15.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk, i can't believe we have done it again. That is good news about your friend, i hope she gets stronger each day now x
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Date: 16.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona ,Sorry to hear she is still ill. I would take her back to the vet. Do they open on a Saturday? You could always ask them to keep her in for a few days until your daughter has had her op so you can concentrate on that. It sounds as if she might need some tests anyway. You can't look after a sick dog, yourself and your daughter right now.

Marlene, how was your day with your daughter? I hope you had fun and are not suffering too much as a consequence.

I'm not too bad, hands not great but am used to that and I am resting a lot. Seem to have got better at that these days! I suppose it is easier in winter when there's not so much to do outside.
xx
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Date: 16.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, sorry your dog is still not good Rhona. Oh dear you have so much to deal with right now. No wonder you have a headache.

Bsk good news about your friend what a long time to be in hospital bless her.

I did enjoy my day out bought a new outfit for the baby for easter to young for chocolate. I didn't buy much to be honest just window shopping. Oh yes I bought some mushrooms and milk. Had Lunch then came home. I am resting up now as I was busy cleaning to-day. I am learning to pace myself better. I do listen to you all when you are telling me I am overdoing it.
Glad to hear you are resting also.
Raining all day!!!
xxxx
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Date: 17.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I will be thinking of you and your daughter tomorrow and hope things go well.
xx
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Date: 17.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks bsk. I am not long back from the hospital as she went in this afternoon and she is feeling very nervous and thinks the operation will be first thing in the morning. Hoping they don't have to put gas in her eye, seemingly there are two ways of doing it and they don't know until they operate, if they use gas then she has to sleep face down etc. They are also doing the cataract tomorrow.

My dog is still not eating but the cough and retching is not so bad now but think she must have a problem in her throat or further down. I called yesterday but it was a locum and they don't have facilities to keep them in at the local one but think she might have to go to their other practice for investigation.

Glad you had a nice time with your daughter Marlene and do rest a bit more.

Take care xx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I will be thinking of your daughter and of course you to-day, sending love to you both. I hope they do the op early to save her fretting to long. Bless!!
Glad to hear the dog is a little better.

XXXXX
Hi bsk hope you are well!! xx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, I'm ok thanks. Usual aches and pains but nothing special. I hate this weather though. When is it going to end?!?
Hope you are ok.
Wait to hear your news Rhona.
xx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk yesterday I was in absolute agony all day.Close to tears as the day went on my pain killers were not much help. I gave in and went to bed early evening.My chest was pulsating with the pain and I hate that feeling. I have to say I am much better to-day just the normal shoulder and back pain (I can cope with that).
I do hope all is well with Rhona's daughter.
xxxx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh dear Marlene, do you think it was the weather?
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I am more than sure it was as to=day we have had sunshine and no rain so far. Well I hope so. Bsk I usually cope well but yesterday was a real bad day for me. I hope I dont have to many days like that!!! I need to up my pain thresh hold if this is what is to come.lol xxx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Has your new doctor come up with anything to help? Better painkillers etc.? Sounds dreadful. It's been chucking it down all afternoon and it's cold too. No idea whether that makes any difference or not but it's horribly depressing.
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

The New Dr didn't say too much apart from the painkillers I take are strong and to be careful with them. I will be making an appoinment with a different Dr at the practice to see if any better. I am sure the weather is no help to us and yes it is depressing I am a sun person myself and I told you before I suffer with SAD so it is not a good time for me always round in the winter. It is freezing outside just went to let the dog out and and the cold air just hit me. So much for Global warming. Bsk I just think we all need the weather to break and spring to arrive.Enough of me moaning.
I do hope all is well with Rhona's daughter. Poor Rhona she has had a lot to deal with lately.
You have as well, when are you getting your other eye done? What with all that and your friend, no wonder we are all fed up.
I am sure it will all come good soon
xxxxxxx Hugs and stuff
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls, My daughter has had the operation and was in theatre for 3 hours, we went up tonight and she sounded quite cheery although she was very sleepy and kept drifting off to sleep she has a patch over the eye and has to sleep on her right side for 5 days she is only allowed a 10min break every hour to avoid getting a detached retina. I just hope she manages to do as she is told.

Sorry to hear that you've been in so much pain Marlene. I find if i lie on my left side i get a pulsating in my chest, i think i must be pressing on my heart or something strange that causes it. I hope your new doctor can suggest something to help just take things easy in this cold weather. We are haing snow flurries tonight and it is freezing cold.

Hope you are having a break from the pain bsk.

I had my dog at the vet again today and she gave her a steroid jab but she isn't eating much at all. I managed to get her to eat a little tuna today but i had to hand feed her. The vet said if she is still not eating by wednesday then we should think about putting her to sleep but i don't think i can do that she still wags her tail and seems quite alert.

Sleep well and chat tomorrow xx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I bet you are glad your daughter's op is over. I'm sure she will manage to obey instructions. My sister had a detached retina and she had to stay on her side for two weeks.

I'm really sorry to hear what your vet has said about your dog. I had something similar with my cat, who wouldn't eat and I had to have her put down as she had a tumour on her liver. It was very sad. You will know when you have to do the right thing but I hope it isn't yet.

I hope you get some sleep tonight.
take care everyone. xx
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Date: 18.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, glad to know your daughters op is all done. She will do what she is advised I am sure.
As Bsk said you will know when the time is right for your dog. It is a sad time when we have to make a choice but hopefully it wont be yet and remember you give your dog a fantastic home and love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Date: 19.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, sunshine on and off to-day but with the threat of rain. I am quiet good to-day not too many painkillers so far (fingers crossed).
Rhona how is your daughter to-day ? Also is your dog eating any better ?

Bsk how are you?
I hope Willis is enjoying her hols in Malta.

Lynn I hope you are doing OK xx

xxxx
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Date: 19.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Just a quick extra bit of news going to the cinema on Thursday no idea what we will be seeing. My daughter won the tickets! I haven't been to the cinema since I saw Fatal Attraction many moons ago. We are going to eat after so I am looking forward to a night out.
Let you know after what the film was and if it is worth seeing.
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Date: 19.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sounds good fun Marlene. Hope you enjoy it.

I'm coming down with something, prob a cold and upper respiratory infection as chest feeling sore. Hope I can get on top of it as want my eye surgery next week.

Rhona, how are things today?
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Date: 19.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That will be a wee treat for you Marlene, it has been ages since i have been to the cinema too, in fact, sometimes i forget and still call it the "pictures" when we were kids that's what we called it and my girls laugh at me and say "what on earth is the pictures"

I hope you're not coming down with something bsk, plenty hot drinks and rest to try and chase it away.

I got a call this morning from my daugter asking to pick her up as she was get home. I really think it's a bit soon but hopefully she will do as she has been told she went right into bed as soon as we got it but she is quite week looking.

My little dog seems a touch better although i still have to spoon feed her but as long as she takes something i don't mind. I am thinking i might take her to another vet for a second opinion as i think to say to get her put down without doing tests is a bit odd.

Take care xx
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Date: 19.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope she's ok Rhona. Hopefully she will rest as she is supposed to. I expect she will feel better in a day or two.

I think a second opinion is a good idea. I got one for my cat as the first vet said there was nothing wrong with her even though she wasn't eating. Turns out she was very ill.
xx
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks bsk, it is a bit frustrating for her having to lie down so long but will be well worth it if her sight improves. I thought she looked a bit better this morning, not just as weak now and she doesn't seem to have much pain.

Was feeling very sore last night so took my hot water bottle and some paracetamol and went to bed, feel a bit better this morning although still stiff and bit sore.

Hope you are both feeling better today.

Take care xx
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Meant to tell you that my dog is in the garden and was barking at the postman, so that's surely a good sign as she hasn't barked for about a week.
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad to hear things are better with your dog - barking at postmen is positive!

The frustration your daughter is having will be nothing once she's back on her feet and, hopefully, with restored sight. Looking forward to having my other eye done next Tuesday.

However, I am feeling really rotten today and on the antibiotics for, what is officially, a chest infection. Had dreadful heartburn all last night and doc says it sometimes happens like that. I thought I was having a heart attack at one point! So I'm on the sofa with soup, a good book, my laptop, the radio and the cat. As good as it gets when you feel like this.
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, good that your daughter is feeling and looking better to-day. It will all be worth it!!
Barking at the Postman sounds like my dog, that is definately a good sign lets hope doggie continues to improve as well. I am not surprised you are feeling sore with all thats been going on maybe now your daughter and the dog are on the mend you may start to feel better as well. Take Care and remember to take some time out for yourself. xx

Bsk sorry you are feeling rotten lets hope the anti-biotics do the job. Heartburn is horrible I get it a lot especially when I take the painkillers to the max. It does have you wondering what is going on sometimes (bit scary).I wish you luck for Tuesday you wont know yourself when both the eyes are done. Are you driving yet or waiting until you have the second eye done? Sofa surfing is what I am doing as well. I had a good day yesterday but to-day I am hurting all over again WHERE IS THE SPRING?
My brother phoned and he may have to have a by-pass I am praying it will only be a stent (bad enough) he is only 53 years same age as my Dad when his problems began.He will have to wait 3-6 weeks for an appoinment for the final yes or no it seems so long for him to be thinking of the outcome. I am stressing a bit he sounded scared bless him. He is my baby brother and I still feel like he is my kid brother we all spoiled because of the age.
Take care everyone and keep wrapped up xxxx
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Marlene, sorry to hear about your brother's forthcoming op. Of course he will be worried but all I can say is a friend of mine had two stents put in last year and the improvement in her health is fantastic. She feels so much better and looks it too. They are very good at this sort of thing and the outcome is good. My granny also had heart problems in her 50's and she lived to 94!

I'm not driving yet as had to leave out lens from my other eye until yesterday and now I'm up to my eyes in painkillers. I've got stomach pain as well as chest pain now but is probably the increase in acid as my doctor said. Anyway, I'm not well and it's cold outside so have no plans to go anywhere for a few days - apart to feed my sister's cat (she is away) but a friend is going to take me round in his car.

Sorry to hear you are feeling rough today too. Spring is round the corner I believe! Everything in the garden is late, no camellias yet, or daffs (just tete a tete which have been out for weeks). Even forsythia struggling. A bit like us really lol!

Rhona, I hope you are feeling ok. And you too Lynn and Willis (is she still away?)
take care.
xx
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It seems to be one thing after another with us just now Marlene. I am sorry to hear about your brother but there is so much they can do now. My brother-in-law had a triple-by-pass last year and he is over 70 and he is doing so well now. It does seem a while to wait when you are worried, perhaps someone could call and tell them that he is feeling anxious about it and they might speed it up a bit but then again if they were concerned they would have had him in right away. Try not to worry, i know it's easier said than done as i am a born worrier but it really doesn't do us any good. I'm glad that you have a night out tomorrow as it will help to take your mind off it for a wee while.

Bsk, i am sorry to hear that you have a chest infection. Did this not happen the last time that it was nearing time to go in for the cataract operation? Take things easy this week and stay warm. I hate having indigestion. I was having problems a couple of weeks ago with my stomach and at times i wondered if the pains could be a heart attack. Be careful what you eat just now and chew food well although if it's the medication that's caused it then it's more difficult. I found that rennies helped me. I hope you feel better soon.

I think Willis is away this week and i hope Lynn is well as she hasn't been on in ages.

Take care xx
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Date: 20.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

T hanks for your support. I am sure all will be well. I just worry about him.
Nite and hope you feel better tomorrow.
xxxxx
sorry for short message not to good to-night
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear you are feeling bad Marlene, hope you are better this morning. I feel quite ill myself, nasty infection and very tired. Going to rest again today.
hope you all have a better day than I will!
xx
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh bsk what are we all doing getting ill all the time? Take it easy to-day plenty of hot drinks and a good book.
I am just full of pain and I have an earache this morning. That will be good to co to the cinema with. I am going to push myself to go.I need a bit of me time.
I am not looking forward to the week-end a guy is coming to fit the shower more upheaval. It will be good to have a shower cubicle again but I am finding the clearing up hard. I just keep telling myself in a year or so I will forget it all.
You take bsk and hope you feel better soon xxxx

How are things with you Rhona?
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Should of said take care!!! Can't even send a message right lol
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

thanks Marlene. Sorry to hear you are feeling bad again today. It's so boring having these infections all the time, never mind the joint pain.

Any chance of employing a cleaner in the short term to help you clear up? It would take the stress off you a bit.

Enjoy the cinema, dose up on pain killers before you go.
take care everyone. xx
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry to hear that you are both feeling so bad today. It doesn't seem fair all this pain that we have to put up with.

I hate having upheavel too Marlene. A shower cubicle will make such a difference though. I couldn't manage without mine. I have often thought about getting a cleaner.

Enjoy the cinema Marlene at least you can sit and relax there. xx
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I have a cleaner who comes for a couple of hours every two weeks. She does the stuff I can't do and keeps the general cleanliness levels up! Worth her weight in gold. Highly recommend it!
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Is she from an agency bsk or did you advertise? I have been thinking about it for a while. I'm having a day at home today too, my hip and hands are hurting today.xx
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I just asked around amongst my friends Rhona.
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Date: 21.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, back from the cinema. We went to a film preview the name of the film was TRANCE.
Not a bad film but concentration is needed. It is a thriller. Bags of popcorn were handed out free so all in all a good cheap night out.
Virgin do these tickets for the lucky customers who apply first. They send e-mail to customers and my daughter usually ignores them so she was made up she read this one. Nice to know some companies hand out nice freebies to their customers.
take care and sleep well and I hope you both feel better tomorrow xxxx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sounds as if you enjoyed it Marlene.

I feel really rotten today, still got a temperature and lot of back pain - think it might be muscular from coughing so much, also sofa surfing! Miserable :(
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Aw you poor thing bsk. Have you tried a hot water bottle against your back. I bought a Homedics shiatsu cushion from ebay for around £25 and it helps when my back is sore, i also position it at my shoulder when it hurts and it massages it and helps to ease the pain. This weather doesn't help either, i looked out the window early this morning and the place was white so went back to bed for a couple of hours. It is freezing cold here and quite windy.

Glad you enjoyed the cinema Marlene and the popcorn, i like the salted popcorn best and the pick-n-mix sweets, i'm like a big kid when i go, although it has been a while.

Take care and stay warm xx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona, have one at my back now! The shiatsu cushion sound interesting, am going to look it up in a minute.

It's pretty grim down here too. Bit of snow this morning but more expected tomorrow. I think it's going to be a weekend inside for me.

xx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi girlies, sorry you are feeling so rotten BSK. Sofa surfing is good. You are not missing a thing had to go and pick tiles for bathroom it is freezing and the wind is biting. We popped to Tesco so we can stay in the warm all week-end. (hermits) lol. No joke I am not going out again until I have to take the dog for her booster on Monday.

Rhona the snow looks lovely but I bet like me your bored with this weather!!!

Well keep warm and bsk keep sofa surfing and I hope that cough sorts its self out.
Hows your daughter and doggie doing Rhona??
xxxxxxx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes, i am getting fed up with the weather Marlene, it seems to be going on forever. I spoke to my sister that lives in Canada and they seem to be getting the same although somehow you expect snow in Canada.

