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Date: 27.01.2013
From: Jolene

Subject: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

I'm a 35 year old mum to a 1 year old and have been struggling badly with the Rheumatoid since i was 3 months pregnant. I have no-one to talk to about how difficult it is for me on a day to day basis and wondered if there was anyone else out there in the Dorset area in the same situation as me, who would like to meet up for coffee??
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Date: 28.01.2013
From: davina

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

hi jolene i don't live near dorset but i too have had ra since during my pregnancy (which doctors said was normal aches and pains until he was born)

i have a 3 1/2 year old now and trying for another child, i know how you feel completely and find/found everything difficult from bottles to dressing and baby sleeping.

i am sorry you are finding it difficult and i know it must still be early for you, i have been going tho this for 4 yrs and still suffering even when on meds so hopefully the doctors can help you.

i have facebook if you would like to add as a friend we can talk more privately x
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Date: 28.01.2013
From: Jolene

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Hi Davina,

Thank you so much for your reply :).

I would love to talk to you more on facebook. My name is Jolene Palmer and my network is bournemouth.

I look forward to you hearing from you x x
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Date: 28.01.2013
From: Tara

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Hi there
I am sorry to hear your struggling , I really know how u feel Im 41 and have ra I have 6 kids some days its very hard my joints are so stiff and sore but I take it an hour at a time the meds arent really working for me yet and I'm hoping my consultant will change them or mix them up a bit
I live in the west of Ireland so can't meet up but come on here any time and vent we all know how you feel
Take care
Tara
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Date: 28.01.2013
From: marlene

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Hats off to all you young Mums. You all do a great job regardless of your pain. It is so lovely to see you all supporting one and another.
I am 61yrs and suffer with OA and when I can't pick up my grankids it hurts so I can only imagine how tough it must be for you ladies.
Take Carexxxxx
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Date: 28.01.2013
From: Lynn

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Hi jolene I'm sorry to hear you are struggling I have psoriatic arhtritis which is similar to rheumatoid I am 36 years old and have 3 children ages 8 and 9 (I have twins) I have been suffering for nearly 3 years and still suffering and I know how you feel trying to cope and look after kids is not an easy thing to do.

If you have any questions please feel free to ask

Lynn
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Date: 30.01.2013
From: Jolene

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Thank you everyone for your messages :). It's so lovely to hear from people that are going through the same things as me!!. You can feel so alone sometimes dealing with the constant pain and tiredness. I have a brilliant partner who has had to support me and my young son but I'm finding some friends and family just don't understand the illness and think that on my bad days I'm just being lazy and can't be bothered to take care of my son!!!.... Which is so upsetting as I've had to watch people help me with son since he was born, holding him when I couldn't, feeding him, changing his nappies ect.. No mother wants to watch other people take care of her new born baby!!! I couldn't even lift him onto myself to be breastfeed and had to get other people to do it!!

Oh god... I started to rant then... Sorry :)

I'm hoping to start to feel better soon, as Yesterday I started Embryal(Not sure of correct spelling), which I've heard works brilliantly wih some people. So fingers crossed things start to get easier soon.

Thanks All for listening x x x
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Date: 30.01.2013
From: Lynn

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Don't worry about ranting jolene that's what the forum is for it has helped me greatly since my diagnosis and like you I felt that apart from my husband no one knows how we are affected and I fear they sometimes think I'm just being lazy!!! I wish.
I'm glad you have started enbrel I was on this and also humira as well as the usual dmard s but due to a lot of side effects have been taken off all.

Keep us posted and I hope the enbrel works soon.
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Date: 30.01.2013
From: Tara

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

Rant away girl we al have to get our feelings of our chest
its not good to hold it in
theres great ppl on here with good advice andd can put us
on the right track
take care
Tara
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Date: 03.02.2013
From: davina

Subject: Re: Rheumatoid and bringing up children

hi ladies rant all you want its so nice again talking to others about how hard it is as a person as well as looking after children, the school run when you can hardly move your arm ect.

i too found it difficult when i needed someone to just hold lucus for my arm to relax, it made me feel like a bad mother for a while until i delt with it and understood why it was this bad, i still feel bad that i can't do things like walk around a farm which he misses out on ect..

well good luck to you all, any questions just ask, i'm trying for another baby as we speck and been of meds since last march which is the biggist srtuggle at the moment for me but its what i want so well see x x
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