My daughter is getting fed-up with being in bed so long. She is still not seeing out the eye but was told at her next appointment on 4th april that they hope she will have an improvement, it is a worry this waiting.

My dog has started coughing quite a bit again today so i am thinking it must have been the steroid jab that helped her the last few days, at the moment she is still eating but only prescription food and that is very expensive and some mince i made for her with rice. I will see how things are with her tomorrow.

My daughter is coming home from Spain on Monday for a week so hoping things settle down.

I have never felt it so cold, i am sure the North Pole couldn't be much colder.

Take care xx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Feeling marginally better this evening but still staying in over the weekend like you Marlene.

You've got a lot of stress at the moment Rhona. I'm glad your other daughter is coming to see you on Monday to give you a bit of support. I hope things go smoothly for your daughter, horrible to have to stay in bed so long.

So sorry to hear your dog is unwell again. Let us know how you get on tomorrow.
xx
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Date: 22.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Rhona sorry about your dog bless you might be right about the steroids. I guess time will tell.
I bet your daughter is fed up but it will be worth the boredom if it all comes good for her sight I do wish her well. Nice to hear your daughter from Spain is coming over, she will get a shock with the weather!! I am sure she will give you lots of support all ways round.
It has started to sleet and it is freezing just let the dog out rather had to push her out not that I blame her wanting to stay by the radiator.
Bsk I will be sofa surfing a lot this week-end my hands are hurting and swollen so I guess rest will be in order and keeping warm.
Have a restful week-end xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I woke at 5 this morning to snow snow snow and at 8 it is still snowing. Pretty but I am fed up now. My pain is through the roof again my hands feet back and shoulders, it would be easier to say what doesn't hurt. I am so glad I made plans to stay at home all week-end.It is so cold.
Ladies if you have to go out take care.
Bsk how are you? I hope you are under your duvet on the sofa to-day.
Rhona how is your dog? keep warm up there in Scotland. Do you think we will ever get any spring?
My central heating went off last night. It is working again now, we have to get used to this new air flow heating. When it works it is great!!! We just have to get used to it.It is very touchy!! All warm again now thank God!! We do have back up heating so we didn't get cold but electric fires can be costly. I am not worrying about the cost just keeping us all warm especially mum. Although she is a tough cookie and just keeps saying I'm ok stop worrying!
Take care hugs for you both xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I woke at 6 to the same thing Marlene! Sorry to hear you are in terrible pain. Hope you are dosing yourself up today and staying warm. I don't know what else to suggest. Hot water bottle, heat pad...?

I've been out really early to get some shopping but not again. Feeling somewhat better but still very painful to cough. Hot drinks and rest again today. I hope if I rest over the weekend I will be better though am not taking my Enbrel and my joints are starting to complain.

How are you doing Rhona, your daughter and the dog?

take care and keep warm.
xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is white here again this morning, we have had more snow falling during the night and it looks quite thick now. There is also a freezing wind so a day for indoors i think although i do need some shopping in.

Sorry to hear that you are suffering Marlene, have you asked your new doctor if he could suggest something new to help your pain? Take things easy, perhaps a nice hot bath or shower and something to rub onto your joints.

That's good that you are feeling a bit better bsk, hot drinks and keep warm.

My daughter is doing not too bad she doesn't really complain (not like me) the 5 days of being on her side is now over so at least she can move about now but she can't help worrying about her eyes she has a bubble of some sort in it just now so she wont't see much until that disperses.

I don't know what to do with my dog for the best. I could hear her gagging during the night. she was running about the other day but i think that has been the steroid. She still wants to go out and she is eating but just certain things, it sounds like there is something in her throat or chest thats causing the problem. If things don't improve very soon i will get some tests done but she is so nervous at going to the vet.

Take care xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, It's possible she's got a blockage or something which is not allowing her to eat properly and causing discomfort. Sounds like a trip to the vet is on the cards - maybe an xray or something?

Good to hear your daughter now up and about. The waiting must be difficult for her.

Thinking of you both.
xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, It sounds like your daughter is doing well bless her. Your poor doggie it sounds like a trip back to the vet on Monday is a good idea.
Bsk I had to go out to-day just to Wickes and it was snowing cold and windy. No more out for me this week-end I hope.
I am dosed up on painkillers with my hot water bottle sofa surfing and I do feel a bit better but my hands are still so painfull. If I don't use them they get very stiff as well so I am gently excercising them. There isn't anything else for me to do about the pain apart from grin and bear it.
Stay warm and Rhona if you go shopping be careful out there xxxxxxx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh it is freezing tonight. Just went to tesco today with my daughter, her first outing this week. I bought my dog some cat food to try and she seems to love it, at least she has eaten it she will probably start meowing next.

Nite nite, stay warm xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: marlkene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Rhona what is your dog like? Well if she is enjoying the cat food why not?
Glad your daughter felt like an outing even it was only to Tesco.
It is freezing here as well. The snow has stopped at long last, hope it stays that way.

Nite nite yourself xx
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Date: 23.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That would be Marlene LMOA
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Date: 24.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is baltic here this morning and quite a strong wind. They say this is this worst March is 50 years and i can believe it.

Hope you are all feeling a bit better this morning. My hands are still hurting but i guess i could be worse.

Take care and stay warm xx
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Date: 24.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is still snowing here windy and bitter cold. Yep 50 years ago it was definately like this. I remember it well as a 12 yr old we were off to Devon for Easter and down came the snow mid journey. No motorways to Devon in those days. My Dad gave us a right telling off for laughing at people in the ditches and broken down. I think he was worried it would be us next.
My hands are hurting me as well Rhona. My back and shoulder has settled a lot so fingers crossed my hands might settle as well.
Rhona I keep saying it we need some some sun shine. I just keep remembering how much better I feel when I take my winter break. I would stay there all winter if I could afford it (heres wishing).
Take care and keep warm. xx
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Date: 24.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I remember it too Marlene, I was 6 and built a massive snowman with dad in the garden. We lived in Kent at the time.

I've now got a cold and am still feeling rotten. Really hoping I will be ok for Tuesday.
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Date: 24.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Nice to know someone remembers haha!! I also hope you will be ok for Tuesday. Have you finished anti-biotics? Bsk make sure you are drinking plenty and stay warm. It is freezing here to-night and my hands are letting me know!
My youngest son came over to-day with his family the little girl had a terrible twos day to-day. She is normally happy go lucky. She said she was tired and slept for two hours also unlike her. I just hope she is not going to be unwell. The little boy is gorgeous ( not biased of course) he looks so much like his sister. Biggest smile ever for a little one. That unexpected visit had me forgetting my pain for a while.
Take care bsk and I wish you well soon xx
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Date: 24.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh that's nice Marlene. Kids have a way of cheering you up. My young nieces amuse me when I see them. They are a very good distraction.

It's freezing here, temp hasn't got about 0 all day and it's very icy out. I've been resting all weekend. Going slightly mad with boredom now which is a good sign - listened to some lovely Bach on the radio earlier and reading and surfing. But I've got stuff to do tomorrow so hope I will feel better. I think I can have the op if I have stopped sneezing. A friend is coming with me for company which is nice.

Hope you feel better yourself.
xx
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Date: 25.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good morning, Hope you are both feeling a bit better this morning. Still very cold here. My daughter arrives this afternoon so rushing a bit this morning.

Hope everything goes well tomorrow bsk.

Take care xx
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Date: 25.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning on this freezing Monday. I have to venture out to-day I feel a bit stir crazy. There is only so much sitting around I can do as well. It is a good sign that we are still giving it a good old go regardless! Bsk that is lovely that you have a friend going with you. Best foot forward as they say soon be over big hugs to take with you as well xx

Rhona take care not to overdo things I bet you are excited. Have a smashing time with your daughter. xx
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Date: 25.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is COLD! I Went out for half and hour and came back. Like you Marlene, I am feeling a bit stir crazy but still not very well. Am resting today in the hope I will be ok for tomorrow.

Rhona, have a lovely time with your daughters.
xx
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Date: 25.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I went out to-day it was absolutley freezing that wind was like ice. Went to a lovely chocolate shop in the Local village and purchased easter gifts for the Grankids. Then food shopping. Then we took the dog to a new vet for her booster. He was a lovely young guy, dog was at ease with him. So very happy after having same London vet for about 20years or more.
I have decided to have the family over for dinner on Sunday full on Turkey Roast. I will be busy all week-end and if I pay for it after at least it will be for something satisfying.
I hope you will be ok tomorrow and get the second eye sorted then you can look forward to a lovely spring (heres wishing)
xxxxx
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Date: 25.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene,still not sure whether I'm well enough to have it, will call them in the morning. Slept most of the day and read for the rest.

Aches and pains are worth it for good stuff like family dinners!
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, hope all goes well for you to-day!!!! xx

Rhona, hope you are enjoying having your daughter home for a while xx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope you are feeling better bsk and manage to make it to the hospital. You can let us know how you got on.

That will be lovely having all the family on Sunday Marlene. I am sure they will help out if needed.

I think we are going into town later, my daughter enjoys shopping when she is home and then we will go for lunch.

The sun is shining this morning but still freezing cold.

Take care xx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks for your good wishes. I went this morning not knowing whether I would have it done but they said I could if I wanted to. Got the same surgeon as before, she is a senior one and I liked her so that was good and she gave me a sharp lens. Can't tell how it is yet as have double vision right now! Will know more in the morning. Glad it's over to be honest though I walked into a chair on the way out of the hospital and can't find anything at home. Cold has more or less gone but my chest is rattling. Seeing my gp tomorrow so will ask her to check it.

Sounds as if you are all having nice family get-togethers this weekend. I'm going over to my sister's for dinner on Saturday.

take care xx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk thank goodness thats all done. So glad they went ahead. I hope tomorrow the eye will be settled a bit.
That will be nice going to your sister for dinner.
Rhona hope you enjoyed your shopping and lunch.

My Daughter and eldest son had to-day off and came round and took me out for a pub lunch.
It was freezing out and it took my breath away when the wind blew.
Nite xxxx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene. This eye feels better than the last one for some reason.

Hope you had plenty of alcohol to warm you up at the pub!

Buy anything nice today Rhona?
xx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

So glad that you managed to go bsk, now you can relax and put it all behind you and get back to normal, just take things easy for a wee while.

Hope you enjoyed the pub lunch Marlene. We had a nice time in town today and the sun was shining although it was cold.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 26.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

thanks Rhona!
night xx
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Date: 27.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, hope you are well!
No bsk only diet coke for me. I am used to no alcohol doesn't mix well with tramadol.
I am glad to hear that your eye is better this time. It will be good for you knowing its all out of the way now.
Glad you enjoyed your day Rhona it was freezing when we went to the pub.
I heard the weather forecast to-day and my heart sank when they said that most of April was going to be as bad as March. If winters are going to be colder and longer then the Electric and Gas companies need to stop upping the prices. Mr Cameron needs to step in I think. Sorry about that little rant.
Anyway have a good nights rest xx
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Date: 27.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene and Rhona,

no, I can see tramadol and alcohol don't mix Marlene! I'm totally fed up with the weather too.

My chest is really bad tonight. I saw the doc today but she thought it would be ok. We'll see. A friend came round with lots of treats this afternoon which cheered me up.

I expect you are busy with your family Rhona. Hope they are all well.
xx
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Date: 27.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls,

Sorry to hear that your chest is bad bsk, this weather won't be helping.

It was snowing when i got up this morning and to hear it could go on until mid April made my heart sink too Marlene, i don't think i can stand this much longer. I agree with you in that the utility companies shouldn't be allowed to keep increasing their prices, there should be allowances made for this freezing weather.

I had my dog at the vet again today and i am really worried about her as she isn't eating again. The vet thinks it's her heart now, he said it sounds like fluid around her heart and lungs and when i asked for an xray and some tests he said she wouldn't be strong enough to be sedated for xrays, she has to go back in the morning to see if the injection she got has helped any. I hate seeing her this way and she has been wanting to lie out in the freezing garden, i read that dogs sometimes do that when they are dying, it's so sad.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I am so sorry to hear your dog isn't doing too well. It is very sad and I was very distressed when my cat was dying. It was awful to watch so I took her back to the vet. Let us know what he says today.

I'm staying in today. On the sofa at the moment watching all the birds feeding outside. It's sunny and the snow has finally gone.
I hope I can see this bug off today if I rest. My eyesight good (fingers crossed) and I just hope I don't get any complications.

take care
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, sorry to hear about your dog. It is very sad.It is also very hard. Thinking of you.xxxx

Oh BSK poor you.and your poor chest. Do you have asthma? Mine has been a lot worse in all this cold weather and some days I am not sure if I have a chest infection. Lets hope your Gp is right and it is ok.How nice of your friend to come with lots of treats.
The sun is shining here but it is still freezing. I am staying home to-day and soaking up the sun through the window.
So pleased to hear your eyesight is good be positive no complications plain sailing from now in ( fingers crossed). It must be good for you knowing it is all over and done with.

My shower is in and I am going to have a leisurely one in a minute. We still have to decorate the rest of the room but it is already pure luxury.A bath was such a struggle for mum and me, it did have a overhead shower but what a struggle with mum. Now she has her dignity back.
I am loving the country life it would be nicer if I could get out and walk the woods at the bottom of the road once in a while. Maybe if the rest of the snow goes and the sun shines next week I could go with the other half again.I haven't even walked to the lake for weeks it is just to slippy and cold.
Well take care xxxxx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

How did you get on at the vet Rhona? I'm thinking of you too.

Glad you've got your shower in Marlene - it makes a huge difference and hopefully your Mum can have her privacy in the bathroom. I love a bath but not always easy to get in and out of.

You will get out in the woods soon Marlene. Just remember this is an exceptionally long winter. We are all going a bit mad! I managed a short walk in the sunshine this afternoon, thought it might help clear my chest. Feeling marginally better today what with steaming and drinking lots of fluids. Bird life in the garden is amazing today, they are very busy building nests and hunting for food. The cat is sitting at the French windows with her eyes on stalks!

chat later. xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk & Marlene,

My husband took her to the vet first thing this morning and she wanted to put her to sleep but he said he couldn't without speaking to me, i think that's why i didn't go. He said i had to call the vet which i did so she has agreed to come to the house tomorrow morning to do it. I couldn't do it today and i keep hoping a miracle will happen and she will start eating and be happy again but i know that's not going to happen. I have been so upset today and hope i am strong enough to carry it through tomorrow.

A shower cubicle is much easier Marlene, I wouldn't manage without mine. That will make a huge difference to your Mum and you.

Take care xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona bless you, it is hard but you know in your own heart it is the right thing to do. It is so hard to make the decision but remember your dog has had a lovely time living in your home. You will be strong enough tomorrow!! I will be thinking of you. Your family will all be there with you for support and Bsk and myself will be here if you need a chat. I am sending you the biggest hug ever xxxxx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk glad you are feeling a little better. I have a bird feeder in the garden and i have seen birds that I have no idea what they are. I am trying to find a book that will tell me. I have looked on the internet at one but without success.
The dog is very intimidated by the larger birds and charges at them when it all gets too much for her. We had a visit from the pheasant again to-day so nice to see it walking all around the back garden.
My pain is not too bad these last couple of days. (shush). My asthma is also a little easier to-day.
Well take care chat later xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene i appreciate that. My daughter that lives round the corner came tonight to see us and of course the dog and she doesn't think millie is ready to go yet so i am now so confused and don't know what to do. My daughter always looked on millie as her dog as she grew up with her. I bought some cooked turkey from the butchers today and she ate some out of my daughter's hand and she still walks about but she isn't eating much and lying in the garden all the time. I don't know if it would be cruel to wait a couple more days to see how she goes, it is just so final.

Glad to hear that you are both feeling a bit better today. Your garden sounds interesting Marlene with all the birds and visits from a pheasant. Spring time is my favourite time for the garden when everything starts to comes alive although we're still waiting on it arriving here.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona,

my heart goes out to you as it is the hardest decision to make. Once I knew my cat was in pain that made the decision for me. You have to trust the vet, they've seen lots of animals at the end of their lives and they know when the time is right. Usually they will do everything to keep a pet comfortable as long as possible and if they are not offering that option they must think it's not going to help. It's really sad I know.

Best of luck whatever you decide to do. As Marlene says, we are here to support you.
take care. xx
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Date: 28.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona you will do what is best by Millie I am sure. Try to get some rest we will be here for you xxxxxxxxxx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Wow!!!! Sunshine again what a lovely day. It is cold but the sun has me feeling good. Hope you ladies are well.
Rhona I am thinking about you (hugs)
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

back to out of hours doctor this morning to get second course of antibiotics. I feel rubbish.
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Bsk what a shame you are really in the wars lately. Do you think its your meds making you vunerable? I hope you get the anti-biotics. You need plenty of TLC and sofa surfing. Big hugs xxx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Was it just 250mg of antibiotic that you had bsk? or perhaps they didn't prescribe the right one for you. I think when the weather warms up you will feel a lot better. Take things easy this weekend.

What a morning i have had. I arranged for the vet to call at 11am to put millie to sleep and then my daughter came round at 10.30 and millie was wagging her tail and then came into the house with her and ate a bit turkey, so when the vet called at 5 mins to 11 to see if we were ok i told her that my daughter didn't think millie was ready to go so she told me to bring millie to her and she would give her a steroid to see if that helps over the next 24 hrs so my daugher took her for the jab and if she picks up we have to collect some more from the surgery in the morning and if not then we will have to decide again.

The sun is shining here too Marlene although we had a wee flurry of snow earlier.

Take care xx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That sounds a good option Rhona. Hope the steroids pick her up a bit.

I was on a full dose of antibiotics but they sometimes don't work. I've been given some stronger ones this morning so hope I will start to feel better soon. To be honest, the weather is so awful, it is a good time to be ill! Still watching the birdlife outside. They are collecting stuff for nests and lots of birds I haven't seen here before. It's very busy out there!

Marlene, I hope you manage to get out a bit today. We had sun this morning too.

take care
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That good news Rhona I hope the steroids help.When is your daughter staying till? I hope you are having a good time.We had a flurry of snow also but it didn't settle and the sunshine thawed out the pond. The pheasant and all sorts of birds were grateful for the thawed out pond. Never seen so many birds drinking in a pond. I loved watching the sparrows bathing in the waterfall in our last house.The poor dog is a bit overwhelmed with all this wild life. She was watching out the window at the chickens across the road that escape on a regular basis. Big white ones they are so lovely.
It is a good time to be ill but bsk you have had your fair share lately.Lets hope these anti-biotics do the job. I do hope you are well soon.
No I haven't been out trying to get the house a bit tidier for Sunday. It looks pretty good if I do say so myself. I have to go food shopping my hubby is taking me to-night when he gets home (poor thing). He wants to get some things done in the house tomorrow.
I hope you have a good week-end.xxxxxx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, I hope they work soon for you as you need a break from it all, At least your eyes are fixed now so you can relax on that and now concentrate on getting better. My daughter went to the hospital yesterday as she is concerned that she is still not really seeing out the eye and they said to wait another 4 weeks and if it hasn't improved then they will do another smaller operation so i hope it starts to improve soon.

Your garden sounds a buzz of excitement Marlene and yours too bsk. I enjoy watching the birds too although we have quite a few magpies in the garden and they are not my favourites at all. We have lots of rabbits in the garden, Millie used to love to chase them but she doesn't bother now poor thing. I really don't think the steroid is going to make much a difference, the vet is now saying her heart is fine but it sounds like she has fluid in her lungs and she has a feeling it is cancer.

My daughter leaves on Monday Marlene the times passes so quickly, she is away ice-skating with my younger daughter this afternoon and has a full weekend planned. I am sure you will have a lovely easter dinner with the family on Sunday.

Take care and have a lovely easter.
xx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, thanks for your support. Am really fed up now and a bit worried but just have to wait for new lot of drugs to kick in.

I hope your daughter's eye starts to improve. How is she bearing up with everything?

Sorry to hear the steroids aren't working for Millie. It was the same with my cat, she had cancer in the liver and she just lost interest in eating. They gave her a couple of steroid shots but they didn't really do anything either. It's desperately sad to lose an old friend.

I hope you enjoy your Easter in spite of everything that's going on.

Glad you are pleased with your house Marlene. Great to hear how well you have settled in.
Speak soon.
xx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Try not to worry bsk, it will be getting you down though, that is understandable. I think you should speak to the rheumatologist or your chest consultant if this is happening too often. Were they not going to give you a low dose antibiotic to take. I had a friend who's son has taken a low dose antibiotic for years as he had a heart operation and also had his spleen removed, this was to prevent infection. My husband also takes a tablet every day for his breathing (asthma) so there may be other options for you, it may well be the enbrel that is causing it bsk. Things will get better.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 29.03.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks so much Rhona. I'd forgotten about the low dose antibiotic and am seeing the chest consultant in two or three weeks, so will ask him about it.
take care xxx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Some good news about my friend in ICU, she is making progress at last. A nice Easter present for us all.
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That is great news bsk. It has been a long journey for her but at least she is getting there. How are you feeling today, any better?

The sun was shining this morning but getting quite cloudy now.

Hope you well Marlene. xx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, marginally better thanks. Still on the sofa or in bed all day with a temperature and nasty cough. Now it's trying to snow after a beautiful sunny afternoon.

How is Millie?
xx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk what a good bit of news about Heather. I do wish her well. You must be relieved.
Glad you are a little better. As they say slowly but surely. You just keep surfing that bed and sofa until you feel well.
We had a flurry of snow this morning beautiful sunshine and then by early afternoon it had clouded over.
I went out to-day to buy a birthday present for my daughter-in-law and other bits and pieces and I enjoyed the fresh air.
xxxxxx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes it is good news. She's not out of ICU yet and is still confused but infection coming down. I was supposed to spend some time with her tomorrow as her OH is away for the day but I'm too infectious (I've still got a temperature) but will go later in the week.

I do feel rough but feel the antibiotics might be starting to work. Had to cancel going to my sister's tonight but might go tomorrow if I feel better.

It hailed here today!

Hope you all have a great Easter day with your families!
xx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, You should start to feel better in a day or two and hopefully the weather will get a bit warmer too. Just take things easy until your chest clears.

It turned out quite a nice day here, not nearly as cold as it has been.

Millie is still struggling on bsk. I have been buying all sorts of food to try and tempt her but she isn't eating enough to even feed a cat. I bought a small jar of chicken/ham paste and she seemed to enjoy that.

Going out for dinner tonight with the family so i better make a move and get ready.

Remember the clocks go forward tonight. Lighter nights hurrah! xx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm sorry to hear Millie isn't eating. Is she getting any liquids at all? It's heartbreaking and I'm thinking of you.

Thanks for the reminder about the clock and have a lovely meal with your family.
xx
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Date: 30.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk lets hope you are well enough to visit your sister tomorrow.If not just take the time to rest and you may be able to visit your friend in the week. Hugs xx

Rhona sorry about Millie bless! Enjoy your Meal with the family. Yeah for the lighter evenings.
Hugs xx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning and Happy Easter girls. I hope you are feeling better bsk.

Have a lovely day with the family Marlene and hope you manage to your sister's bsk.

Weather seems to be getting milder here, i do hope it continues.

Millie seems a little better she drinks water bsk and still enjoys sitting out watching everyone passing my gate and still enjoys very short walks but her food intake isn't enough.

Take care xx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Happy Easter!

I spent my day in the local A&E. Apparently I have either a viral or bacterial respiratory infection which has exacerbated my asthma with raised white cells and high crp. Very wheeziy and coughing a lot. They stuffed me full of steroids and sent me home after 6 hours. So no Easter celebrations for me. On the duvet now again!

Hope you all had a fab day with your families. I will have to see mine another year lol!
xx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Aw bsk, that is terrible. I hope you feel better real soon. You must have felt really bad, poor you. Make sure you do take things easy. I remember on xmas eve spending it at the casualty with my daughter. These things always seem to happen at holidays. Take care and thinking of you. xxx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona xx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk sorry to hear you are so poorly. Lets hope the steroids kick in soon.Its such a shame you had to spend the day in A&E. I hope you feel a little better to-night. Take things easy and keep warm and plenty of warm drinks. Hugs xx
Rhona glad to hear Millie is doing ok. It has been a lovely day here and milder.
I am really tired and my hands and back are kicking back.I have been busy but will rest up tommorow. It was a lovely day but my daughter had to work. She will be coming tomorrow. My eldest Grandaughter is such a little lady she will be 14 this august. My Grandson is 12 this year and is growing up fast he has no problem with helping his nan.(bless). My youngest grandaughter was tired and started to cry when they had to go and said "daddy its such a hard life" she isnt even three yet. We all collapsed laughing. I am sofa surfing now but I will have to empty the dishwasher and reload it. Thats a hard life lol.
xxxxx
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Date: 31.03.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, I think the steroids have kicked in already as my breathing is hugely improved this evening. I'm quite angry at the doctor I saw in the out of hours surgery on Friday as I asked her for steroids but she said it wasn't necessary. I've been struggling since and could have felt much better sooner.

Your grandchildren sound lovely. I spoke to my 1 1/2 year old niece today and had an actual conversation! Mostly consisting of her agreeing that Easter eggs are a good thing. She is adorable, very feisty and determined. My 5 year old niece is a delight too. I've got one who is nearly thirty and another at 25. Quite a gap but I love them all.

Rhona, I expect Millie enjoyed having all the family around as you do too!
xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad to hear that you are feeling a bit better bsk, no wonder you are angry at the doctor, i think we know our own bodies better than they do.

Your grandchildren sound lovely Marlene and they can be so funny at times.

My daughter leaves this afternoon and flys from prestwick so will pop in and see my brother that lives close by and if the weather keeps up might even get a walk by the sea.

Take care xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona! Actually managed to get some stuff sorted out this morning. Got a lot more energy but still a bit wheezy.

Hope you manage to get a walk by the sea. I remember walking on the beach near Largs on New Year's Day once. Beautiful!

xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Am feeling very spoilt tonight. My sis came over with a very large Godiva egg plus another one from her OH, plus holiday presents from her trip. Nice end to a rather awful week!

Hope you both got out into the sunshine today. It was beautiful here, even managed to dry the washing outside!

Hope your daughter got her flight ok Rhona.
Speak soon.
xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk good to hear you are feeling better so soon. The trouble with out of hours Drs they don't know a thing about us. It would be better if they did listen to us.
That was nice prezzies and a visit from your sister. Bsk the young ones keep us going I find them so grown up for their ages.They are a delight the little ones.It was a lovely day I put my washing on the line also. I love my washing smelling of fresh air. Take care not to overdo it xx
Rhona hope your daughter has a good flight and you managed that walk on the beach. Hope millie is ok. xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That would cheer you up, bsk. I remember you saying she was going on holiday. Was it Mexico? I know it was somewhere warm. I hope you are gettin back to normal.

It turned out a lovely day here and i had my walk along the promenade at Troon. It cheered me up a bit after seeing my daugher off. There were loads of people there and many strolling along with their ice creams. Lovely fresh sea air.

I hope you are ok Marlene.

Nite nite,
Sleep well. xx
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Date: 01.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene & Rhona. The problem with the steroids is they make you feel superhuman but you are still ill lol! My joints are painful tonight, not a side effect I expected by I remember my GP saying something like that. Will ring my rheumy nurse tomorrow after I've been back for my follow up bloods at a&e tomorrow.

I hear there are some fab ice cream parlours up your way Rhona. My sister raves about one along there somewhere. I mean to get her to take me when I next visit. Glad you got your walk.

take care. xx
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Date: 02.04.2013
From: Willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi
Bsk sorry to hear you've been poorly I do hope u feel better soon, my friends daughter has fibro and she was in hospital over Easter the hospital were dreadful and she is putting in formal complaint. Yeah steroids play tricks with u don't they, I tidy my whole bedroom and a huge cupboard over the weekend but still feel it today ! I'm glad you all had nice Easters with grand kids or family even if delayed
Keep well everyone and p.s. do you think someone might start a new thread? It takes forever to scroll down (laughing)
Xxxx
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Date: 02.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thank you Willis. Am feeling a bit better today.

If you click on 'add comments to this topic' link at top left hand side of thread you can jump down to the bottom. Took me ages to figure that out myself!

Take care.
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Date: 02.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Everyone, another lovely day here. Sunny but a bit cold in the wind. Went out for a while to-day it was nice to see smiling faces instead of everyone hiding under scarves and hats.
I am glad you managed your walk along the promenade Rhona. Did you have an ice cream?
When are you going back to Spain?
Bsk Glad you are feeling a bit better to-day. Try not to overdo things.
Willis I have been trying to sort out my cupboards in the new kitchen. Putting all the every day things to hand. My poor hands are so swollen and throbbing. What can we do apart from soldier on?
This is the longest i have seen a thread on here and it makes me smile to see how much we have all chatted.
xxxx
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Date: 02.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It was a pleasant day here too Marlene although still a bit cold. I didn't have an ice cream yesterday lol, i might have had but we were going for something to eat. Not sure when i will be back in Spain, not too long, i hope.
Do you have splints for your hands Marlene? I can't bend my index finger but it's not too painful at the moment.

Good to know that you are feeling a bit better bsk. Just take things easy until you're recovered fully.

Perhaps we should keep the thread going til we get to 1,000 lol.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, no I don't have splints but I have OA specialist gloves. The bottom half of the fingers are free but the rest of the hand and wrist are supported. They aren't too tight and I do find they help when doing housework and gardening. I have a very odd lump on my finger just above the joint finger nail end. It is very painful. Just going to watch closely to see what happens. It might be just OA spur.I hope your finger doesn't get painfull it makes things difficult when the hands are sore.
We are debating whether we will be able to have our winter break this year. So much to be done on the house and at the end of the day we can't have it all!! I think we will miss it well I will haha.
I hope you are ok BSK.
We could try 1,000 why not
xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I think you should see the dcotor Marlene and ask what the lump on your finger is. It is always best to get these things checked out even although it probably is part of the OA. It is a big expense trying to get everything in the house done Marlene but sometimes it's best to put on hold and just have the holiday. I know last year i wasn't fit to go anywhere so really appreciated getting away in january.

How are you bsk? It is nice and sunny here although i haven't been out today. I tried taking millie to the park but she turned and came home again so not sure if she is too tired to walk or she might have thought i was taking her to the vet again. Her appetite has much improved but i think it's the steroids that's keeping her going just now.

Take care xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi! Well, it is trying to snow here. It's really cold.

I'm still feeling rotten and had a rather worrying call from my GP today and have had to just have a test repeated. They found a small amount of potentially very serious fungal infection in my lung. It could be contamination but I am wondering if that is why I am feeling so bad and not responding to the treatments I've had as well as I should. Anyway, trying to be upbeat about it as it hasn't been confirmed yet. Seeing my GP on Friday morning.

Hopefully your next infusion will calm your hands down a bit Rhona. Though not the same for you Marlene. I've just bought some epsom salts to try in the bath. Have either of you ever used them?

Snow, snow go away and don't come back another day!

xxx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I will go to gp if it doesn't settle within 2/3 days.
It is a lot of money getting the house sorted. I knew i would have to make sacrifices and i am happy to do that. Rhona the house and the location are so lovely and i am so happy here.
I am going to try to do a short break over here of course when the weather is better (if it gets better). I am so glad you are thinking of going to Spain again.
Good news on the Millie front, they do make you laugh maybe she did think she was off to the vet again bles her!! My daughters dog was helped for two years with steroids at the end of her life and if this is the way to go then so be it. My daughters dog was pain free and very happy and lively.
Take care Rhona hope bsk is ok xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

we must have crossed posted Marlene, see above.
xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk as you say it is a bit worrying but once you find out for sure I am sure you will receive the best treatment.As you say the test could be contaminated. You are right to stay upbeat and you seem to be a strong person mentally and physically to me.Friday isn't too far away.
Bsk i just let the dog out and it is absolutely freezing and the wind has really got up again. I am so fed up with this weather. I suppose every one is.
I do hope you feel a bit better tomorrow big hugs and love on its way XXXX
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Aw thank you Marlene. It's really lovely to have the support on here. I value it a lot.

How are your joints faring in this chill?
xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

You really are having your time of it just now bsk. Did you have a chest xray? Try not to worry until you get another test, it may be nothing and if there is anything wrong at least they will be on top of it. Wouldn't it be nice to have a spell with no pain and no worries. I'm getting a bit concerned that my daughter's eye hasn't improved any yet, i know it is worrying her.

You sound so happy with your new home Marlene and if you don't go on holiday this year then you will still have the pleasure of having summer in a new area and that in itself will feel like a holiday.

It was lovely here today but cold tonight. My daughter said it was heavy rain in Spain today. No doubt it will be here soon, i am liking this dry weather.

Nite nite and sleep well.
xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, yes it would be nice to have a break for a change!

I'm sorry your daughter's eye doesn't seem to be improving yet. There is still some time left before her appointment isn't there? I do hope they can do something more for her if it is needed but hope it isn't.

Yes, you do sound happy with your home Marlene. Moving is such an expensive but with a bit of luck we'll have a good summer and you will get to enjoy your surroundings a bit more.

Off to bed. Chat tomorrow.
xx
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Date: 03.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sleep well Bsk and Rhona of course.
My joints are not good but I think I am learning to cope well. We have to don't we. I am also off to bed soon. Armed with my hot water bottles and tv on to help me fall to sleep. Watching rubbish on tv usually works lol.
xx
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning and hope you are feeling better this morning bsk.

The sun is shining here again, lovely to have it dry again. It looks like a summers day outside although it is still cold. Hope it is the same where you are.

Have a nice day.
xx
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning, snowing here again. Unbelievable. I'm staying home and staying warm today. Hope you both doing the same!

I do feel slightly better this morning thanks Rhona.
xx
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

There's actually a blizzard outside!
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Really! and the sun is shining here, a beautiful fresh day. There are kids playing at the park opposite me but if it makes you feel any better it is still raining in Spain. x
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, well its been snowing all day and it is freezing. Glad you have some sunshine Rhona it makes you feel better. Well bsk I am not going out either if that is any consulation.
I am glad you feel better Bsk.
My poor hands are so painful. My shoulder isn't much better but hey ho.
XX
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

To be honest, I don't think any of us are going to feel much better until the weather improves. What a very long winter it has been.
xx
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

You are right bsk we all need some warm weather and fresh air!! Sofa surfing is ok for a limited time but I am begining to go stir crazy. I have been pottering all day because I am so fed up just sitting around It isn't good for the mental attitude.
I am praying for a nice day Saturday my daughter is coming to help me get rid of some rubbish at the tidy tip. I hate rubbish hanging around in the garden. My hubby is on nights so it will also get me out.
My shoulder actually feels a little better now I just wish my hands did. Can't have everything.
My brother rang this morning and he was saying he can't remember being so cold for so long. He is 67yrs and he has started to suffer with cold feet. He also has OA in his knees poor thing.
Well they have said next week it should warm up a bit but its going to bring rain so that will be good NOT.
xx
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Date: 04.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I hope you get on ok at the doctors tomorrow bsk. Can't believe it's almost the weekend again, i don't know where the time goes.

Feeling a bit down today and couldn't even be bothered going out. Going to bed shortly.

Hope you hand improves Marlene.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sorry you are feeling down Rhona, I am sure the weather is causing us all to be fed up. Stuck indoors day after day is soul destroying. I hope you feel better in the morning. It is 10 past one in the morning I am in so much pain I can't sleep.
Bsk hope your results are ok.
I hope you are both sleeping xx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm sorry you are feeling down too Rhona. I'm not surprised as you've got a lot on your plate.

Sorry that you couldn't sleep from pain Marlene. It's horrible to be like that.

Saw my gp this morning. test results are not back but she thinks I'm getting better so we will see. Didn't sleep so well myself last night as a friend came round and stayed rather late. Going to nap later on lol!

I hope you both have a better day today. This winter has seemed unrelenting in terms of difficulties for all of us. Things are tough at the moment but you are both strong and will cope with things. You are allowed to have off days once in a while.
take care. xx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: Emm

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi girls, can I join in with things. I agree about the weather, seems like it's going to be cold forever, even on those sunny days.....so cold. I have bits and pieces of pain and problems going on too, but not going into detail today. I'd like instead to send you all my best wishes and sincerely hope that all feel better soon. I wish we could all get a spell of nothing going on...arthritis wise. Lot's of love x
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Emm, thank you it is so nice for someone just to say hi i wish you well. I hope you are not in too much pain. Lovely to have you on board.
They say the week-end may be a little better weather wise lets hope so. I would love to be outside for a couple of days pottering in the garden. Have a good week-end xxx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, how annoying no results back yet BSK as long as you feel a little better every day then thats good news. It is lovely to have visitors but we can be up too late LOL. I have evry intensions of having an early night. I feel so tired but if I sleep in the day I don't sleep well at night. You are right bsk I will cope with it all I have too.
Rhona are you ok sweetheart???
Back later for updates on what your days have been like. xxxx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls, Glad you are feeling a bit better bsk, that's surely a good sign so hopefully there will be nothing out of the ordinary in your tests.

It's not nice not being able to sleep Marlene. I usually read in bed until i feel my eyes closing. My shoulder is very sore this morning so hoping they will give me my appointment soon for the infusion.

Lovely to have you joining in Emm. I hope your knee has been a lot better since the steroid jab. The weather here is lovely although very cold but sunny and dry although i think rain is due for the weekend and i hate the rain. My daughter said it has been very wet in Spain this week but it has to improve there so that will be the rain heading this way no doubt.

Take care and have a lovely weekend.

xxx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: Emm

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Lovely weekend to you all too. It is sunny here now too, but so cold. I am stuck in waiting for the gas service man and they only say between 1 and 6 pm, so it may be a long wait. My knee has been great, thanks, foot probs now, but never mind. Changed the duvet set on the bed just now and that warmed me up! Thats a struggle of a job at times, king size bed too. Not that I am a king size person, am a size 10-12. I have had a good day today, energy wise, done 2 trips out, but driven in my car, can't walk far and ironing too. Some days I can hardly do anything and feel sooooo guilty on those days. Fatigue...it's terrible. If the gas man is not too long I may do an Asda shop. Wow I am excelling myself!!! Lovely 'talking' to you all, makes me feel better. Love to all x
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Don't overdo it Emm, you have been a busy bee to-day. It is lovely here the sun is shining a bit windy but a change from yesterday snowing all day.I have done a bit of washing now blowing on line. Just had dinner as other half on a night shift. So it will be early settling in front of tv. Tomorrow all being well I will be making a few trips down to the tidy tip so much rubbish to clear. (moved in January)
I cleared my ironing yesterday hate it with s passion always have. So I always make sure it never piles up.
Take care hope the gas people come soon enjoy your shopping x
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: Emm

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hey, you have been busy too, having a cuppa while still waiting. I don't enjoy food shopping at all. It's a chore! I've paced myself, I put on the sheet and 4 pillow cases and then sat on the bed while I phoned my daughter, Rachel in Switzerland, poor thing has just about lost her voice and couldn't talk for long, but I had cooled down and finished putting on the duvet cover afterwards. We only had a flurry of snow yesterday, none today. Lets hope it's gone for the year now. Good luck with the clearance. X
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well it has been another lovely day here.It is hopefully going to be a good week-end and then it is downhill from then on. When is the summer coming. I like you rhona am hurting and I dont need the rain that they say is on its way.Bsk hope you have had a good day!!

Emm I have never been to Switzerland it was always on my wish list but it didn't appeal to my hubby.
All you ladies having daughters living abroad it is fantastic that they took the leap to explore life abroad on a more permanant basis. But I guess you miss them.
Well nothing exciting happening so will talk later xxxxxx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: Emm

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I am sooooooo angry, waited all afternoon, seven and a half hours precisely, and my gas man did not show.Rang about 5.30 to see if he was coming, was told yes, waited till 7.30 pm and called again, one chap cut me off, I phoned back and told them I had no visit. They don't seem to care and said it was a system fault! HUH
I had no phone call, no nothing to let me know the situation. I pay monthly for this homecare and this is the treatment you get. I think it is shocking. It's now re- schedualled for Monday in a 2 hour time slot. We will see.
I sent a complaint e.mail. I wonder if they respond.
Sorry for the moaning but I think this is shocking.
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

How annoying for you Emm. They don't seem to care that they keep you in all day waiting on them. I think they have to respond to your complaint although if that's the way they are it might take a while.

I think the weather has to improve down south tomorrow so hopefully you will see some sunshine.

Just went to Marks & Spencers today to get some food, i really like their food and they have lovely big juicy oranges. I can drive right up to the door now that they have opened one of their food stores in a retail park about 15mins away. I then had to take millie to the vet again to get more steroids, she wanted to see her again before giving me them.

Hope your pain isn't too bad tonight Marlene.

Are you ok bsk?

We haven't heard from Lynn in ages, i hope she is ok.

Nite nite xxx
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Date: 05.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, you must all read willi's post.

How annoying Emm.
My pain is easier to-night I am tucked up in bed its 11 o'clock and I am feeling sleep coming on horrraaahh.

Lynn are you ok? haven't seen you post in a while.
Night all xx
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Date: 07.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning everyone, how are you today? Hoped for a lie in this morning as have builders next door 6 days a week. But no, a mini cab driver decides to park up outside and clean his cab, slamming the doors I don't know how many times! Bah!

Beautiful morning though cold.

Feeling a lot better today at last. Hope you are all doing ok.
xx
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Date: 07.04.2013
From: Emm

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, Oh you never got your lie in! We had road workmen a couple of weeks ago putting in optic fibre thingies for the local schools and I had to get up every morning for 2 weeks and move my car at 6.30.
Rhona mands food is good, have you had the dine in for two for £10. That is really good value, especially when steak is one of the choices.
Am invited out to lunch today, but having a really slow start, can't get myself into gear!!!
Have a lovely Sunday everyone. X
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Date: 07.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad to hear that you are feeling better bsk and having a bit sunshine does help. I thought we had rain forecast so pleasantly surprised it's not here yet.

Yes Emm, i have had the dine in for 2 with a bottle of wine lol. I am going to have to pop out to tesco today as i am running short of everything. I should really do an online shop as not the best way to spend a sunday. I remember years ago before shops opened on a sunday and the small ones that did were not allowed to sell certain items on a sunday and not just alcohol but some everyday things because it was against the law. How times have changed.

I hope you are ok this morning Marlene and not suffering after moving things yesterday.

Take care xx
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Date: 08.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi All, hope you all had a good week-end. I was so busy saturday rubbish cl;earing with my daughter. Sunday my eldest son came with his chain saw and cut back trees and shrubs and the garden is taking shape nicely.
No guessing I am paying to-day but I will be doing a lot of sofa surfing now as tomorrow rain is on its way. xx
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Date: 08.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Must be good to get it done Marlene. I felt so tired today I couldn't do much. Don't know if it is because I'm off the Enbrel at the moment but the steroids usually give me a bit of a kick. Hmmm.
Still waiting for my results to come back. Should be throgh tomorrow. I am guessing the results are good otherwise the doc would have phoned by now!

Hope everyone else ok?xx
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Date: 08.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

They do say "no news is good news" so hopefully your results will be fine bsk.

It's always nice to see the garden taking shape Marlene and i am looking forward to seeing a bit of colour in the garden soon. I bought small connifers years ago and they are now so tall that they are almost touching the telephone wires. My husband wanted to get them cut down and arranged for someone to come and give him a price but i had to put a stop to it as i am sure the birds will be nesting in them so we have put it on hold until the autumn.

Got my appointment in today for my infusion for this friday, i am a bit nervous and hope i dont have any side effects this time.

Take care xx
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Date: 09.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, I am not surprised you feel tired you have been so unwell lately. I hope you will be feeling more energetic in the next few days. I hope your results are back soon. I am with you if you haven't heard anything yet this must be a good sign!!

Rhona you do make me chuckle, but bless you thinking of the birds nesting.
I hope your infusion goes well on Friday. Try not to stress too much about it.
Hugs to both of you xx

I hope you are ok Lynn.
Hi Emm hope you are well.
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Date: 09.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad to hear you've got your infusion coming up Rhona. I hope it helps. How is everything else going with your daughter and Millie?

I've got half of my results back. My own gp is away this week so got someone else who doesn't know my history and she said cheerfully, 'well you haven't got a bacterial infection.' Which I already knew.

She went on to say I have a fungal infection in my lungs but they don't know what type yet, this as if it were good news (chances are if I had aspergillus in my previous test that this is what I've got but, hey ho, I'm not a doctor.)

She said don't jump the gun but when I told her I was on immunosuppressants she changed her tune and suddenly realised the implications. Ye Gods, don't these bloody doctors ever read your notes? So she is ringing me when they get the full results. So that's no Enbrel for me for the time being, if ever.

So it's the bad news right now. I suppose it might get better but am not confident.

Haven't even googled it as it is such a bad thing to have! Hopefully my chest consultant will sort me out on Friday.

Marlene, lynn and Emm - hope you are all ok.
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Date: 09.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, sorry the news wasn't so good but I am sure you will get better support from your chest consultant.
It is blo*** annoying when they don't read our notes. It's like we have to spell it all out over and over again.
I know it is easy for me to say but try not to worry. Sleep tight a great big hug is on its way xxxxxxx
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Date: 09.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene. Will let you know how things go. Hope you are not suffering after your busy weekend.

Willis, I forgot about you - how are you?

xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, I am sorry that you are having this bother just now. It's just as well that you are going to see the chest consultant on friday as they will have a much better idea as to what's going on. I would have thought if you were starting to feel better then that would have been a good sign so try not to worry too much. It seems to be one thing after another with us just now. My daughter's sight hasn't improved any yet so looks like she might need another operation soon. It is getting her down and she was quite tearful yesterday. My wee dog is still not great, she is eating better but that is probably because of the steroids but she is bringing a lot of mucus up. We went to a concert tonight and when i came home it was all over the floor and in every room. Just as well it's wooden floors i have and not carpets.

I hope you are doing alright just now Marlene. You too Emm, Willis & Lynn.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, thanks, I am trying to put it on the back burner until Friday though I suspect the steroids are responsible for me feeling better.

I'm really sorry your daughter's eyesight hasn't improved. That must be disappointing for her and worrying too. I hope they can sort out the problem with another op. Isn't she due to go back shortly?

Sorry to hear about Millie too. Are you planning to take her back to the vet? What a lot you have got on your plate at the moment. At least you are getting your infusion this week. That should help with the pain aspect of things at least.

We have to be strong and deal with all that life is throwing at us at the moment. Thinking of you all. xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning Ladies, I am sending a hug to your daughter Rhona bless her. It is a shame the op hasn't helped her much. Its such a worry for you as well. Sorry Millie isn't too well maybe another visit to the vets to see whats happening with her. Rhona try to take a bit of time for yourself as bsk said you have a lot to deal with xx

Bsk you sound like your old self you are right we do have to be tough and with every knock back we come back stronger.
My hand is like a balloon this morning and painful I think this must mean the rain will be getting us soon. LOL.

My husband sciatica is bad just been to drs and given strong painkillers again. I have told him he really should mention his sister has ankling spondilities (spelling) and his brother has RA. He has never been sent for an x-ray leave alone a blood test. It is getting so often now I am worrying that it could be more than sciatica.
The Gp we have her husband is a back surgeon and she said she would never have back surgery unless she could not walk as it always leaves problems if not now but later. Well thanks for that haha She tells me now. I have to say she is a lovely GP and listens and is very honest. I guess judging by her answers to me for the present time my lot is my lot. So I am keeping my fingers crossed the next generation will fare better. My son is showing signs of back problems at 39yrs its all worrying when you know what is down the line for them.

Enough of my waffling as you can probably tell I am a bit stressed with it all to-day.

xxxxxxxxx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, sorry to hear you are dealing with a lot too right now. Has your husband tried osteopathy for his sciatica. I used to get it a lot and that helped though I don't go any more. Also, there are a lot of stretches you can do to help your back and I don't get problems if I keep them up. Just google stretches for lower back or back pain. They really work.

Most beautiful day here except the builders next door are shouting the whole time. Driving me nuts. They shout even when they are standing two feet apart. Must be their default setting lol! I go and shout back at them all occasionally!

Keep your spirits up.
xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, it has been beautiful here as well. You had me in stiches can I ask what did you shout back at them LOL.

He does do streching excercises he has a sheet of them from the physio. He did try the osteopath years ago. He is going for a stroll with the dog later. I have had back trouble for years as you know so I do feel for him!!
I had a little potter in the garden nothing much as my hands are so sore to-day. xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Evening to you all. It has been an all right day here although it did try to rain this afternoon but thankfully it didn't come to anything.

Must be very annoying having builders there so long bsk, perhaps you could turn your music up to block them out. We have a chap over the wall from us and he is either burning garden rubbish or has smoke coming out his chimney that stinks, i dont know what he gets to burn.

I hope the pain in your hands eases off a bit Marlene, have you tried wax baths?

xx
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Date: 10.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes, the builders are driving me nuts, especially now the weather has improved. I tell them to shut up sometimes but spoke to their foreman today and things calmed down a bit.

Sorry to preach to the converted Marlene! I used to get terrible sciatica but haven't had it for years now - the ONLY bit of me that doesn't seem to hurt these days lol!

Rhona, you can report the smoke to environmental health as it can be a statutory nuisance, they will check it out.

xx
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Date: 11.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, bsk hope the builders will have a bit of consideration for you now. Rhona complain no one minds the odd bit of rubbish burnt but everyday? as you say what does he find to burn.

Sciatica is awful glad yours has gone away bsk you have enough to deal with. He is going to tell the gp that his brother has RA and sister has AS just in case. He has gone to work with painkillers in pocket (poor thing).

My poor hands are like balloons no guessing the rain is here. So why am I always shocked that this happens.
I do have the wax bath and use it but I don't think it really helps but I still use it. LOL

Sore hands or not I have some ironing I must do. I will be putting on my support gloves and carrying on regardless as they say.
Have a good day!!!!
xxxxxx
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Date: 11.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I never iron til I wan't to wear something Marlene. Gave that up years ago! One of the joys of living on my own I expect.

Still no full results back but off to chest consultant tomorrow so he might be able to get hold of microbiology and find out what they think.


Good luck with your infusion tomorrow Rhona.
xx
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Date: 11.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks bsk and good luck to you too. I do hope everying is ok with you and he can put your mind at ease.

It has turned out quite miserable here, i knew the rain would come back, we can always depend on it lol.

I went into town today with my daughter as she was looking for shoes and she got a lovely dressy pair in hotters, they have a nice height heel. I thought it was just casual shoes that they sold.

Hope you haven't made your hands worse by ironing Marlene, i try not to do it unless it is absolutely necessary. Things like jumpers i put in the tumble dryer and then they dont need ironed.

Take care xx
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Date: 11.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona.
sleep well. xx
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona and Bsk wish you both luck to-day.
Its raining again shock horror!!!!
Bsk hope your results are clear. Rhona hope the infusions goes well for you xx
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene!

My garden was quite dry so rain good for all those spring flowers - followed by a bit of heat this weekend it should all look glorious soon!

How are you hands?
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, the rain will help my new shrubs and bulbs.I am waiting to see what else appears in the garden. So far snow drops daffodils and tulips.
My hands are still sore but I am trying to ignore it and get on with things. It makes no difference if I rest them.
xx
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girls,

I hope you got some good results today bsk. I am just in from the hospital and the infusion went without any problems just a bit long sitting for 6 and a half hours so that's me for another 2 weeks then go through the same again. Will be well worth it if it continues to work and i have no side effects.

It has been a wet miserable day here too so i didn't miss much lol. I heard it has to be nice again for the weekend, so here's hoping.

Oh and my wee dog is looking a lot better today, more like her old self so here's hoping she is on the road to recovery, if she is we will be going to another vet in future after them wanting to put her down, although early days yet.

Take care and let us know how you got on bsk.
xxx
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, good news about infusion and Millie. Yes, I would look for another vet if she is fully recovered!

Had a good appt today. Lots of questions answered and drugs changed etc. He's not sure about the fungal thing, doesn't think I'm ill enough but took bloods to check. I should get some results next week and decide what to do then.

I am still wheezy with asthma and need to up my treatment for that. He explained a lot about what is going with my lungs and how to treat it so that was helpful.

Just waiting for rheumy to ring me so I can get back on my Enbrel. Joints really seizing up today and fatigue bad.

Watching the starlings having a bath in the pond. Water flying everywhere. It's amusing me!
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That sounds a good appointment that you had bsk and with a man that knows what he's talking about, so fingers crossed all will be fine with the bloods. This cold weather won't be helping your chest either and having to have central heating on isn't always good although we do need the heat so it is a vicious circle. Roll on the better weather.

I hope you are alright Marlene.
sleep well xx
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Date: 12.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona. No call from the rheumy so will have to ring the hospital tomorrow. grr!

How are you doing Marlene? How are the hands this evening?
xx
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Date: 13.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning on this lovely sunny one. Hope the sun is shining on you all as well.

Rhona glad your infusion went well. Good news about Millie. A second opinion from another vet is what I would do as well xx

Bsk your appoinment sounds like it went well. Lets hope this weather is going to change for the better.Its good when things are explained properly. It helps to know exactly how to control it. I have asthma so I know how horrible it can be the wheezing and shortness of breath.
I hope your bloods will be ok it sounds like you will be ok fingers crossed.

My hands are still like ballooons but I am hoping the sunshine will sort that out.
Well have a good week-end. I am going to a food arts and craft festival on Sunday. It is mostly outside so the weather change will be helpful.

xxxx
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Date: 13.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, i am glad it's over, i can feel my hand starting to burn but hopefully it won't get too bad. The last time i had the infusion it was a friday as well and i woke up on the sunday morning and they felt they were on fire so hope it doesn't happen this time or at least as bad.

It is quite cloudy here at the moment, certain parts of the country have to get it as warm as 19 today but not here unfortunately.

Hope you chest is getting better bsk, some nice fresh air outside might help.

Enjoy your fair tomorrow Marlene and you might get some nice treats at it.

XX
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Date: 13.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, well the sun has disappeared. I got a lovely stroll down to the lake in while the sun was shining. My washing all dried on the line all this tumble drying is getting expensive.

I hope your hands don't get too bad. It is horrible when your hands are playing up it stops you doing everything!!!

I hope it is warm tomorrow!! xx
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Date: 13.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New t.hread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well its 10:22 I have gone to my bed the rain came back and my poor hands are in real trouble.
I am getting fed up to the back teeth with all this. I am laying here listening to the gales outside its like winter again. What happened to the good week-end weather that was forecast???
I hope it is better tomorrow I was looking forward to a day out in the sun lol.
The winter is just going on and on!!!!!
Sorry for the moan ladies xxx
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Date: 13.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I know what you mean Marlene. It turned out quite nice at one point this afternoon so i went into the garden and tidied up my herb box and the next thing it got so cold i had to come back in. I think it has to be strong winds tomorrow although earlier i thought they said it was to be sunny. We will just have to wait and see what tomorrow brings.

Sorry that your poor hands are so sore Marlene, just you hug that hot water bottle and try and get a good sleep.

Are you ok bsk?

Nite nite xx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning, well the sun is shining and the wind has been howling all night and still is. I am still going to the food and arts fair.Armed with painkillers lol.My hands are still so painfull.
I hope you are all ok xx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi, beautiful day here but windy too. Maybe the sun will help your hands Marlene. Enjoy the food fair.

I'm feeling terrible without the Enbrel, desperate to start it again but no call from rheumy. Will have to try and get someone tomorrow. I've got no energy at all and my hands are bad too. And my eye is irritated. Might be the dust from wind and hope it's not an infection brewing. Back to Moorfields on Tuesday luckily.

Listen to me! Endless health irritations! So boring.
xx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Not so beautiful here bsk, it has been raining all morning. It doesn't help the mood either.

You really have had your time of it lately, Bsk. Get onto the hospital first thing in the morning and hopefully you will get back on the enbrel and it will take effect quickly. I am sure the lack of energy is because of the pain you are in and again that should get better when you are back on it. Perhaps you could discuss with them if there is another biologic that you could get that doesn't cause the same amount of infections or the small dose of antibiotic.

My eyes sometimes get irritated, in fact they often do and i think it is the r/a but try not to rub them and good you are going there on tuesday. My daugter thinks her eye is improving a bit so i do hope it continues and then she might not need the other operation.

Enjoy the fair Marlene.
xx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yeah for your daughter's improving eye. Long may it continue to improve!

I'm happy on Enbrel Rhona. Better the devil you know and all that. I've got better antibiotics and better advice now so, hopefully, it will work.

Hope the weather gets a bit better in Glasgow.
xx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

hi Rhona, glad your daughter is noticing some improvement in her eye. Lets hope this continues. The weather has been good to-day sunny and warm but the wind has been awful.Sorry you are still getting bad weather I am hoping to-day is not our summer LMAO.

Bsk I hope you get your Enbrel soon. You are having such a bad time of it lately. Lets hope those anti-biotics kick in for you and the advice they gave you helps.

The fair was a lovely day out I purchased some apple & blackcurrant Brandy it can be used for a long drink with lemonade or just a shot. It is supposed to be good warmed on ice cream. I did try a sip and it certainly had a kick (very nice)
I also bought some home made chocolate for the other half.
They had such a lot of wonderful new products but I was very good and didn't get to tempted.
They had lots of jewellery stalls all hand made very nice I have to say.

Nite all xxxx
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Brandy sounds nice Marlene. Sort of thing you need on a cold spring night haha!
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Date: 14.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, she is feeling a bit more positive now. Glad to hear that you had a nice time today. The brandy might even help you sleep lol.
sleep well xx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, the sun is out again this morning don't know how long it will last. The wind has dropped the skies are blue. Just what I need for my SAD I think the lack of blue skies had me feeling right down in the dumps. I do take a supplement for this but its not the same at all.
My hands are still very sore but it could be worse.
Have a lovely day ladies xxxxx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning, The sun is shining here too although quite a lot of clouds in the sky and a bit windy.

I wish you could get something to help your hands Marlene, it is very wearing when you have constant pain.

I wakened early this morning and felt as though my neck was broken, it's not so bad now but my shoulder is sore and my head feels strange, i am thinking it is a side effect to the infusion so i hope it wears off soon as it's making me feel quite dizzy. I am just going to stay in today.

I hope you spoke to the hospital bsk and are able to get back onto the enbrel.

Have a nice day.
xx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, oh poor you lets hope it will all go away soon if it is side effects. You would do well to stay home if you are feeling dizzy.I hope your shoulder has eased up a bit
I have been in the garden most of the day enjoying those rays of sunshine. It is a little bit windy again now. The sun is still shining although I can see the clouds looming.
My hands are still so sore I think I will just have to sit it out until they decide to behave lol. I have been taking all my allocated pain killers for days now and feel pretty bombed out. I just dodn't know what else to do I can't cope with the pain. Roll on summer.
I had a little chat with my neighbour to-day he is 88yrs and has lived here 50 yrs he seems a sweetheart. He was telling me all about the village history. It was interesting and he was saying to me how long the winter has been for him
bless!
Well i suppose i should think about making dinner. xx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Not feeling so bad now Marlene. That's good that you got out in the garden today and your neighbour sounds interesting, does he live alone? I bet he enjoyed telling you all the history. It has been really showery here today, i just took millie a walk at the park beside me and she was trotting along looking quite well, we passed by the old folk's home and she ran in and i had to go in and bring her back out. Perhaps she is looking for a place in there lol.

Enjoy dinner xx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh good its nice to know you are feeling better. Millie seems better as well.Bless her!!
Yes my neighbour does live on his own. He told me his grandaughters want him to sell and buy a bungalow by them so they can help. But he laughed and said maybe next year. He is very independant.
I hope you have a bit of better weather tomorrow.

Bsk are you ok??

xx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

HI all
I hope you are all doing ok and not suffering too much more and resting when you have to. It's been nice to see some warmer weather.
Sorry haven't been on to say hi but husband was taken into hospital thursday and kept in overnight so by friday morning i was like a zombie :)
he's to go back on 24th as he has aortic aneurisym and gallstones so the two of us are walking round like we're 90 year olds :)
take care and i'll pop on when I can
xxx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi all,

Willis, that's terrible news but good they have spotted it and can treat him. What a disaster for you both. You'll just have to try and get some help if you can. Do you have any support in place?

Rhona, very good to hear Millie is back on form and you too. Glad you didn't take the vet's advice!

Marlene, I don't know what to say about the hands. I just hope some decent weather might help. Mine are bad today but I know it's because of lack of meds. Good you are meeting your neighbours. It makes such a difference when you can get out and about.

Got results (after a struggle getting through to the surgery) and have got candida. Might just be in my throat of maybe in the oesophagus. I had it a couple of months ago, if you remember. Waiting for gp to ring chest consultant. And I'm waiting for rheumy to phone back to see if I can take my drugs but the nurse says not for the moment. I'm not only bored with it all, I am very tired too and needs some drugs soon!

Lovely weather today though, which helps.
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I am sorry to hear about your husband Willis, i hope he makes a full recovery. Try and rest when you can as you don't want to be setting yourself back.

Shame that you couldn't get back on the enbrel today bsk but hopefully it won't be too long. It's no fun being in pain. My shoulder is really sore tonight. I am hoping the last course of infusion is not going to wear off before this course kicks in as it took 4 months to take effect. I was supposed to get it after 6 months but it has been 10 months.

Hope your hands are a bit easier tonight Marlene. We have rain and gales forecast here this week. Do hope you get the sunshine.

Sleep well.
xxx
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Date: 15.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I'm ok thanks rhona, just being a baby about it all. Hope your shoulder is better after some sleep.
xx
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Date: 16.04.2013
From: Patsy

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi, hope ya's dont mind me jumping on here. Hope you are all well and not suffering too much. No sleep for me last night cuz tablets. Now have drive three and half hours arghhhh. My mother has recall app tomorrow for breast clinic. Fingers crossed. Xxxx
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Date: 16.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, Willis sorry to hear about your husband. I do hope he is in better health soon. Try to rest up and remember you need your energy for both of you now. Although I am sure you will pull through together. Take care xxx

Bsk you really have had a bad few months I feel for you. At least the results are not nice but better than you thought. I am sending you a great big hug XX

Rhona I have just seen the weather forecast for your area. I am willing the sunshine for you lol xxx

Patsy welcome, Sorry you haven't had any sleep it is bad enough with the pain but the lack of sleep makes it all seem so much worse. Hope all turns out well for your mum take care xx

The weather so far looks good. I am going to try to rest more to-day and maybe my hands might be less painful. Have a lovely day xxxx
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Date: 16.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, Marlene, willis & patsy,

I hope you are all having the sunshine where you are today. It is blowing a gale here and quite wet too. I went out this morning and noticed that my daffodils are all getting blown over and just when they were coming through.

I think it would be a good idea to rest your hand today Marlene. Do you find the sunshine helps with the pain? i was never too sure but i am more sore this week now that the rain is back so i think it must affect us.

Hope you are feeling better today bsk just take things easy until you get back on the enbrel.

I hope you Mum get's good news Patsy and you feel a bit better today, not good driving when you are sore.

Take care everyone xxx
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Date: 16.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi everyone,
good news in that I've been signed off from the eye hospital and everything is fine.

Confusing news is my rheumy rang and left a msg on my land line telling me to stop my meds (which I have anyway) and contact the thoracic Prof about treatment for infection. Not sure that is necessary so have asked him to ring me tomorrow. Think some wires have got crossed. I've got meds for the infection so think that should be enough but he didn't say anything about what else to do. Hmmmm!

Hope you are all ok. We had a lovely day today and I got out into the garden this evening for a bit. Everything is coming up at once. It's lovely at the moment.
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning Bsk Wow thank goodness some good news for you. It sounds like wires crossed.When he phones you have a good old chat about what else you you need to do. Lets hope you can have a good summer!! You have been through quiet enough lately X
Glad you had a lovely day. I am watching all the different things popping up in the garden its lovely.
There are a lot of bulbs come up blind tulips daffs hyacinths. My daughter has offered to dig them up so they can be dried and replanted.That should be fun.
Not much sun yet but as long as it doesn't rain I'm fine with that.
My hands are less swollen but are still very painfull.That is how OA works so why do I find this a shock when I am in so much pain??
I don't like to be taking all these painkillers but my gps blood test me and say all is fine nothing to worry about we are watching your intake. (so am I ) Oh well it could be worse!!!

Have a anice day everyone XX
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Very wet morning here, i hope this isn't going to be a repeat of last year although i think you are all having it better down south. Think i will have to move!

That is good that you have had the all clear with your eyes bsk. I hope you managed to speak to someone today and find out what is happening with your meds.

Take care xx
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Another day, another hospital.

Yes! I spent several hours today in eye hospital. Got the beginning of an infection in my eye. More drops. Hey ho.

Hope you are all doing ok? I'm away for a few days so don't be surprised if you don't hear from me. Have a lovely weekend all of you.
xx
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

For goodness sake, and they just signed you off at the eye hospital yesterday.

Hope you have a good few days away and feel better for it.

Take care xx
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona. I'm heartily sick of it all and am looking forward to getting away. Think i missed my rheumy's call this afternoon but don't care. I'll sort things out next week.

You take care too. xx
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

p.s. BACK ON THE ENBREL! just had a message from my rheumy. My two consultant's actually managed to talk to one another. Yay!
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Date: 17.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Rhona no sunshine for you again. I hope you get some good weather soon !!!!!
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies another sunny but very windy day here. The wind has been vicious all night the garden bench is upside down and the recycling was all scattered around the patio when I got up.
Hope all you ladies are ok to-day x
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

It is blowing a gale here this morning too. It has affected the reception on my tv and the trees in my garden are swaying.

Good news that you are back on the enbrel bsk. Hope you have a good time away.

Take care xx
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning! Just about to leave but it's blowing a gale here. My mini greenhouse has been destroyed. Just as well I haven't managed to sow many seeds yet!

Got a nice email from my rheumy this morning. Shame he is retiring. Really looking forward to getting away for a few days.

Hope you are all ok? Marlene, how are your hands?
xx
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Are you off somewhere nice bsk?
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, have a lovely break. Oh what a shame about your mini greenhouse. Maybe you can treat yourself to a new one?
It seems the wind is affecting us all. It could be worse I suppose.
My hands are still very sore but I am just trying to get on with it as it has started to get me down a lot. what can we do apart from get on with it. lol.
Have a lovely day Rhona.

Bsk ENJOY!!!!!!!
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hope your hands are a bit better tonight Marlene. I am feeling quite shivery and sore, it's the way i feel when the arthritis is playing up so i am going to bed now and hope i feel a bit better in the morning. I don't know if it's anything to do with the infusion or not.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 18.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona, I hope you get a good nights sleep and feel better in the morning. Take time to rest up a bit tomorrow.my hands are still pain full .
Nit Nite xxxxx
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Date: 19.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, well it has been very cloudy and rained a few times to-day.
I hope you slept well.
Not much news took mum to new hospital to-day for pace maker check. It seems very nice, clean everyone polite friendly and helpful. I didn't have a clue where we were going and staff asked me can we help? so that was very reassuring.Mum all ok so thats that for another year.

I hope bsk is enjoying her break she deserves it all thats she has been through of late

Take care sweetheart xx
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Date: 19.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

I feel a bit better today and the sun is shining here. It has been a beautiful day, the sun must have left you to come here. I just went over to M&S today and got the "dine in for £10" quite good value and a cheeky wee bottle of wine with it.

That is good that the new hospital is nice and everyone was helpful that does make a difference. Glad that your Mum got on well.

Yes, i hope bsk is enjoying herself she didn't say where she was going, hope it's somewhere nice.

Take care xx
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Date: 19.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

So glad you feel better to-day. Nice to have the sun shining for you at last.
I hope you enjoyed your meal and wine.

Nite xxxxxx
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Date: 19.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, i did enjoy it. I love their stawberry trifle.

Hope the weather is better for you tomorrow.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: mrlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, the sun is shining here this morning but it is a little cold still. Can't have everything lol.

My husband loves trifle!! when I make it and my youngest son comes round he always says" Oh yum kids pudding" I always made trifle for birthdays.
It always makes me smile and takes me back to when the kids were young.Enough about trifle haha.
I hope you are ok to-day I think my hands are a little better the swelling is going they are still throbbing but less so.
Have a lovely day xx
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Marlene,

The sun is shining here this morning too although quite a few clouds in the sky. That is great that your hands are a bit better today, you are sure due a break from the pain. Hopefully if the weather gets better you will find them easier.

I am like a big kid at times Marlene, trifle, pick-n-mix sweets etc etc.

I am feeling alright today, we are going away tomorrow to the coast and staying overnight, another deal i got lol.

Have a nice day,
Take care xx
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well good for you deals are good. I always find hotelsand B&Bs that do two night and get a third free although they are usually mid week. When you no longer have to worry about the kids I do like hanging baskets on the house.
Take care x
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It turned really quite cold this afternoon and i think we have rain and wind forecast for tomorrow (typical) will be nice at the coast in the wind and rain lol.

I hope your hand is still behaving Marlene. I am thinking i will have an early night tonight as feeling a bit shivery again.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: Patsy

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yep weather supposed be turning tomorrow. Hope to god we get good summer. In Portugal last year for two weeks and didnt have an ache or pain. Maybe it's time to emigrate lol. Im at a loss after leaving full tme job. I run Slimming World group but fallen into rut outside of that. Still, cant have it everyway. Marlene hope hand better. Hope you ladies dont mind me jumping in here but hard to know which topic to just go in and chat on.
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Date: 20.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

You are welcome to pop in any time Patsy. My daughter lives in Spain and at times i feel like moving there as i'm sure we would have less pain living in the sunshine. Good for you running a slimmers world and motivating everyone. Hope you daughter's communion goes well tomorrow, or was it today?
xx
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: Patsy

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Was today and glad its all done and dusted. Stressful having keep certain people away from others etc. Wore heels to chapel so il pay for that tomorrow. If my daughter lived in spain she'd be sick looking at me lol. My group keeps ME going, lovely bunch and keep me connected socially else id turn into recluse.
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, don't let the weather spoil your day have fun and don't do anything I wouldn't (oh go on then) LOL. Hope your shivers have gone away. Big hug xxx

Patsy, well thats all done I hope you enjoyed it!! Family events shouldn't be made stressful but I suppose if you have some that don't mix too well that can be awkward. Bless you if I thought I would have to spend the day watching people I wouldn't invite them so fair play to you!!!! I hope your daughter enjoyed the day.
You sound a busy lady slimming world! Good for you. It is very hard to be motivated at times. When I am in pain I close the door on the world.
Have a lovely day to-day and chin up xx
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, i will try and have fun even although it is a wet miserable morning here, perhaps it will clear up a bit (here's hoping) We will leave here around lunch time. I hope your hands are ok. I think we make the mistake of doing too much when we do feel a bit better then suffer for it.

Glad you got to wear your heels Patsy, i wish i could. You can relax now that it's all over.

Have a nice day xx
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I think you are right Rhona I tend to do so much one day and say tomorrow I will have a day off and very rarely do. My hands are getting there no where near as painfull as they have been.Thank goodness it was starting to get to me quiet a bit.
You take care and enjoy!! xxxx
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Everyone,

Am back from my trip to the west country to see my dad. Had good break and weather was lovely on the whole, if not a little windy, but I did catch a bit of sun. Had a very nice time, didn't do much but rest, eat and sleep.

How are things going for you all?
I gather you've been away Rhona. How are you hands Marlene?

Hi Patsy!
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Date: 21.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk, glad you had a good break with your dad. I hope you feel rested.
My hands are a lot better but I have noticed since the swelling has gone I have a couple of lumps left on finger joints. I googled and they look like bone spurs, that would account for all the pain. I will get them checked out when I go to gp next. I have to say they are not painfull unless I put pressure on the lumps.
This arthur is just a pain in the backside!!!!!!
My son came to-day and cut the grass he loves gardening.He is trying to get us to put decking in the patio area but it is so expensive. He has such good vision we are going to think about it.
Take care xxxxx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

HI Marlene, can they remove bone spurs? Glad your hands are better. Must be the weather.

I would advise you not to put decking down - it is dangerous when it is wet and needs a lot of cleaning. Just another job for you to do lol! My sister has it and it is so slippery when it is damp.
xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene & bsk,

Not long back from our short trip. The hotel was lovely and looked onto the golf course and sea. We managed a short walk yesterday as it dried up in the afternoon but very blustery today. Pleased to hear that you had a good break bsk, i hope you feel the benefit from it.

I agree with bsk regarding the decking Marlene, my daughter moved into her own little house last year and there was decking in her back garden but it was so slippy and dirty so it had to be lifted. It does look nice when new but i don't think it is practical.

Hope you have a nice day xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, glad you had a good break Rhona and you managed a lovely walk.
Don't worry about decking we are not sure thats what we want any way.
Sunny here again to-day so I have the washing out.More ironing!!!

Take care xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, glad to hear you've had a break too. It makes such a difference.

Poor Marlene, you will be scared to tell us anything soon! We've turned into an advisory service lol!

Lovely day here but wrists very painful today.

xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Bsk, lol no we had already decided last night not to deck because of the upkeep. We are getting older and want an easy life and replacing decking when we are in our 70s is not something we want to do. We are still not sure what to do it is a large area of different concrete and slabs (pink and white) along whith slate (plum) in one area shingle in another.It is a real mess. I am sure we will decide soon. Whatever we decide I think it will be costly. Any ideas!!! (LOL).

Sorry your wrists are painful my hands are a bit sore. We need some more sunshine.

Well take care ladies and all advice is gratefully recieved. Thats what I love about this forum all good pals to-gether.
xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene, We have still to decide what to put in my daughter's back garden, after the decking was lifted we discovered slabs underneath although they are filthy too. It is just a small area and not sure whether to try and clean the slabs or lift them and put something else down that is easily maintained. Perhaps we should have a discussion on gardens and make that a new topic lol. I was on the internet looking at ideas for small gardens but still not sure what should be done with it.

I hope your wrists improve soon bsk, now that you are back on the enbrel they should soon.

Meant to tell you that my daughter's eye has improved more so that's just the other one to get sorted now and she will see the consultant on thursday.
xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good news about your daughter's eye Rhona. I had check up at optician today who confirmed I only need reading glasses. So have ordered some from another optician.

Re: gardens, I would go for some kind of paving. It should last a lifetime. I forgot to mention I had concrete at the back too (must have been the preferred option back in the day). My HA dug it up and laid paving. I have quite a few pots and it looks lovely. The garden has really sprung to life. Cherry blossom on the verge of coming out, lots of daffs, tulips, grape hyacinth, periwinkle, violets.

Going to give my hands a rest now so take care all of you. xx
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Date: 22.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well it seems good news for your daughter Rhona and good news for you BSK.

The gardens are all coming to life every where and it is lovely.
Bsk maybe concrete was on a special at the time.lol. Me being thick sorry HA ????
Well I am going to get tucked up in bed it is 11:44 at my age I should be sleeping now hahah

xxxxxxxx
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Date: 23.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Housing Association Marlene. It was probably done post war when there weren't other materials available (according to my dad.)
Gorgeous morning.
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Date: 23.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Girlies,

Hope you are both well this morning. It is very windy here again, i have put a washing out but just hope it doesn't blow away.

I am so annoyed i went to the nurse this morning to get my bloods done before my rituximab infusion this friday and the nurse looked at the letter that the hospital had sent me saying which bloods were required and she said there is an extra blood test on here, we shouldn't be doing that, it should be the hospital and then she said you won't have the results back for friday and i said that the hospital would access them and she told me they can't do that and when i told her they did 2 weeks ago she got angry and said oh i will have to tell the doctor that, as they always tell us they can't. I couldn't see what the fuss was and told her so, she said it's political. I don't understand why people have to make things difficult. That's my rant over lol.

Have a nice day. xx
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Date: 24.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, another lovely day!!!
Bsk how stupid am I ?

Rhona I am not surprised you were angry who wants to know about political correctness when we are trying to get our health worries sorted.Numpties!!!!

We have been gardening to-day so much to do.
My daughter is enjoying helping with the garden.

My hubby has started to decorate dining room to-day as he has 12 days off work.
Hope you are both well xx
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Date: 24.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It was very wet here this morning Marlene, although this afternoon turned out nice. That is good that you are getting help with the garden, many hands make light work.

Not feeling so good today, my shoulder, neck and jaw is sore, a horrible feeling, just hope i am ok for friday.

My dog's breathing hasn't been too good today so i increased her steroids after speaking to vet but tonight she looked like she was having a fit or something similar, she was pushing her head into the soil in the garden then staggering about then running, horrible to watch, i might have to call the vet out.

Nite nite xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona & Marlene,

Sorry to hear you are not feeling too good Rhona and also about Millie. Let us know how you got on with the vet.

Marlene, how would you know what HA stands for? I was just being lazy not typing it out in full. My hands are not too good tonight so won't write for long but will be in touch tomorrow.
xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks bsk, still not feeling great but hopefully make it ok tomorrow. Millie seems a little better again although I will see how she goes today and i have an appointment tomorrow night with vet but if she gets worse i will call her in but i would like to keep her going on the steroids if i can as she is still alert and knows everything that's going on. I bought some cold meat, some from tesco and some from marks and she will only eat the M&S one. It's costing a fortune trying to get things she will eat.

I hope you are both ok today and your hands are a bit better.

How is the decorating coming along Marlene?

Take care xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good luck for tomorrow Rhona. I hope it goes well but let us know how you get on. Hope Millie picks up too. Don't blame her for picking M&S over Tesco lol! At least she is getting some comfort from her food.

How are you Marlene? Are you hands ok? Mine feel a bit better today. I rested them and spent a bit of time in the sun, which was lovely.

I keep getting tiny burst blood vessels in my eyes. Is probably the steroids but it is very disconcerting and not great to look at. Is this what your daughter got Rhona? I think mine are to do with the steroids I'm. Am trying to cut down slowly.

Back to winter tomorrow apparently. Oh well.
xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks bsk. When my daughter get's the bleeds they are at the back of her eye and you can't see them although they affect her vision. I know if you cough too hard you can sometimes get them and then they are noticable. Perhaps you should call the hospital and ask them just to put your mind at rest. My daughter was at the hospital this afternoon and the consultant is pleased with her eye and he is going to operate on the other one in a few months probably.

Heard it was lovely in London today, been raining and quite chilly here although i haven't been out as still not feeling so good.

Take care xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

what i mean is when you cough too hard it can sometimes show a spot of blood at front of eye but totally different from the ones at the back of eye, just thought i didn't make above post very clear. xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk and Rhona,
Rhona I don't blame Millie M&S any day. Let me know how she gets on (hugs)
Good luck tomorrow hope it goes well.
Bsk glad your hands feel better mine also thank god i was thinking they were never going to stop hurting.

Remember my neighbour I was telling you about to-day he came around looking so ill and ask us to call the police as somene had gone into his house.I called them of course. He said I can't breath properly and my blue inhaler is in my house so I gave him a new one I had. praying I was doing the right thing. He used it and his breathing came back to normal.Five police cars turned up and no one in the house. The poor man was terrified and the policeman and my husband coaxed him back in his house and phoned his daughter. The grandaughter came round to see me and said he didn't know who she was when she visited him on the saturday before. It may be he has dementia or something. She was so upset.They had him checked over by a paramedic and I saw them putting him in he car and they drove off. It is such a shame when he was talking to me he was so interesting and I didn't have a clue. Bless him. Sorry to go on it really upset me to think he was so afraid the poor man.

Well on a more cheerful note the dining room is comming along a treat. It looks so much cleaner amazing what a coat of paint can do.

Not happy that the bad weather is returning and now I am hopeful that this is not the end of summer like last year.
Take care xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Your post was clear Rhona. I just wasn't sure whether it was the same thing. My gp didn't think they could do much so maybe it's just time to heal. Very pleased to hear your daughter's eye has improved so much.That must be such a relief.

Your poor neighbour Marlene. I think it's fine to give someone an inhaler as it can't do much harm, just make him a bit speedy if he has too much.

What colour have you painted your dining room?

take care. xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene, Good to hear that you are getting some relief with your hands at last. What a shame for your poor neighbour, he must have been so frightened when he thought someone was in his house. I remember when we lived at my old house my neighbour's mother had dementia and when they went out and left her i would often find her wondering about and had to take her in until they got home, they eventually put her into a home.

Off to bed now as i have to leave here for 9am.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 25.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Bsk, I have painted the room soft pebble it is a very light mocha. We are having one wall papered and that has a tree design no leaves just outline of trees it is very pretty. The base colour of the paper is the same as painted walls.

My other half has a bloodshot eye and we thought it may of been the smoke from the bonfire that caused it but it is the whole of the white is red. He says it is not bothering him but it looks awful.

Sleep well good luck once again for tomorrow Rhona
XX
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sounds interesting Marlene.
Re: bloodshot eye, sometimes conjunctivitis can cause bloodshot eye, esp if the whole white is red. He can get eye drops for it from a pharmacist - who will look at at - so bear that in mind if it doesn't improve.
xx
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well this morning we have had rain brilliant sunshine and then a downpour of hail stones and it was so loud it had the dog worried and now brilliant sunshine. Madness!!!!

My hubby has drs at 3:20 today. Getting it checked out along with the constant sciatica he is still in a lot of pain. We know all about pain!
Have you anything exciting on the agenda! It seems the next village to us has a two week festival. We are going to have a look at what they do on the days. We know one day they are having a street market with lace making iron foundry ect might be interesting. We will be going to have a look weather permitting. I will google and see what else they do. I guess living in a village we should support one and other. I am getting used to village life. It is very different to living in London.
Take care and I hope you are well to-day X
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

I spent quite a few years in a village. You have to get involved in all the local stuff. I always quite liked it.

My hands are terrible today. I had to come home to take more steroids and painkillers. My left hand particularly bad which is unusual. I'll see how it goes but will have to contact rheumy dept if it doesn't improve. Hope your OH has a good drs appt.
xx
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi bsk & Marlene,

Infusion went without any problems today (so far) and getting the steroid they give beforehand seems to have settled my shoulder, neck & jaw a bit. I hope your hands are a bit better tonight bsk.

Your wallpaper sounds lovely Marlene, i love that design and it does sound lovely.

I had Millie at the vet tonight again, i just kept her in the car and the vet came out to the car to examine her as it is less stressful for her, she is of the opinion that we should put her to sleep now and has given me 5 days supply of steroids for her. The difficult thing is she seems to have good days and then not so good days so will see how things go over the next few days.

We went for something to eat tonight to an italian place just along the road and within walking distance from my house, it was lovely but getting tired now, i had a large glass of wine, hope it was safe after the infusion lol.

I hope your husband got on alright at the doctors Marlene.

Take care xx
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona,

glad things went well today and you are feeling more comfortable tonight. Sorry to hear Millie isn't doing too well though. It's always a difficult decision when to put a pet to sleep but maybe you should see whether she has more good days than bad days - might help with your decision.

My hands are a bit better tonight. I really don't know what is going on as my wrists are sometimes extremely painful and then they settle down. I did very little today with my hands which has probably helped. My eyes are irritated too and I've got a small clot in the white of one of them. Am monitoring it and, if if gets any bigger, I will take myself off to Moorfields over the weekend.

I am so sick of hospitals, doctors, opticians. I even cancelled a dental appt this week as couldn't face another surgery!

Marlene, how did things go today?
take care xx
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, glad all went well to-day Rhona. Poor Millie I am sure you will make the right choice when the time is right. Hugs xx I am sure the wine will be ok.It will help you sleep lol

Bsk sorry your hands have been so bad I feel for you.

My OH had a good Drs appoinments they are requesting MRI scan at long last. The DR is concerned that this has been going on so long. She was telling him that surgery is sometimes needed. His face painted a picture when he said my wife has had back surgery. The gp went a bit quiet and said well lets wait and see what your results are. Oh dear!! They said it should be 2/3 week wait not too long.

My neighbours grandaughter was back on her own at 2:15 this morning and left again about 20mins later. I would assume he must be in hospital Bless. I hope he will be ok.
Nite sleep tight xxxx
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Date: 26.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Just a short message before i head to bed. Usually a blood clot on the white of the eye is nothing to worry about bsk but it wouldn't do any harm to call the hospital and ask them what they think or pop in if it's not too far away. My daughter got a leaflet when she left hospital and there was a helpline number if you had any questions or problems so they must expect people to call for advice.

That's good that your hubby is getting a scan Marlene. I don't think i would ever have surgery on my back. I would be too scared.

I hope your neighbour is alright, poor man.

Nite nite, sleep well.
xx
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Date: 27.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Tbanks Rhona. I'm sure it will go, it just looks nasty.
x
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Date: 27.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, what a rotten day with the weather my hands are so painful again.

How is your eye bsk? My OH eye seems to be looking a lot better.
Rhona how is Millie? Are you doing ok after your infusion?

Take care xxxx
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Date: 27.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That's a shame that your hands are sore again Marlene, the weather seems to affect your hands quite a bit. It has actually been quite a good day here, at least it has been dry and bright.

I am feeling fine after the infusion thanks but probably i'm still getting the benefit from the steroid they give beforehand and it doesn't usually last long.

Millie is not too bad today and she is eating normal food now and enjoying it (not interested in dog food anymore) I will see how she is during the week and if she is the way she is just now then i hope the vet gives me more steroids for her.
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Date: 28.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

My eye still got a red clot in it. Looks delightful haha. My hands are bad still. I don't understand it - I'm on the pred and had 3 doses of enbrel, which usually works pretty quickly.

Good to hear Millie is eating Rhona.

going to bed as it's late.
chat tomorrowxx
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Date: 28.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning, well the sun is popping its head out now and again but it is cold.
My hands are still very sore and the left one is swollen again. I don't know if its the weather or not.
Bsk it is so annoying with this painful hand thing it stops you doing so much. I wanted to finish my hanging baskets but that wont be happening now.
I hope your hands are better to-day. I had mine between two hot water bottles last night, I can hardly walk around like that all day. Someone might think I'm a bit odd . lol.

Rhona so glad you are doing well. Nice that your weather is not too bad.
Millie seems like she has the right idea. She is old but clever when it comes to getting the best food on offer. Bless her and why not????

My fish tank is set back up and I have put my first few fish in. So that will keep me busy.

Just the wallpaper to go in the dining room it is looking much better. I will be glad when all the rooms have had a lick of paint as the house was very unloved and some of the walls are quiet dirty. I don't mind my dirt but not other peoples if you know what I am saying.

Bsk would you go back to village life or do you prefer the hustle and bustle of the town? Mind you it is very nice where you are my Dad came from R.F.Hsptl area and it was very nice there.

I used to go to the big fair there when I was a teenager. I guess it is still there every year. So many lovely walks there thinking about it your are still in one of the most beautiful country areas. I think thats around where you are.
Well I know its Sunday but I have some things I need to do so I had better stop going on.

Have a lovely day xx
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Date: 28.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning, it has been very wet here this morning but the rain is off at the moment but a lot of clouds in the sky. My youngest daughter holds a bootcamp class on a sunday morning (outdoors) so not sure how many would turn up for it in the rain but then again they are probably used to it by now.

I am sorry to hear that you both are still suffering. My head is sore this morning and i my neck is crunching again when i turn it. I think we are all needing a long holiday in the sun with everything getting done for us, someone to set our clothes out for us and cook our food etc (just like the royals) I see Prince Philip is in Canada, he certainly gets around for an old boy.

You do have some lovely places down south Marlene, I have a cousin that lives in Guildford and my sister-in-law lived in Windsor when her husband was in the army, i liked it there.

Have a nice day xx
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Date: 28.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, its like winter here again. The sun was trying to come out but it is cold. I can't beleive this weather.

I am picturing the scene how lovely waited on hand and foot. You are right about Prince Phillip he is amazing for his age.

Windsor is a lovely place and some of it is very expensive. I don't really know Guildford.

We came to Scotland when the kids were young and stayed on a farm in a large caravan My husbands brother and family stayed in the other caravan we had a great time. We can't even remember where we stayed. It was beautiful scenery and the kids just loved the freedom of the country.

Well take care xx

I hope you are ok bsk xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Very windy here today and showers on and off and to think we are almost at the end of April, let's hope that May brings warmer weather.

I hope you are both feeling a bit better today and your hands are not so painful.

Are you ok bsk?

Take care xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona & Marlene

I'm feeling exhausted today, had to go back to sleep two hours after I got up. My hands are not great either. I guess the fatigue is RA, at least I hope it's not a bug I'm coming down with. Got some friends from France arriving tonight. They're staying for a week so hope I feel better later on as I want to cook for them.

Gorgeous day from my sofa!

Hope you are both ok.
xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It does sound like the r/a bsk, i hope it settles down a bit and you can enjoy time with your visitors. Are they French or have they moved to France to live? Don't overdo it though. xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Rhona. I've been sleeping all day. Luckily my friend and her husband are very laid back. They are French, I used to share a house with her 30 odd years ago.

How is Millie today?
xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

That will be lovely especially when you have been friends so long.

She'e not too bad at the moment thanks. I took her a short walk along the side of the park beside us and it was so windy that we were almost blown away but she seems to want to be outside all the time even in the wind and her appetite is alright but probably because of the steroids.
xx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh that's good Rhona.
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, I hope your friends visiting are the tonic you need Bsk. Sleeping is good if thats what you need hope it has helped a bit. Try not to overdo things. I am sofa surfing myself tonight. It has been a lovely sunny day here.

Rhona, glad to hear Millie is stil doing ok. I hope the weather brightens up soon for you.

Take care and Bsk enjoy your time with your friends. xxxx
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Date: 29.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thanks Marlene. The sleep does seem to have done me good as I feel a lot better this evening. Sometimes you just have to listen to your body and rest.
take care. xx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hope you are both well today. Beautiful sunny day here for a change.

I agree bsk, we should listen to our bodies more and rest when we are tired. Are you having fun with your visitors?

Have a nice day.
xx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi there, resting is what we all need to do a lot more, well I certainly do. Curled up on the sofa at 6:30 last night and never moved until 10:30 and then I went to bed. I slept quite well. I feel much better for it to-day.

My hands are still very painfull but at least they aren't throbbing now.

Glad you have a sunny day Rhona it just makes you feel better. It has been sunny here but it is 3 o'clock now and its getting a little cloudy.

We have a meeting at the village hall to-night. We are going along out of curiosity and it will be nice to meet some of the other neighbours.
I hope you are having fun with your friends bsk.

Take care xxxxxx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: Bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hope it's not like The Vicar of Dibley Marlene lol! Only joking, I'm sure there are some lovely people for you to meet.
Glad to hear you are feeling marginally better today. Me too actually. The sleep yesterday did me good.

My visitors are doing the tourist thing in town today. Lovely to see them and they bought me all kinds of French goodies!

take care xx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

wow i hope its not too many chocolates (LOL). I hope they enjoy their day.
We were in Paris this time last year for hubbies 60th.. We did all the tourist things had a brilliant time. I am glad you are feeling a bit better.

I hope it is like the vicar of Dibley that would make my day.

On a more sad note my elderly neighbour has a mass on his lung and is home, he doesn't want to pass away in hospital. His two grandaughters are taking it in turns to look after him. It must be hard for them they do have young families. Bless them. Its a shame as I didn't get to know him that well and he seemed so full of information. It seems he has written three books and they are going to use some of his assets to get them leather bound.

Let you know how the meeting went !!!!!!

take care xx

,
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi All,
hope you are all coping ok. not too bad this end just hoping the sun stays for quite a few months now :) Husband was at hospital and has to have 6hr aneurisym op on 4th June that will keep him recuperating for up to 6 months so I'm just praying my RA behaves for a while or we'll be useless lol. Been told to put in application for ESA but having looked at the forms I'm losing the will to live - everything including knicker size I think they want to know. and looking at some of the others GPs scant letters of support, it makes you wonder if it's worth the hassle.
BSK hope you're feeling better just think how rich we could all be if we were paid for resting and sleeping :)
Marlene I hope your hands are feeling better and that the meeting at Village Hall went ok and that it was very Vicar of Dibley - just what every village needs I think lol
Rhona, Millie sounds like she is more than happy were she is and no one should doubt her, and it's nice to see she makes you smile :)
to anyone else I've missed here I hope you are all doing ok and looking forwards and resting xxx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Willis,

Good to hear from you. That sounds like a long operation for your husband, i hope it all goes well. Sometimes the waiting can be the worst part. I know my daugher was really nervous before her operation and hers took 3 hours.
I think they make the forms so long to try and put people off filling them in but you are entitled to it.

That's a shame about your neighbour Marlene, poor man. How was the meeting? Did you meet many of your neighbours?

Hope all is well with you and your Friends bsk. It will be nice having the company.

Sleep well folks xxx
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Date: 30.04.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Willis - good to see you on here. Hope your husband's op goes well. It seems like a very long recovery period. I hope he does well.

It is a shame about your neighbour Marlene. Very sad.

It's lovely to have the company and they are a pleasure to have around Rhona.

Hope you are all ok.
xx
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Date: 01.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well it's the first of May and raining again and a bit windy. It feels more like March than May.

Hope you are all as well as can be expected today. I am alright and Millie is doing ok on the magic steroids.

Have a nice day xx
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Date: 01.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Willis, sorry to hear about your hubby I am sure you will battle through it all together. I hope all goes well and he recovers quickly. Hugs for you both x

Bsk and Rhona, well the meeting was ok met a lot of neighbours all seem very nice. The owner of what they call the big house (it is very big) It also has lots land. Well ecentric is what you call him along with his cans of Cider that he drank all evening made him a very funny character. He does a lot for the church in the village to keep it tip top. When I saw him I thought of you bsk not vicar of dibley but just as funny.
The weather has been lovely here to-day hubby did a BBQ very nice no cooking dinner for a change. Music to my ears. lol.
Nice to hear you are enjoying your friends company bsk.I bet you will miss them when they go back!!
Take care all xx
By the way my hands feel so much better to-day.
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Date: 01.05.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi everyone,

Good to hear things are going well with you Marlene and Rhona. I'm sure the weather helps a bit though I slid off a footstool earlier onto my hand and my wrist now very painful. Not very elegant either.

Having a lovely time with my friends. I will miss them when they go back. They took me for dinner tonight which was great and we all had breakfast outside this morning it was so warm. The first of the year!

Yay for magic steroids! Could do with some more myself right now lol!

xx
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Date: 01.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh I envy all you southerners eating al fresco in the sunshine, i think i will have to move from here. We have had some heavy showers here today.

Did you not get an invite to the "Big House" Marlene? perhaps he throws some good cider parties lol. I love BBQ's too and not having to cook is great. It's funny how a burger always tastes much better outside.

I think you must have had too much of the french wine bsk if you are falling off the stool lol. Seriously, i hope it's not too sore, perhaps some french wine would help the pain.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 02.05.2013
From: willis

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Rhona do you live in Scotland by any chance? I'm from Edinburgh originally and now living in Essex for past 16 years and kent 4 years before that and although I know the weather north can be worse than here i'd come 'home' tomorrow if i could :) were i live is ok but the actual town has gone downhill so much.
x
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Date: 02.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Willis, Yes, I live in sunny Scotland, just 10 mins from Glasgow City Centre. I like Edinburgh, it is a lovely city. I suppose we can't have it all. That's a while you have been away, i guess you are an Essex girl now, lol

Hope you and your husband are coping with things.
Take care xx
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Date: 03.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Ladies, well it has been a beautiful day here again. Rhona I saw the weather forecast for Scotland and it didn't look good to-day. I hope it is better for the week-end.
We are going for a Pub lunch on Sunday with my youngest son and his family. I am looking forward to it.
I am feeling not too bad at the minute the only thing really bothering me is my back. That is a life long thing so I just get on with it.
I am tired to-day had a bad night. Whats new.

Are you doing anything this week-end?
I hope all you ladies have had a good day. xxxxx
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Date: 03.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes it has been raining here non stop all day Marlene, i do get fed up with it. I did see the weather for you has to get even warmer over the weekend, oh it's not fair.

We may go for dinner tomorrow night but nothing else planned at the moment. It would have been nice to go for away for the day but if it's raining i won't be going too far.

Enjoy your lunch with the family Marlene.

How are you bsk & Willis?
xx
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Date: 04.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Morning Rhona,Dinner out is always something I enjoy as its like a holiday lol. I like cooking but sometimes its hard work trying to do different things every day.

I hope the weather comes good for you soon and when it does you can't bet we will have the rain haha.

I hope you have a good week-end.

Bsk hope you are not to worn out enjoying yourself with your friends

Willis I hope you and hubby are doing ok.

xxxxxxx
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Date: 04.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Thankfully it is a bit better this morning Marlene, at least the sun has make an appearance, just hope it stays out and i have a washing getting blowing about outside, it is a bit breezy.

Surprising, i noticed that i have some lillies coming through again that i bought last year that i had put in tubs, they were lovely last year so hope they flower again, with all the rain we have had i thought they would have been drowned.

Have a nice day, you should get your feet up outside and make the most of the sunshine.

xx
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Date: 04.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Well Rhona, it poured down this morning! although the sun popped out it was colder here to-day. Tomorrow the forecast is good again. I will wait and see.
Lillies are just lovely I had them in the old garden and they are hardy and usually flower year after year. I could never grow lily of the valley and in this garden it is growing just waiting to burst open in flower.

I have been sitting in the sun as much as I can.As you can imagine its mostly doing gardening as the garden hasn't been well tended either but it is getting there. Thank goodness we all like gardening.(kids as well).

You take care xx
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Date: 05.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Good Morning Marlene,

I hope you are well today. It is very cloudy here this morning, i don't think the rain is too far away. Yesterday was so cold and windy, it felt like winter. We went to the casino last night for dinner, i am not a gambler but they do a lovely meal and it is nice surroundings.

I was speaking to my daugher that lives in Spain this morning and she wished me happy mother's day lol, it is mother's day in Spain and next week it's mother's day in Canada, isn't it funny how we all have it at different times.

Have a lovely lunch with the family today Marlene and i hope the sun is shining for you.

Hope you are well bsk, i guess you will be busy with your visitors just now.

Take care xx
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Date: 05.05.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene & Rhona, sorry I haven't posted by very busy with guests as you can imagine. Lovely to have them here but they are going tomorrow. I'm doing ok. Hope you are the same!
Will write a longer post when everyone has gone!
Take care
xx
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Date: 05.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, I am glad you enjoyed your meal. it sounds fun having a meal in a casino I have never been in one. I a not a gambler either. But if it serves lovely food I would give it a go. I am not a big drinker usually diet coke but I love an old pretty pub to have a family lunch.
The pub we went to was so pretty with the old log burners and big beams but was very bright. They are usually a bit dim inside. That had a lovely garden that the little ones enjoyed.
It was a lovely sunny day but a little windy so we ate inside.
It was nice to be with all the family apart from my daughter she was working. I didn't know my eldest son and his family were going to be there so that was a nice surprise. His eldest daughter 13 nearly 14yrs was made up when the waitress gave her an adult menu she is so tiny it doesn't happen very often.She is such a little lady.
The youngest one was showing me and grandad her new summer outfit she gave a whirl in her skirt and told us these are new shoes as well she pulled up her skirt and said I have new knickers . Not such a lady yet LOL.
I am off to a flower show tomorrow with my daughter I am hope the weather is still good.
My hubby is back on nights from tonight after a 12 day break the time just flew by.

Glad you are ok bsk can't wait to her all your news!!!!
Don't forget to take some rest when your friends have gone you seem like you are having fun.

XXXXX
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Date: 05.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Glad you enjoyed it Marlene. I bet the little one gave you all a laugh, they can be so cute. I remember you saying your husband had 12 days off and it doesn't seem long ago, times does fly. Did you get the dining room finished?

I haven't been out today, i haven't felt too good, sore shoulders and feeling a bit dizzy but not so bad now though and i think i will have an early night.

Good to know you are alright bsk.
xx
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Date: 05.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, taking an early night seems the best thing to do I hope you are feeling better tomorrow. Take a hot water bottle and put it on your shoulder. I hope the dizzy feeling goes away.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 06.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, forgot to say yes the dining room is all finished and it looks lovely. The house is coming to-gether. It takes time and money!!!!!
Most of the savings have run out lol.(holiday funds) Well i'm not laughing but it is all worth it. I just love it here. xxxxxx
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Date: 06.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

Another wet miserable morning here, i keep hoping when i look out the window in the morning the weather will have improved. It starts to get you down.

You must feel proud that the house is all coming together now and at least you are seeing something for your money. I was watching one of the property shows on TV this morning where they buy a property and do it all up and then show the amazing results. I was thinking of you when i was watching it.

Have a nice day xx
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Date: 06.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Oh Rhona, surely the sunshine must reach you soon. We are in for rain in the next few days maybe the sun will come your way.
I watch that property show. I love the way the do up all the homes that have been unloved for years. It makes a new home for some one to rent or buy. I love all those shows. Escape to the country is another I watch. The latest is Sarah Beeney when she helps people make small changes to sell the houses and flats.
I used to love the make over garden shows as well but they seem not to make them any more.
Rhona the cottage we live in is three bedrooms and it is one of those houses that should be loved. I hope we get it all done before we get too old LOL.
Do you live country or Town. My daughter went to Edinburgh for a hen do and she keeps telling us to go for a short break. I would love too. I should have a look on line to see whats on offer.

Well tonight I am feeling washed out went to a flower show to-day did a bit of walking and now I am paying the price. Tomorrow I am going to rest up.
My daughter has two weeks off work and she looks for days out so I need to rest in between.
Take care Rhona xx
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Date: 06.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

I do hope the sun comes our way soon or else i will have to put in a complaint lol. If only i could.

We live in a village Marlene, it used to be a mining village years ago but there have been lots of newer houses built over the years. We live in a 3 bedroomed bunglow and i am only a few mins away from the motorway and 10mins from Glasgow City Centre. We are about 45mins away from Edinburgh. It is an interesting city and i like the walk up the royal mile to the castle passing all the tourist shops and alleyways where they have the ghost tours.

That is nice if your daugher is off and you can go on some outings but good idea to rest up.

I went today looking at dining table/chairs but can't decide what i want so now looking online.

Sleep well xx
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Date: 06.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sounds a really nice place to live. Village life but not too far away from everything. Same for me.
It is a nightmare trying to choose new furniture. I usually look here there and every where and go back to the first shop. It is worth looking on line they do have some real bargains.
We needed some new chairs for the dining room and we paid half the price on line. Try amazon the do have a lot of good priced sellers on there.

Happy shopping.

Have a good nighhts rest xxx

missing bsk
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Date: 07.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

It is a beautiful day here today, how nice to see the sunshine and it is warm too.

I hope you are all feeling well today and it is still nice where you are.

Chat later, think i will sit in the garden for a bit. xx
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Date: 07.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

So glad the sunshine has reached you. I do feel a lot better to-day thanks.

It is still nice here and I have been in the garden again to-day. Enjoy your sit in the garden.

xx
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Date: 07.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene,

I hope you have had a nice day in the sunshine. It has been lovely here but the forecast is for rain again tomorrow, perhaps they will be wrong (wishful thinking)

I am wondering what bsk is up to, perhaps she's went away to France with her friends.

Take care and sleep well xx
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Date: 07.05.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hello everyone,

no I didn't go to France Rhona but wouldn't mind doing so! Sorry I haven't been around but my father was here too and everyone has just gone home. I had a lovely week and my friends were great at helping with stuff so I didn't have to manage on my own. Am really missing them but it's nice to get back to normal.

How are you all? I'll catch up with all your posts later.
xx
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Date: 08.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Rhona, it is raining here this morning. My left knee is so painful this is a new one LOL.

Bsk so pleased you had a good time. Dad as well how lovely. I bet you are tired. It is nice when everyone helps out. I bet your home is very quiet today. Why don't you popped across to France?? I bet your friends would love to have you.

Well I am off to London to-day to take mum to tidy her parents grave. Makes a lovely day out (not). It always makes me feel miserable for the day but it has to be done, no one else offers to take her I wouldn't know why LOL.
Catch up later.

Have a good day X
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Date: 08.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi Marlene & bsk,

It is dry here at the moment but rain due later today.

I bet your house seems quiet now that your friends and your Dad have gone home bsk, i always feel a bit sad when my daughter goes back to Spain.

Oh Marlene, i hope your knee is not going to start up, mine did that last week but it seems to have settled again. I hope it dries up before you go to your grandmother's grave as those places always seem worse on a wet day.

Take care xx
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Date: 08.05.2013
From: bsk

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Yes it is quiet but I am liking it! Spent today in Moorfields again today. I have inflammation in my eye from the last cataract op. Feels better already with the drops (which I have to use for a month!)

Hope today wasn't too awful Marlene. xx
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Date: 08.05.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Hi ladies, no it wasn't too bad the sun came out which helped and we took Mum to lunch.

Bsk I hope your eye continues to feel better.
I bet you are enjoying a relax after your busy week.

My knee is still sore but it feels better than this morning.
Well I am off to bed.
Take care sleep tight xx
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Date: 08.05.2013
From: rhona

Subject: Re: New thread for Rhona bsk and Marlene

Sometimes it is nice to get the house to yourself again after having visitors bsk and it can be tiring. I hope the drops clear your eye up. My daughter had to use drops for about 3 weeks after the operation. Do they know why it is inflamed?

I'm pleased the sun came out for you Marlene, i should really visit my father's grave as it has been a while and it is less than a mile from my house but i know it gets looked after as my brother and nephew are also in the same plot and his family go often with flowers. Glad your knee is a bit better.

It was quite a miserable day here but regardless of the weather i am going to go into town tomorrow.

Sleep well xx
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